jerking with a condom on

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

Lately I've been wondering about the whole "having actual sex is different from masturbating dry"

Obviously I know that's true. After refraining from a lot of porn and using my imagination while masturbating I went from a minute man to 10-15 minue man.

I thought awesome I'm finally getting results.

I used to jerk in a condom for a more realistic feel when I was younger so I thought I'd try it again.

I tried about 3-4 times and I can't even last 1 minute! The PONR is so overpowering that it's extremely difficult to even kegel. It feels like I'm about to explode and when I climax it's some of the strongest and best feeling ejaculations ever. I literally look like I'm having a seizure or close to how girls orgasm. Crazy toe curling stuff.

I haven't had real vaginal sex in almost 2.5 years. I did get oral a few times about 2 years ago and I lasted about 3 minutes each...

When I was sexually active I would usually last 3 minutes and on the rare days 10-40 minutes.

Do you guys think I'm cumming even faster than real sex because the condom creates a tight suction and feels unnaturally good or because I'm just sensitive to that wet sensation?

I must say when I am jerking it in the condom my head gets extremely sensitive and I guess that's why I cum so quick.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

It's called a "posh wank" haha

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

So are you using a stopwatch to time yourself ?

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

Lol I do spit in it before putting it on to help mimic a real vagina. Feels pretty damn good.

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

So are you using a stopwatch to time yourself ?

No but there's many clocks in my house and I used to keep track and still do. I.was always self concious about how long I lasted, especially sex with the gf. Got worse when she started complaining bout how I didn't last long enough.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Stop timing yourself, you may find that you last longer.

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

Stop timing yourself, you may find that you last longer.

It's just the issue right now is how I blow so quick as soon as I start this "posh wank" and how strong of an orgasm I have. My mind and body must be seriously so pu**y deprived

Seriously can't even last 30 seconds. I can't even imagine how quick I'll pop my next sexual encounter. If I can even get hard and stay hard that is because of nervousness and anxiety! I suffer from horrible anxiety and have had bad sexual memories just like how I mentioned before about my ex telling me how I last too short many times.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Anxiety and stress lead to premature ejaculation. Try relaxing, take a hint from your username and do some meditation

It's just the issue right now is how I blow so quick as soon as I start this "posh wank" and how strong of an orgasm I have. My mind and body must be seriously so pu**y deprived

Seriously can't even last 30 seconds. I can't even imagine how quick I'll pop my next sexual encounter. If I can even get hard and stay hard that is because of nervousness and anxiety! I suffer from horrible anxiety and have had bad sexual memories just like how I mentioned before about my ex telling me how I last too short many times.

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

Anxiety and stress lead to premature ejaculation. Try relaxing, take a hint from your username and do some meditation

Yes only if it was that easy.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Yes only if it was that easy.

It might be easier if you stop trying to make it so tough!

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

It might be easier if you stop trying to make it so tough!

Perhaps so my friend. MIND REBOOT!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Honestly, I never really understood the term "premature ejaculation".

I always coined it as... ejaculating during foreplay, before even pulling the king out of the trousers.

Or does premature ejaculation fall under the category of, not having ejaculatory control?

Or is ejaculation termed premature.. if say, I ejaculate before she orgasms, or ejaculates, during sex?

Fuck me I'm so lost. lmao

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

Honestly, I never really understood the term "premature ejaculation".

I always coined it as... ejaculating during foreplay, before even pulling the king out of the trousers.

Or does premature ejaculation fall under the category of, not having ejaculatory control?

Or is ejaculation termed premature.. if say, I ejaculate before she orgasms, or ejaculates, during sex?

Fuck me I'm so lost. lmao

I guess the official meaning is busting before even sex or lasting under a minute.

The average guys last around 3-7 minutes supposedly so I'm actually considered average but what girl wants to get banged for 3 minutes on average and what guy wants to last only 3 minutes? lol there's no other feeling of having your schlong in the wet tight hole, want to last as long as possible.

To be quite frank, I have experienced twice real premature ejaculation. Busted in my pants just from touching girls body....very embarrassing

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I would love to find a vagina that can make me bust in such a short time frame. Jesus!

I swear, the only time I bust quick is when I'm a rush, pounding that ish out, and flexing my PC muscle like I'm the incredible hulk. lolz balance your pelvic floor and arousal levels bro.

[smallbuddha Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallbuddha]

I would love to find a vagina that can make me bust in such a short time frame. Jesus!

I swear, the only time I bust quick is when I'm a rush, pounding that ish out, and flexing my PC muscle like I'm the incredible hulk. lolz balance your pelvic floor and arousal levels bro.

Yessir that's what I need to work on before I even try getting my dick bigger. Funny thing though, just from my two "heavy"(noob mistake) stretching and jelqing sessions, my dick hangs longer and fuller while flaccid now lol. It used to be always turtled up. I swear though I was on the verge of damaging my dick I got lucky. I still do helicopter shakes here and there in the showers just for the hell of it. My girth also definitely got a little thicker. I guess I maybe blessed with the ability to gain size somewhat easily.

But what use is a big dick if I bust a nut after a few minutes lol