Ejaculation with no orgasm

[earl-e-jack]

Hey Forum

So Ive read through this forum a handful of times, a few times a couple years ago, and then again recently when I started to get annoyed with my problem. As you can probably tell from the forum that Im posting in, and my screen name, I have a problem with premature ejaculation. Its been a persistant problem for a while now (over a year) and I havent really had a time when I didnt have this problem. Lately though it seems to be significantly worse in that I cant go longer than a few seconds. Its so bad it makes me want to blow my head off(no pun intended, haaaa). I used to be able to go like a minute or so at least before that would happen, not very good time but still not as bad as this.

See now the thing is, I used to do this, stopped doing it for a while, and recently realized that it atleast allows me to fulfill my pleasure of pleasing my woman. Ive read on here that a lot of people squeeze their pc/bc muscle whenever they get close to the PONR in order to hold back everything. I instead just sit back, say f* it and I try to relax my pc/bc muscle so as not to commence an orgasm, except that I make a mess... Essentially I ejaculate with no orgasm, since after that I can continue on and on. The problem with this is that when it comes time to orgasm(if its even possible), it dont feel so great. The upside is that I can do this as many times as I want to until my wang gets floppy (usually 4 or 5 times) with the time between each extending exponentially. This allows me to rock her world for like 1000000x longer than I would be able to otherwise.

On a side note, I went to a doctor to ask about PE, he didnt really provide anything too useful and said that 'its common'. Great help.

I was just wonderin if anyone else did this? I mean, its a pain in the ass, cause its messy as hell, and it kinda detracts from the mood for the first few times, but after that it just makes things so much easier. Im guessin this isnt exactly going to help my problem with PE though is it? Sorry for the long post.

Cliff notes-
Sex
Lasts for ridiculously short
Go past PONR
Chill out, dont touch or squeeze pc/bc at all, no orgasm, all the mess.
Rinse and repeat
Allows for more pleasure for my partner, less pleasure for me. Im such a giver, arent I?

[Pegasus]

UMMM have you thought of becoming multi(dry) orgasmic?
There is some work in it, but you would be able to have an orgasm, keep going have another orgasm etc ,your eyes roll back in your head ,nirvana appears and well you get the idea. Anyway that is what I do oh and then I give her a messy hose down at the end.

[earl-e-jack]

Ive thought about it, yes, but then... I have no idea how =P

[shinobi019]

bump for you...never heard of that...

[kingpole]

Don't worry so much about the mess. Are you a anxious person?

[Pegasus]

Hmm, I am sure there are threads which will describe how to become multi orgasmic, but here is a starting point.

First practise kegals to gradually build up your strength in the pc muscles. Next practise stop and start ,that is masturbate until your are near ejaculation point ,stop relax start again and so on. You should be able to do this for 15 min ,before long working up to 30 min. Over time ,learn to get closer to the ejaculation point. As your control and stamina develop kegal as you closely approach the ejaculation zone.

[earl-e-jack]

I wouldnt particularly say Im an anxious person, infact Im relatively easy going. I also dont worry about the mess, thats the least of my worries. Ide also like to add a strangeness that Ive noticed. I cant do this if Im goin alone, it just doesnt work the same, I would end up getting to the PONR, and havin a weak lame orgasm and bein done with it, in a situation like if I was tryin to edge, but failed miserably. The feeling of orgasm would inevitably come and then its all over and done with. When Im not goin at it alone, its a bit of a different sensation where Im able to pull back and relax without everything contracting. This is what happens in what I mentioned above.

Recently Ive had the common occasion when I just plain push it too close, pull out and instead of just oozin out, I pretty much have a half orgasm. Feels alright, not that great, but theres definitely some bobbin goin on down there except after Im still able to go without losin the rock. Did earlier today, did twice, still finished after that, was pretty good

But Im guessing that doesnt qualify as multi-orgasmic? Gonna have to stop slackin on my kegels.

Judging by the concensus it seems that nobody else does this? Its not that bad to be honest. So long as your partner is understanding.

[nipseyhussle]

Hmm, I am sure there are threads which will describe how to become multi orgasmic, but here is a starting point.

First practise kegals to gradually build up your strength in the pc muscles. Next practise stop and start ,that is masturbate until your are near ejaculation point ,stop relax start again and so on. You should be able to do this for 15 min ,before long working up to 30 min. Over time ,learn to get closer to the ejaculation point. As your control and stamina develop kegal as you closely approach the ejaculation zone.

Hi bro, I now have read alot of edging etc and I can proud say I am doing the exact thing everytime i masterbate even if its 5minutes I get close to PONR and stop start like im about to explode my dick, sometimes it pains small then i think of something that turns me on and keep on jerking and it gets reaaallly pumped i do this 3-5times daily for 10-20minutes.


This exercise also enlarge penis I think, It has definetly changed the look of my penis in past 3years.. And I jerk of ALOT and always EDGE and im so happy im doing it on automat)) its like when im jerking off Its automaticly i know when to stop before ponr and then keep up and then again and again and again and im riiiiight about to bust when i control my self....

this is perfect performed edging right? but I will try atleast 1 time daily edge for 30minutes from this day...


peace love and understanding<3

[pe_ZEN]

Hi bro, I now have read alot of edging etc and I can proud say I am doing the exact thing everytime i masterbate even if its 5minutes I get close to PONR and stop start like im about to explode my dick, sometimes it pains small then i think of something that turns me on and keep on jerking and it gets reaaallly pumped i do this 3-5times daily for 10-20minutes.


This exercise also enlarge penis I think, It has definetly changed the look of my penis in past 3years.. And I jerk of ALOT and always EDGE and im so happy im doing it on automat)) its like when im jerking off Its automaticly i know when to stop before ponr and then keep up and then again and again and again and im riiiiight about to bust when i control my self....

this is perfect performed edging right? but I will try atleast 1 time daily edge for 30minutes from this day...

<3

Hey Nipsey, what you described is pretty decent edging. Being able to know exactly exactly....I mean EXACTLY where your body is at the arousal cycle. Some say arousal cycle = 1-10 (where 10 is ejaculation) however you can give another 10 point scale that would describe the subtelty of the PONR (e.g. 9.1, 9.2, 9.3, etc....). If you can control at 9.9 for a long time over months and years it will be trained into your body. It is more of a subtle kegel at the right time, not an overpowering crazy kegel.

Although, I wouldn't consider it perfect until you can perform this way during sex. Also in order for it to be perfect you would be able to keep going without stopping

[shane_syndrome]

now that i think about it i also ejaculate without orgasm but after i cum i just keep jerkin off like nothing happened