The Death Grip

[JamesMonroe]

Btw..... extreme DE and loss of good EQ from doing the death grip is reversal if you have gone too far. Just ask Pegasus.

*reversible

[Griff99]

I figured if anyone would have an answer it would be you. Thanks you're a huge help as always.

Im not too concerned with DE at the moment as I am a three pump chump, I'll cross that bridge if I ever get to it.

[JamesMonroe]

I figured if anyone would have an answer it would be you. Thanks you're a huge help as always.

Im not too concerned with DE at the moment as I am a three pump chump, I'll cross that bridge if I ever get to it.

You're welcome and good luck.

[DWA]

I've noticed that my glans has become significantly less sensitive after a few weeks of using the death grip. Before it would be hypersensitive after ejaculation and now its by no means that hypersensitive anymore. James, I can't thank you enough for bringing this up, because I feel this technique is the main ingredient for curing my pre. ejac.

[JamesMonroe]

I've noticed that my glans has become significantly less sensitive after a few weeks of using the death grip. Before it would be hypersensitive after ejaculation and now its by no means that hypersensitive anymore. James, I can't thank you enough for bringing this up, because I feel this technique is the main ingredient for curing my pre. ejac.

You're welcome and I hope it is part of the cure. I never claimed it was a cure since it was just a test but it helped me, that's for sure. I always tell people through to watch for negative signs like loss of EQ, although its reversible. the death grip is proven to make last longer and to have DE(negative problem) not only by doctors but users on this website. I figured that if used properly and carefully, it might be a positive thing. We just have to find the balance. And I think my theory is correct. If you treat your penis a bit rougher instead of softy and gently, it will not have involuntary kegel spasms and it won't become hypersensitive and too reactant to light, soft touches(as in a nice, soft vagina). The tight grip around the shaft gets us ready for tight vaginas. But like I've always said, constant real sex is a huge part of the cure because that is where the anxiety goes down and the confidence goes up!!!

[monkierojer]

finally read through this!

I actually posted this before i finished reading and i'm so glad i did!

https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...tml#post680906

I believe DG is a great fix! I'm curious how long it will take for me to get rid of my PreE. I use the STU fleshlight for a really long time and i can say it really doesn't help in the slightest. I mean i can easily go with the fleshlight for 30-45 mins but it really didn't make too much of a difference. I am addicted to porn and i can't even get aroused watching the same porn. I have to watch something new everytime so once i fix the PE i am giving it up for good! I just wanted to address the people asking about the flesh light. I use the STU which is the tightest one and see almost no difference when having actual sex. As much as it simulates it, it will only give you the result of edging with a semi light grip. For me it was all about desensitizing using dry and wet. This is such a great community! I'm so glad i found this forum

[Pegasus]

Btw..... extreme DE and loss of good EQ from doing the death grip is reversal if you have gone too far. Just ask Pegasus.

Yes I got over DE (my eq was ok) it took a lot of time and effort ,I do not recomend geting to that point.

[PandaBear]

I read through a lot of this thread and I think there could be a point to masturbate a little tighter, considering I'm pretty sure the grip I use is much lighter than a vagina. And I can definitely see where it can become a problem if your grip is too tight, but I think in moderation it could be helpful.

I'm pretty new to trying to cure my PE and have begun masturbating while RK-ing and have gone from lasting 5 minutes to lasting 15-25 minutes. I'm sure using a tighter grip will make this even harder to last. Is it a difficult transition, in terms of masturbation length, using this technique?

[JamesMonroe]

I read through a lot of this thread and I think there could be a point to masturbate a little tighter, considering I'm pretty sure the grip I use is much lighter than a vagina. And I can definitely see where it can become a problem if your grip is too tight, but I think in moderation it could be helpful.

I'm pretty new to trying to cure my PE and have begun masturbating while RK-ing and have gone from lasting 5 minutes to lasting 15-25 minutes. I'm sure using a tighter grip will make this even harder to last. Is it a difficult transition, in terms of masturbation length, using this technique?

Yes, but u get used to it. I suggest that you keep rev kegel exercises separate from edging/masturbation/death grip sessions. You don't want to train your body and mind to feel PONRS and stroking stimulation while doing reverse kegels. Just like reg kegels, rev kegels inflate the penis with blood and make it sensitive so one should never penetrate a vagina in and out or stroke penis while doing moderate to hard rev kegels. If u do a hard rev kegel to stop EJAC or to relax pelvic área, stop penetration for a second and even exit vagina if need be.

[JamesMonroe]

During stroking or penetration hold a very very light rev kegel just to stay relaxed and to keep PONRs at bay.