- 09-23-2013 #1
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- Apr 2013
Ok so I am a virgin and I wonder if it's possible to find out if I have premature ejaculation or not (without actually having sex). If I jerk off I come pretty fast ~3mins, but if I jerk with my left hand I don't think I can come, or it would take very long. Also I have never tried to jerk off with a condom so I don't know how much that helps either. I would also assume that a vagina is probably a bit more loose than your hand? So in other words you would come faster by jerking it, instead of intercourse, is this true? What is your thoughts about fleshlights, if I got a Fleshlight (a fleshlight is a "vagina pocket of some kind (if you didn't know), just search it up on google images). I mean if I put on a condom on and went on with a fleshlight, would I get a pretty good indicator of how long I would last in real life? I don't know what to work on at the moment, obviously I wanna last longer like most men, but I hear about people who can come from jerking it but not from intercourse and stuff like that. I mean at this point I actually don't know if I have premature ejaculate, is average or actually have delayed ejaculation (I don't think I have this one) So it's hard to tell if I should work against preamture ejaculation and just assume that I have it or not?
- 09-23-2013 #2
Definition of PREMATURE EJACULATION
: ejaculation of semen that occurs prior to or immediately after penetration of the vagina by the penis—called also ejaculatio praecox
I think you need to quit worrying so much as you're going to be causing yourself unnecessary mental blocks.
Masturbation with your hand, a condom on or off, or with a Fleshlight, IMO, will not help you to determine how long you will last when you have a live, breathing, horny beauty wanting your dick inside herBe a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
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- 09-23-2013 #3
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- 09-23-2013 #4
I don't think there's any way to tell. Real life sex is a lot different from masturbation. In a healthy male, it's completely normal to not last very long the first time. Excessive masturbation or exposure to porn can in some cases lead to a disappointing first time for a completely different reason: Failure to get it fully hard, and failure to reach orgasm.
When the time comes, just try to relax and be in the moment as much as possible. Trying to think unsexy thoughts or whatever to postpone orgasm sorta defeats the entire purpose of the thing.
And although it's not a solid indicator of what will happen, I've heard that people have had good success with the Fleshlight STU. You should check out the fleshlight forum and hear what they have to say on the matter.
- 09-23-2013 #5
yeah man no way to know so dont let that bother you.
- 09-23-2013 #6
You don't have it until it happens with a woman. Dont judge it by the first time either because you will most likely nut in 30 seconds as most guys do the first time at it.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before
- 09-23-2013 #7
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Oww well.. So what is your thoughts about practicing with a Fleshlight good or bad? I mean is it a bit like porn that it's kinda bad for you, or is it okay etc.,? I checked up some real awesome toys with vagina and the other hole... kinda like an entire ass that can weight from ~8 - 25lbs, seems like some really cool stuff, problem will be to keep my hands off if I decide to buy one...Like this one: http://i.imgur.com/XcRPlmZ.png that one is approx 22lbs or like this one: http://i.imgur.com/iHb3bSN.png or just get a regular fleshlight, and if I were to get one, what would you've got? And what is your thoughts on these kind of toys in general, does any of you guys have one? Forgot to say taht it's in real size as well if that matters...
- 09-23-2013 #8
From my own experience, a Fleshlight is an excellent purchase. I've never heard that it can be bad for you. Rather, I'd say it's better than manual masturbation as you'll get away from the deathgrip. It can take a few tries to get used to it, but I for one have had some incredible orgasms with mine.
Don't have any sex toys other than a few flashes, so can't advice on that 22lbs beast. It certainly looks like it could be fun, but also that it could be much harder to clean out and stow away than more moderately sized toys. Longevity can supposedly also be an issue with toys like that. But if you do get one, please tell us how it is
- 09-23-2013 #9
You shouldn't worry. If you watch porn and comes in 3 minutes after death grip masturbating, you can have as much as delayed ejaculation. I was worried when younger, but then when I was with my gf, I couldn't come in 1 hour as she was jerking me off.
Porn is bad for you in all ways. Stop with that and your life will be great.“I keep six honest serving men (they taught me all i knew); Theirs names are What and Why and When And How And Where and Who.” - Rudyard Kipling
- 09-23-2013 #10
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Haha, thanks for awesome responses
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