Watching porn with your SO?

[harperman2112]

Porn doesn't offend me. (at least, not the porn that is widely available and acceptable.) if it does offend you, and you are just going to rant about how unacceptable it is and how it damages relationships, please move on. I know my partner loves me. our sex life hasn't suffered, he makes me feel attractive and wanted, he loves me. no doubt.

I have been seriously considering asking my boyfriend (of 4 years, even tho we have been friends for 12) if he would like to watch it together, I'm just not sure how to approach this with him, I know porn is a very private thing that isn't widely discussed, and can cause embarrassment, which I want to keep to a minimum.

have any of you ever had this discussion?
how did it go?
how would you gents react if your SO asked you?
will he think I'm turning into some kind of sex pest?
or would he be overjoyed? lol

answers pleaseeeee

already posted this once, but deleted it accidentally. grrr!!

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[Pegasus]

I used to watch porn with the ex between sessions . We enjoyed it.
Some guys get addicted to it which can be a concern .

[SeratoBeats]

Porn doesn't offend me. (at least, not the porn that is widely available and acceptable.) if it does offend you, and you are just going to rant about how unacceptable it is and how it damages relationships, please move on. I know my partner loves me. our sex life hasn't suffered, he makes me feel attractive and wanted, he loves me. no doubt.

I have been seriously considering asking my boyfriend (of 4 years, even tho we have been friends for 12) if he would like to watch it together, I'm just not sure how to approach this with him, I know porn is a very private thing that isn't widely discussed, and can cause embarrassment, which I want to keep to a minimum.

have any of you ever had this discussion?
how did it go?
how would you gents react if your SO asked you?
will he think I'm turning into some kind of sex pest?
or would he be overjoyed? lol

answers pleaseeeee

already posted this once, but deleted it accidentally. grrr!!

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Why are you making this a question.?Who cares just ask them if they say no it's weird them don't do it, if they say yes pop it in lol

[Dan2689]

I watch porn with my other half occasionally (would be more often if we had decent films). It can be a good way to spice up a relationship in my opinion and can open doors to suggestions of trying new things too! Just make it very clear that you are using porn as an addition, not as a replacement for something.

[Bigdaddy55]

Just ask. What's the worst that can happen, they say no? if they do, you move on. Don't know of many guys that would be offended by it. My wife was actually the one that approached me about it.

[BigO]

My wife and I have watched some porn together, never did anything for us except make us fuck each other silly, hate when that happens.

[gettingintoshape]

My wife and I have watched some porn together, never did anything for us except make us fuck each other silly, hate when that happens.

Pretty much the same for us.