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  • not PORN, just Amateur porn ?

    i had this question last few weeks when i decided to stop watching porn, as i know and i read in this forum that porn affects negatively on the person. well all what u see there is perfect, positions bodies big penises long lasting sex. too much of it makes u think that this is how sex is supposed to be and other than that is bullshit. but what about amateur, i mean these videos on internet some crazy ppl record themselves having sex few minutes in each video, the longest one i watched was 10min, and its just usual sex, i mean not this perfect scene they show in porn, but its normal sex like normal ppl having in their beds. my question is does watching this from time to time can have same like porn detox and affect somehow on the person and has the same porn detox ?
    Started On : 16/11/2013 (with 12 days off)

    Initial Penis Size
    BPFL: 16 cm
    BPEL : 15.5 or 16 cm
    MSEG : 12 cm

    Erect Goal
    Shot Therm : 17 cm
    Long Term : 19 cm

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    Why watch others instead of doing it yourself, and I think they are mostly enacting stuff they see in mainstream porn, all in all, do it yourself, use your imagination or erotica.
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      To take this idea one small step further, would you consider looking at erotic/naked pictures of your significant other a no-no as well????

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      • #4
        Originally posted by almightycrunch View Post
        To take this idea one small step further, would you consider looking at erotic/naked pictures of your significant other a no-no as well????
        Originally posted by workin_4_it View Post
        I think by erotic photography, it means pictures the literally leave something up to the imagination. Something that arouses you, but still makes the mind do a little work. Think more artsy, less smutty.

        I suppose naked pics might be alright, but only ones not engaging in sexual acts. It would be too tempting to go back to porn.

        Personally, I have always been a fan of lingerie, scantily clad, or sexy dressed, barely revealing or implied photos. Much more arousing to imagine what you can't see, than just be presented with what's there.

        Release after edging is okay, but so is not releasing. If you don't feel like edging, or can't without release, give it a break for a while. No need to pressure yourself.

        ^
        A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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        • #5
          Porn... oh how it's so much more stimulating than regular television.
          You never slow down, you never grow old!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by MrB8 View Post
            Why watch others instead of doing it yourself, and I think they are mostly enacting stuff they see in mainstream porn, all in all, do it yourself, use your imagination or erotica.
            well i thought its easy to quit porn but after few weeks u know, ur mind keeps saying to u take a look, so this idea came to my mind thinking that amateur is not like pro, so i share it u guys to get some wise advices, plus im not active sexually recently. so ill just keep forcing myself to not watch anything. y the way my imagination is really not working well recently maybe its cuz of the situation im passing now, too much stress and problems.hopefully things get better soon.
            almightycrunch : im sorry but i didnt get ur question my english is not that perfect, if u re ask me in different form so i can understand it
            Started On : 16/11/2013 (with 12 days off)

            Initial Penis Size
            BPFL: 16 cm
            BPEL : 15.5 or 16 cm
            MSEG : 12 cm

            Erect Goal
            Shot Therm : 17 cm
            Long Term : 19 cm

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            • #7
              https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...addiction.html

              The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1
              A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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              • #8
                Originally posted by mr.arambach View Post
                almightycrunch : im sorry but i didnt get ur question my english is not that perfect, if u re ask me in different form so i can understand it
                A month ago my wife texted me a picture of her bare boobs, and I have it saved on my phone, so I was asking if anyone thought that looking at a picture of your own wife naked would fall into the category of "porn" that one should avoid???

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by almightycrunch View Post
                  A month ago my wife texted me a picture of her bare boobs, and I have it saved on my phone, so I was asking if anyone thought that looking at a picture of your own wife naked would fall into the category of "porn" that one should avoid???
                  On the contrary, it is very good, especially if you let her know about it!
                  A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by MrB8 View Post
                    On the contrary, it is very good, especially if you let her know about it!
                    Well, if you have seen any of my previous posts for the last day or two, you'd see that this might not necessarily be the case. I need to work on my own PremE issues, as she doesnt seem to have any notion to participate in helping me fix it, or be a part of anything that needs to happen to help it either. Just wondered if anyone felt that looking at naked pictures of your own wife, would fall into the same category as looking at naked pictures of any random woman, or if the mental connection between the two of us would be beneficial.(if there is indeed anything left) good grief, what a mess

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
                      Porn... oh how it's so much more stimulating than regular television.
                      Jay depends on the channel though.
                      Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
                      Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
                      The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

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                      • #12
                        What about videos youve made urself with another?
                        Starting..........Current
                        BPFSL - 8"........8 7/8"
                        BPEL - 7.5".......8.5"
                        NBPEL - 7"........8"
                        MSEG - 5.5"......6"

                        All time goal
                        9.5"x6.5" :biggrin1: 8=======D

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by PurpleOnes View Post
                          Jay depends on the channel though.
                          Yes! You are correct! I forgot TV has porn on demand lmao
                          You never slow down, you never grow old!

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