I cried to my girlfriend....help?

[Pnatical]

So around last July i discovered this site and i learned about kegals and edging. I have a i cum to quick problem and my gf says it's okay cause we usually go a second round and i am able to give her an orgasm. I can tell though she is not happy and when she is not happy im not. I tried kegals for about a month and stopped. Then i did edging for about 2 months. While edging i could go up to more than one hour if needed to (is that when i reach PONR three times then cum????)...I did edging while no porn watching i actually been porn free since last August maybe. And still i cum fast the first round. I do the second round to but i sometimes is able to last long enough until my gf reaches an orgasm and she cums quick also which makes me mad because i cant even last long enough the first round...Also we don't use condoms and never have in our 13 month relationship.

I recently cried in front of her out of no where because of this problem i have. How could i spend the rest of my life with someone and not be able to satisfy them sexually and give them the proper dick they need? She says it's okay im use to it but i don't want her to be i wanna be able to last 45 minutes to an hour. Or make her orgasm at least twice during intercourse. Im really at my breaking point and im to the point where i dont even wanna have sex anymore. In March we are going to Reno and she even brought up cause i gave her the idea about a year ago to get some spray and some pills to last longer or go to the doctor and see what they have. In Reno we are staying two nights and i wanna be able to give her what she wants sexually but im afraid i cant. Im really considering the pill thing cause im that desperate so please could someone help me? This is my last chance and whatever advice i get i will stick with it and not stop i will keep going!!!

[jstane45]

Definitely settle down a bit, and don't stress. You'll overcome this and get past it. Wait for some folks that know about this to chime in and listen to what they have to say. But don't get overwhelmed by it, it's within your control to change, so you should feel empowered instead.

[TheGreatDivider]

Dude, do you want to lose your girlfriend? Because the way you're making an issue of this you're well on your way to a "it's not you, it's me" speech from her. She says it's fine, she is able to have an orgasm with you, what more do you want? Honestly, you're putting too much focus into your dick to make her cum when you need to be thinking about using your fingers, your tongue, and kissing her to give her more than just a PIV orgasm.

[Knoblin]

havent you ever drank a case of beer or more and tried sex?its pretty damn hard to cum...i suggest getting really drunk and giving it a try.

[Pnatical]

Thats what i been doing for the past year of our relationship using my fingers or tongue....Girl want dick nothing else after a while. Thats like a male getting a handjob instead of the pussy itself. After a while you want the pussy not a handjob. She says it's okay only because she wants to be with me forever cause everything else in our relationship is golden so she has to deal with it.

[Pegasus]

Read the stickys.

[camaro]

Did it occur to you that the stress makes you finish faster?

[xgr44]

havent you ever drank a case of beer or more and tried sex?its pretty damn hard to cum...i suggest getting really drunk and giving it a try.

I really suggest this.. because it works! go 5 or 6 shooters of vodka/rhum or something similar and go fuck your girlfriend i swear it works.. Everytime i know i will have sex with a girl i do this, sometimes i can last about 40-45 mins of hard porno pounding but i drink ill bit more..

Masturbate / edge then blow your load go drink the 6 shooters i have been talking about and then come back here tell us about your experience. You may not believe it.

[Knoblin]

if you can think of Mickey Rooney right b4 PONR..works EVERYTIME for me!!mickey-rooney.jpg

[pterodactyl]

Lol. Can you imagine being in a commited relationship and every time you want to have sex say "Babe hold on i have to get drunk first."?

Try the stop and start with her. Make it a fun game for both of you. When you are getting close stop and go down on her. Make her cum and go back in until you get close again. Even better when you go down on her stop right before she cums and then go back in. tease her like you are teasing yourself and when she finally does cum she will explode. School is in for both of you.