From two-pump chump to a pornstar, but at what cost?

[Nefatis Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nefatis]

So I've beaten my premature ejaculation completely, and can now ejaculate at will at most times.

But at what cost?

I've lost interest in sex. Sex does not give me anything. It's like a chore for me now. Sure I can fuck the brains out of pretty much anyone right now, but I don't get anything in return.

So my words for all the brethren; while training yourself to last longer no doubt is something you should do to improve your life; do not go overboard and become just a sex robot.

[bigmoe5067 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigmoe5067]

sounds more like a psychological problem than a pe problem.

i dont see even in the slightest how having complete ejaculatory control makes you a sex robot.

what you get is the fun of sex, the more intense orgasm from increased pressure built up over longer sex. the satisfaction of knowing you are great in the sac....the list really goes on and on

[TruuCamp Member Find all posts View Profile Close TruuCamp]

Question is : HOW did you get rid of your early ejaculation ?

Outline these steps so people wont end up in the same whole you are in now.

Too much kegels ? Too much masturbating ? Too much sex ?

[zunamary Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close zunamary]

sounds more like a psychological problem than a pe problem.

i dont see even in the slightest how having complete ejaculatory control makes you a sex robot.

what you get is the fun of sex, the more intense orgasm from increased pressure built up over longer sex. the satisfaction of knowing you are great in the sac....the list really goes on and on

Agree.. I don't know who would be mad about this or why would you lose interest in sex. For me, and I think for some others as well, my main goal is to last as I want in order to pleasure my partner and make her cum, in that way I'd feel really good and I'll get pleasure as well.

Maybe you just need to find your goal around sex, other than just get it in and out.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I am interested in training methodology used.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

I imagine that what he means is ,for him, so much concentration and effort is involved that sex has turned into an equation of sorts. Maybe because of this the intimacy and connection with the partner is gone therefore it has become uninteresting and even boring. Thats what i got out of the OP anyway.

[steveshorny1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close steveshorny1]

yes, please share your path to success. How long did it take you, how bad was your PE problem prior to curing yourself etc etc. I think all us guys with PE are curious to know.

[Nefatis Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nefatis]

I imagine that what he means is ,for him, so much concentration and effort is involved that sex has turned into an equation of sorts. Maybe because of this the intimacy and connection with the partner is gone therefore it has become uninteresting and even boring. Thats what i got out of the OP anyway.

You're on the right track. But I don't see any effort or concentration in sex right now. It's more like, first I lost interest in masturbation, because it was a task of "edge/balloon for X time", instead of going for pleasure.

My path to success? Well first of all realize that my problem wasn't physical one, but arousal problem. I tackled my problem with first:

Conditioning myself with a month or two of heavy routine reverse kegels, after that I stopped kegeling completely and have been doing combined sessions of edging / ballooning for atleast 30mins per day.

I learned to separate ejaculation from orgasm, so when nearing PONR I can now stimulate myself in a way to only cause an ejaculation.

Also, I've been regularly using bathmate for around 3 months now, I have no idea if the use of it has had any effect on it.

But all these combined, and I've become a god in sack, but also insensitive.

[Drummer19 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Drummer19]

Something is not right here...

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Ummm this is a Quote
learned to separate ejaculation from orgasm, so when nearing PONR I can now stimulate myself in a way to only cause an ejaculation.
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If this is what you are doing you have everything back to front.

[BrianStorm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BrianStorm]

Dude it sounds like you've put your focus in the wrong place. It's great that you've managed to train yourself to last longer, (masses of kudos to you) but sex isn't solely about lasting longer. It's almost like you've concentrated so much on lasting longer that that's your only goal when having sex with someone.

Try to remember exactly why it is you want to fuck this person. I don't know if you're in a relationship or if you're doing things more casually but chances are you want to have fun but also want them to have fun to. You should try new stuff and mix things up - do much more foreplay or do other acts an an end in themselves or S&m or whatever... - to make things seem less stagnant.

Just my thoughts; good luck chap.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

I learned to separate ejaculation from orgasm, so when nearing PONR I can now stimulate myself in a way to only cause an ejaculation.

What exactly are you doing to 'stimulate yourself?'

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

By saying you have become less sensitive, do you mean the feeling in your pee wee. If so you have done some damage and should take a break. A numb penis is not a great thing.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

He states he ejaculates without orgasm ,whcih is the reverse of mmo training if it isn't a typo.

[hopefuldude Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude]

I can see how it can happen. Pleasureless sex isn't good sex, no matter how long it can last.