A Virgin Trying Not To Masterbate. Question

[cali51 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cali51]

Hopefully, this is the right subforum to post in for my question.

Basically, I'm a 26 yr virgin that's trying not masterbate anymore. I'm currently challenging myself not to fap for 60 days. Mainly b/c masterbating seems to drain me out. I've gone 30 days before and I noticed that I had more energy and was more outgoing when it came to talking to girls. <<just seemed that way.


Is this a good idea?

I ask this b/c I don't want cum too quickly my first time. I'm afraid I'll be in a situation where I might get a one nighter within the next 60 days.


I hope this isn't a silly question.

Thanks!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

No question is silly, unless of course I ask it. Over masturbation isn't good for you; all things need to be keep in moderation. Now as for this helping you last longer the first time you have sex well go try it and come back and tell me all about it; I'm into stuff like that. Okay go have fun!

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Lots of guys cum quickly, whether it's on their first time, their 10th or 500th. It doesn't matter, it just happens. It happens more when you're stressed out, when you're inexperienced, when you haven't had sex in awhile, or when you're super excited (maybe the girl is incredibly hot). It just happens.

Men are wired to finish quickly. That's because during our evolution, we didn't have the luxury of making the sweet, sweet love for hours on end like we do today. Back then, an animal might eat you, or some other tribesman might spear you or whatever. It was a survival advantage to finish fast.
Luckily, we aren't trapped like that and we can train our muscles to do what we want them to. That means you need to start having sex! And masturbate more often! Well, we call it edging, and it's recommended that you don't do it daily and without any porn.
Try edging for 10-20 or more minutes to train your unity to last longer.

[kaspern Banned Find all posts View Profile Close kaspern]

Dude ..

Let me assure you, that you are going to cum quick the first time.
Not trying to bring you down, but it's just a fact, if you haven't penetrated a woman before, then you can't expect to last long.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Nothing wrong with masturbation.

Do kegels + RKs + Edging if you want to increase stamina.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

This no masturbation thing is weird, I can see some value in cutting down in certain situations, but 60 days and 90 days etc for young guys ????

[Carson32 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Carson32]

Normal masterbations are normal and from what I understand even healthy. The problem is when it becomes excessive, doing it 3-4 times a day, or even more. This is when alot of people have problems, so dont be afraid to masterbate, just don't become obsessive with it, cuz you'll find the real thing is much better!

[Kjack Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kjack]

Well, the first time i had sex i lasted for complete 55 minutes, non stop thrusting action. The girl was near hysteric. That was my first time. i attribute it to edging and masturbation regularly (at that time i did not even know, its called edging). Controlled masturbation is always good as compared to no masturbation. i would second what PAdawan787 and Pegasus said, a young guy cant retain himself for 60 or 90 days. There is also an old saying, "Use it or you Lose it". Good luck !!

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

Dude, I cannot relate to you at all. What are you saving yourself for? It must be something more then just "having more energy"?

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Masturbating is healthy.

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

I have experienced that energy drain you feel and only thing that I can tell you is that you need to improve the quality and lasting time of your sessions. If you make them minimum 20 minutes once every (for example) second or third day you are going to feel great.

[cali51 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cali51]

Masturbating is healthy.

Do you think masturbating to porn is healthy? I may have left that part out in my post. If im going to masturbate, then is it okay to do it to porn. As long as it's not excessive(like 2-3 times a day).

Well, the first time i had sex i lasted for complete 55 minutes, non stop thrusting action. The girl was near hysteric. That was my first time. i attribute it to edging and masturbation regularly (at that time i did not even know, its called edging). Controlled masturbation is always good as compared to no masturbation. i would second what PAdawan787 and Pegasus said, a young guy cant retain himself for 60 or 90 days. There is also an old saying, "Use it or you Lose it". Good luck !!

I'll look into edging. Masturbating regularly - can you elaborate? And was it to porn?