premature ejaculation

[masterblaster]

I am so low at the moment and am desperate to cure PE. Can anyone help?

[jadzeno69]

I am so low at the moment and am desperate to cure PE. Can anyone help?

Private message me Masterblaster.

[masterblaster]

How do I do this, Jadzeno69

[fun4me2_yk]

I'd really like some help with this too actually.

[JonPop]

jadzeno, please if you are going to advise these guys, do so in open forum. Your advice might help many others that have just not asked the questions yet.

[jadzeno69]

jadzeno, please if you are going to advise these guys, do so in open forum. Your advice might help many others that have just not asked the questions yet.

Sorry JP, I was going to write a detailed post on this when I had more time.

Masterblaster and Fun4Me if you guys can wait a little while I'll try and get this post together. I'll let you know when it's up, I have a lot on my plate right now.

For now the short sweet version, aka nothing you can't find by googling the issue:

- Relax relax relax, as much as possible.
- Breathe deeply, and do not fight your breathing, that will make things worse, especially early on.
- Focus on other areas of her body, not just penis/vagina interaction.
- Your main goal is to pleasure her. If you concentrate on that more than trying to not to cum you will both be much happier.
- One thing you need to know, lasting longer is much more than a quick hard kegel at the right time. In fact, that should really only be used as an emergency break. So kegels are your friend and will definitely help you, but don't rely solely on them.

These things are easy to read and understand, and easy for one to say. However, applying them is extremely difficult and takes time. In my future post, I'm going to do my best on ways to apply these techniques, as well as include other methods and things to do. I'd like it to be a large post with a lot of people's opinions and experiences. I've been browsing this section of the forum and I don't see anything REAL solid on solving this matter. Hope this helps for now.

[jadzeno69]

Also one more thing:

Talking during sex helps me bigtime. Dirty talk, love moans, conversation, whatever, it helps take your mind off your penis while still keeping you completely in the moment. Any sort of this kind of mutual interaction is good for lasting longer and keeps things more interesting.

[jadzeno69]

Hey guys - Masterblaster and Fun4me2, how are things going? Any luck with anything? Expect that post sometime at the end of this week. I'm still working on it.

[NJDevil09]

I've had this problem too. Only during intercourse though. During oral sex, or foreplay never has happened, but once I get into a woman's vagina, it's hard to control. Doesn't happen all the time, but enough to be embarrassing. The longest I've ever gone in one shot is like maybe 45 minutes, but that was 25 years ago, and recovery time was quick. Now if I pe recovery seems to take forever. By that time I'm ready for a sandwich and a nap. ;~)

Man us guys are ahard on ourselves, aren't we???? There are other ways to get women off. We just have to look outta the box, so to speak. I've compensated by perfecting my oral skills, which my current gf is loving. She cums at least 5 times before we even get to intercourse, and by then if I only last 15 minuites that's fine by her. Sure would like to go for a couple hour round again, for ole time sake. Somebody said to relax, keep loose. And from my experience, when I feel like I'm gonna cum, I switch positions, or go back to oral for awhile, to prolong the sex. But every now and then the urge is just too great, and I just unload. Girls really don't mind as long as we let them know what's going on. Women just have this need to know what we are doing. Mostly I've found cooperation. Besides it does take two, and not everyone in the world is a pornstar. If your significant other isn't supportive during sex, most likely they won't be supportive at any aspect of the relationship. Oh yeah, be experimental as well. Don't rule out toys, role play, or even another partner(male or female). Besides it's a huge turnon to see your women doing herself with a vibrator, or using a cock ring during sex, and don't forget the manscaping. Chix dig it guys. Just as we like seeing a shaved pussy. Same thing. We men can be way to rigid when it comes to sex. Women aren't really that hard to please!!! Not in the bedroom anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111111111111

[masterblaster]

Guys, can't thank you enough. Great advice which will put into practice ASAP. Will keep you posted with how things turn out