Premature ejaculation is ruining my relationship with my girlfriend, and I feel hopelessly lost. We've been dating a little over a year, and she's the first person I've been sexually active with. I've had premature ejaculation problems since we first started having sex. I blame too much porn in college and poor masturbating habits.
When we first started having sex, we'd go at it multiple times a day, and she was ok with my issues because she felt I'd get better. Now, I'm lucky if we have sex once a week. She doesn't have a sex drive any more. I think we've both gotten to the part where we think "what's the point?" Neither of us is ok with 2 minutes of sex.
I've tried reverse kegels, kegels, edging, etc. I've gotten so desperate I'm currently on Paxil (10mg) because I went to a doc who said it could help. It didn't.
They say bad sex = bad relationship, and that has definitely happened with our relationship. She's an amazing girl, and I know I'll lose her if I can't fix myself. It's hard. The worry consumes me.
I don't really have any point in making this. This kind of thing isn't really something you can talk with anyone about. I just needed to make this thread to get stuff of my chest.
When we first started having sex, we'd go at it multiple times a day, and she was ok with my issues because she felt I'd get better. Now, I'm lucky if we have sex once a week. She doesn't have a sex drive any more. I think we've both gotten to the part where we think "what's the point?" Neither of us is ok with 2 minutes of sex.
I've tried reverse kegels, kegels, edging, etc. I've gotten so desperate I'm currently on Paxil (10mg) because I went to a doc who said it could help. It didn't.
They say bad sex = bad relationship, and that has definitely happened with our relationship. She's an amazing girl, and I know I'll lose her if I can't fix myself. It's hard. The worry consumes me.
I don't really have any point in making this. This kind of thing isn't really something you can talk with anyone about. I just needed to make this thread to get stuff of my chest.
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