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    Premature ejaculation is ruining my relationship with my girlfriend, and I feel hopelessly lost. We've been dating a little over a year, and she's the first person I've been sexually active with. I've had premature ejaculation problems since we first started having sex. I blame too much porn in college and poor masturbating habits.

    When we first started having sex, we'd go at it multiple times a day, and she was ok with my issues because she felt I'd get better. Now, I'm lucky if we have sex once a week. She doesn't have a sex drive any more. I think we've both gotten to the part where we think "what's the point?" Neither of us is ok with 2 minutes of sex.

    I've tried reverse kegels, kegels, edging, etc. I've gotten so desperate I'm currently on Paxil (10mg) because I went to a doc who said it could help. It didn't.

    They say bad sex = bad relationship, and that has definitely happened with our relationship. She's an amazing girl, and I know I'll lose her if I can't fix myself. It's hard. The worry consumes me.

    I don't really have any point in making this. This kind of thing isn't really something you can talk with anyone about. I just needed to make this thread to get stuff of my chest.

  • #2
    With no desire to sound like a broken record but this post should be helpful.
    premE FAQ

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    • #3
      I've tried the paxil thing too and it ain't worth it throw that stuff in the trash. It will reduce your sex drive and make you depressed if you ain't already. If she loves you and you love her you both will find a way to stay together.

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      • #4
        Can you stay hard after you ejaculate? If so, just hurry up in change condoms and keep going. The first few of penetration after you cum with feel weird or pointless but after awhile it'll feel normal again and defently last until she's had enough.

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        • #5
          For god sake, just read the stickys and then do the work.

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          • #6
            Heard about this stuff on the Jimmey Kimmel show last night. It is called Tempe Sprey. The following link is for informational purposes and is not an endorsement or recommendation. Tempe Spray - Men last 6 times longer with premature ejaculation spray TEMPE

            It would be great if someone would be willing to act as a lab rat and test this stuff and report back.
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