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- 11-10-2013 #1
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Do they get the urge to cum fast?
Do they have total control when to cum?
How do they thrust non-stop?
Not being able to bang away and enjoy sex is frustrating. I would be happy to hear from those who don't suffer from premature ejaculation. Those that do have PE who you feel about this?Last edited by Amare21; 11-10-2013 at 02:53 PM.
- 11-10-2013 #2
Haven't had sex since trying to cure Pre E, so take this with a pinch of salt:
1. Those with total control won't feel the urge unless they want to. Of course, all of us don't have or won't achieve this, but if you have normal stamina, you won't feel the urge to cum until at least a few minutes in.
2. Like I said, that's an ideal situation, but I doubt if there's many people out there with total control. What I'm saying is, you don't need total control to not have Pre E.
3. It's about disconnecting pleasure from orgasm/ejaculation. It's about getting used to the feelings. Learning to control the sensations through the ways outlined on this forum. Before, at the first sign of pleasure, I would cum. Now, I experience pleasure so much better than I ever have before, since I realised I didn't have to cum straight away when it started feeling good. Of course this wasn't an overnight change, and was underlaid by a physical training program (RK Routine). They don't feel less pleasure or anything (unless you have a hypersensitive penis), they are just able to control the need to ejaculate when the pleasure happens, whether intentionally or not. If you rushed masturbation as a kid like I did, you may have trained yourself to cum quickly when it starts feeling good.
Please note these observations are from edging. For perhaps a better explanation of this, click the link in my signature and read the section entitled "Ruhing to PONR". The thread also outlines physical approaches you can take in conjunction with rewiring your mental response.
- 11-10-2013 #3
I don't have pre ejac but it takes me maybe 10 minutes before the urge to bust goes away. I just have to be kinda careful until my dick goes auto pilot. What I mean by auto pilot is that I don't have the urge to cum anymore so I don't have to think about it anymore.
1- Yeah at the beginning but it goes away after the first couple of minutes, just gotta tough it out.
2- No but I have to pound hard and fast if I wait out the first 10 minutes, if I don't cum at the beginning I have to really bang to get to that point again.
3- My answer to this is kinda the answer I gave to number two.
Part of me believes pre ejac is all in our heads. Unless you cum as soon as you put it in or maybe even before you put it in. Girls have told me stories lolGet Smart
- 11-10-2013 #4
The sensations between PreE and non-PE penises are not different. The difference is in control.
To learn control you need to edging, or even better, balloon. (without porn). Keep yourself at the PONR for as long as you can. If you begin to cum, just squeeze your PC' muscles as hard as you fucking can for about 10 seconds and you will not ejaculate. Then continue your edging/ballooning session.
In time, and practice, you will have total control of when you cum."with great EQ, comes great responsibility"
- 11-12-2013 #5
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I didn't have PreE for first years of sex and I remember it just being easy to to control when I wanted to cum, the first 10 mins or so was easy and after that I'd get more and more sensitive. Now I worry about PreE from the first stroke and end up lasting 1 minute.
- 11-15-2013 #6
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I'm 36 and my PE did not develop until the last six months. I remember the good old days (basically my entire sexual life) of being able to go for as long as I wanted. yes, at times I would have the urge to ejaculate, but I would be able to control it until I was ready. I don't ever remember cumming without wanting to.
Now, I can literally cum in less than a minute. I just edged and within three or four strokes I was at PONR. I can rub my ferenulum with one finger and cum within a minute. Booo!
From my own experience, yes, the sensation in my penis has changed. I never, ever remember my ferenulum being that ultra sensitive. This is new to me.
- 11-15-2013 #7
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I would think if I had PE #1 I would want to be in control during sex so that #2 I can control how and when I move and thrust at what speed how deep ect and #3 have the ability to just stop if needed until I could build some type of control. Alot of times I have an urge to cum in the first few minutes but after I hold back a few times It kinda goes away but then it gets harder to cum when she wants me to sometimes. If I knew I had this problem I would go very slow and just concentrate on the feeling and how long I could go maybe speed it up some here and there?
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