So, the last four times i've had sex (with one blow job in between) have seen some small gains. They are as follows....
Sex, lasted approximately 49 fairly quick pumps - about two per second - probably a minute to a minute and a half.... (yes, i counted them in my head!) This was missionary, my new worst position. Enough for her to come.
Sex again, doggy, lasted about a minute or so. Close to two minutes. Enough for her again.
The following were all last night:
Blow Job... Lasted a lot longer than recently. More like how i used to last (maybe not quite as long). Much improved. Probably a solid 3-4 minutes. Maybe more. Wasn't counting.
Sex, about one minute and a half, possibly two. Enough for her to come.
Sex again an hour or so later. Lasted about 5 minutes, first in doggy (she came) then switched to missionary. Probably could have lasted longer with a well timed pause or position change. We were both very happy with this performance!
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Now, i know the last example i had already ejaculated twice that evening but still.... These rough numbers are much improved from the less than 30 seconds i've been doing recently. This got me thinking...
Firstly, i attribute the gains to generally feeling more relaxed and confident. Secondly, im delighted with these gains. Now, i know that sounds weird... Most of it was 2 minutes MAX. Nothing to shout about. However, it is, without doubt, an improvement. I think it's absolutely critical to glean confidence from even the smallest successes. I feel great. I actually feel like im improving and i feel more relaxed as a result. I'll have setbacks, no doubt, but i feel im heading in the right direction.
I think we have a tendency, maybe, to think that we'll do all these exercises or routines and then one day it will click and we'll last 10 minutes. The reality is, it's going to be an additional 10 seconds here, 30 seconds there and maybe the occasional minute for a while. The progress will be incremental and small. But that's ok!
Another point... Although the times may not look impressed, more importantly, they FELT longer. I think people probably overestimate how long they last unless everyone is constantly checking the time during sex! I happened to have a laptop nearby that i could glance at at the start and afterwards so my numbers are quite accurate. However, as i say, the acts themselves felt longer than the times stated.
I'll use this as a log to keep updating rather than my others thread.
Sex, lasted approximately 49 fairly quick pumps - about two per second - probably a minute to a minute and a half.... (yes, i counted them in my head!) This was missionary, my new worst position. Enough for her to come.
Sex again, doggy, lasted about a minute or so. Close to two minutes. Enough for her again.
The following were all last night:
Blow Job... Lasted a lot longer than recently. More like how i used to last (maybe not quite as long). Much improved. Probably a solid 3-4 minutes. Maybe more. Wasn't counting.
Sex, about one minute and a half, possibly two. Enough for her to come.
Sex again an hour or so later. Lasted about 5 minutes, first in doggy (she came) then switched to missionary. Probably could have lasted longer with a well timed pause or position change. We were both very happy with this performance!
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Now, i know the last example i had already ejaculated twice that evening but still.... These rough numbers are much improved from the less than 30 seconds i've been doing recently. This got me thinking...
Firstly, i attribute the gains to generally feeling more relaxed and confident. Secondly, im delighted with these gains. Now, i know that sounds weird... Most of it was 2 minutes MAX. Nothing to shout about. However, it is, without doubt, an improvement. I think it's absolutely critical to glean confidence from even the smallest successes. I feel great. I actually feel like im improving and i feel more relaxed as a result. I'll have setbacks, no doubt, but i feel im heading in the right direction.
I think we have a tendency, maybe, to think that we'll do all these exercises or routines and then one day it will click and we'll last 10 minutes. The reality is, it's going to be an additional 10 seconds here, 30 seconds there and maybe the occasional minute for a while. The progress will be incremental and small. But that's ok!
Another point... Although the times may not look impressed, more importantly, they FELT longer. I think people probably overestimate how long they last unless everyone is constantly checking the time during sex! I happened to have a laptop nearby that i could glance at at the start and afterwards so my numbers are quite accurate. However, as i say, the acts themselves felt longer than the times stated.
I'll use this as a log to keep updating rather than my others thread.
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