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- 08-09-2012 #71
That's going to be difficult: if you squeeze the glans, you involuntarily contract the anus after. I think it's a reflex.
Initial (16/6/12) : nbpel 12.5 cm / 4.9 inches , mseg 12cm / 4.7 inches
Current(28/9/12) : nbpel 15.3 cm / 6.0 inches , mseg 12.4cm / 4.9 inches
Goal: nbpel: 16.5cm / 6.5 inches , mseg 14.5cm / 5.7 inches
- 12-31-2012 #72
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i have found that stance, position, and thrusting style while having sex helps relax the kegal.
what immediatly comes to mind is when on top keeping a wide base with the knees and ones ass out. the thrusts should be a combination of hip rolls and tilting the hips to throw the thrust forward and back, a trick to avoid overstimulating the frenulum is to position your pelvis slightly above hers so you are rubbing the top of your shaft against her clit while thrusting. I should also mention that putting some pillows under the girls ass makes the postion a lot easier to work it good.
the wide base and the ass out puts a stretch on the pelvic floor and the thrust style doesnt clench the glutes on the foreward thrust, which i found leads to ejaculating sooner and most likely from strong rhythmic involuntary kegals. If your like me and you have problems becoming physically exhausted before cuming then putting your elbows on the bed, bending her legs with her knees in the crooks of your arms or on you chest, or the back of her knees over your shoulders can keep you going for the long haul and keep the position varied. Also try it with her legs together and your knees outside of hers while she is face up or face down, and she can lay on her side in in a not quite fetal position for a transitional postion between face up and face down.
I was doing this before learning about kegals and reverse kegals.Last edited by Mello Jello; 12-31-2012 at 04:11 PM.
starting length 12/25/12: BPEL: 6.4" EG: 5.25"
*GOAL* BPEL: 8" EG: 6.25"
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- 11-01-2013 #73
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The whole theory of us training our PC muscles to prematurely ejaculate sounds like bullshit to me. I've never done a rushed ejaculation (I've had privacy pretty much my whole wanking life) and tried to finish quickly but my PC muscle causes me to ejaculate quicker as well. That's probably because our bodies are wired like that normally. I've also never seen any real evidence for that theory.
Total extender hours: 590+
Gains made so far: 0.00"
Total Phallosan hours: 80+
Gains made so far: 0.00"
Goal: 1.00"
- 11-01-2013 #74
I'm evidence.
When I first masturbated, it was hard to achieve orgasm, sometimes I even gave up it took so long. Then, I connected kegels (even though I didn't know that's what they were; I discovered them as a side effect of tightening my legs) to increased pleasure. My kegels got stronger, and I got more used to doing them, untill I could kegel myself to orgasm instantly.
When I discovered this was bad, I tried to stop the kegels, but of course found it impossible. Now, through a combination of reverse kegels and mind tricks, I can generally stop them, but it's not like the ideal situation I had all those years ago. I personally believe males should be better educated about this at a younger age; if I had known, I'm pretty certain I would never have had Pre E.
Now I'm not saying everyone is like this, some people may be "wired" that way from the start, (I have a whole list of causes in the link in my signature, only 2 are to do with rushed masturbation) but I know I wasn't. If you try and hold a kegel during masturbation, you'll notice how much better it feels and it is easy to see how that could become a habit deeply ingrained into ones muscle memory.
- 11-01-2013 #75
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- 11-01-2013 #76
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PE happens for me regardless of kegeling. Kegeling just causes it to happen quicker. At a 100% erection I cum within a few strokes whether I'm kegeling, reverse kegeling or doing nothing.
Total extender hours: 590+
Gains made so far: 0.00"
Total Phallosan hours: 80+
Gains made so far: 0.00"
Goal: 1.00"
- 11-01-2013 #77
Kegels have always had that effect on me. Just, as I got better at doing them, their effect increased. I should also point out that I was doing this mostly sub conciously. Try and pay closer attention to your body, it may trun out you're doing something you don't think you are.
- 11-01-2013 #78
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- 11-02-2013 #79
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