just turned 18 and still a virgin

**trynagetbig95** · 10-08-2012

so im 18 and this girl wants to have sex but im sorta nervous bc im a virgin, when i masterbate with lube i last at least 5-10 min...and thats just my lubbed up hand....... im scared ill bust in like 2 min if it was the real deal. any help please?

**SeemsLegit** · 10-09-2012

19 year old virgin here, google says the average person lasts 3-7 minutes in bed, from talking to friends (who you would think to exaggerate in their favour if anything) it seems as though the norm is about 2 minutes, some even said they do earlier than a minute. A girl I talked to said practice makes perfect, she has had sex with guys that came in 30 seconds but as they did it more and more they got better, learned the tricks of the trade on how to last longer by doing certain movements differently. Try not to overthink about it and just enjoy, it will come with time. I'd also recommend edging and Kegels which I really need to get into. Several success stories on those 2 techniques though give it a try.

**imac** · 10-09-2012

Don't put so much pressure on yourself, it's your first time nobody is expecting you to be a sex god. It's sex, it's supposed to be fun so relax and enjoy your first time.
You'll be that excited that you're probably not going to last long the first time, but that doesn't mean that you have premature ejaculation. It only mean you're a virgin having his first sexual experience.

So my advise. Relax and enjoy your first time, and your second and then your third and by then you'll be wondering what you were so worried about.

**not2big** · 10-09-2012

I was a virgin until I was 24. On my wedding night, I lasted about five minutes, but I was back in action 10 minutes later. I would not be concerned with coming quickly the first time. I think girls would take it as a compliment if you came quickly on your first experience. Practice does make perfect.

**Irishfan** · 10-09-2012

Nothing wrong with being a virgin, I lost mine young and really wish I had waited. You will be lucky if you last 2 minutes your first time

. If you do go through with it, you may want to jerk off before your date. It will help last a bit longer

**second lensman** · 10-09-2012

Go ahead and blast away and then rest a bit and go for seconds. You'll find it a great experience and she'll be very grateful that she turns you on so much.

**MaxP** · 10-09-2012

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**MaxP** · 10-09-2012

And by the way, if you want to get better and last longer that the book :
How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) by Barbara Keesling

good luck!

MaxP