Looking for feedback on curing my pre E

[Benny]

Hey everyone,

I just stumbled on this sight and have been reading for a while. I finally decided that it's time to stop dicking around and take charge of my sex life.

I’m 27 years old, fit, good diet, and all that. But I’ve suffered from premature ejaculation since I can remember.

Although, I have key sexual experiences that I can remember, that I managed to last as long as I wanted. One of them was the first time I had sex in HS, I was drunk and managed to go for over an hour if I remember correctly.

The second time was recently, I had been building a new relationship, and finally my hard work was about to pay off....but... the first night I came in literally under a minute! This was the first time in my life, I could not get it back up (typically during intercourse I could cum, and go right back at it).....she was super cool about it, but in my mind I was freaking out!! Wondering if I was ever going to be able to have sex again!?

The next day I used all my resources, and managed to find a Viagra like product, that I literally had to inject in my penis. Since I was desperate I took it. That night I felt what it felt like to be a super star in the sack, and lasted as long as I wanted.

Which made me wonder "Why is it, that when I took a sexual performance enhancer did I have complete control?"

Anyways, I do not want to rely on pills, and products for the rest of my life to provide me with a fulfilling sex life. So I have begun to train my response system daily to get the best results possible. I am using daily consistent exercise to train this part of my body.

This is what I am doing; (Please let me know if there are more effective ways of doing this)

Every day I do 3 sets of 4 minute kegals i.e. 10 seconds front kegals 10 seconds reverse.
& in the morning, I edge at a slower but decent pace until I hit the PONR, but I do not ejaculate for about 3 days. It takes me, on average 12 minutes to get to this point. If I am dosing off thinking about nothing, I can go forever. It is until I use my imagination that I begin to speed through the arousal phases too quickly. Also, not ejaculating makes you extremely horny, I find it difficult to no look at porn, or think of women all day (which makes it pretty tough to not want to masturbate). Usually I can focus on the tasks at hands, but now I find myself thinking about sex ALLLLL the time.

Although I am currently on a deployment, so I do not have a consistent partner to experiment with. My plan is to keep taking a half a Viagra before sex, until I am confident enough to go on my own. Although I have no prescription, so if I cannot find Viagra, I was thinking of using sprays, or other herbal supplements in hopes of it increasing my staying time, until I am able to go without. Has anyone used anything that has helped them? I see okay reviews on a spray called xperformance, and horny goat weed.

[longerlastingnoob]

Instead of using numbing and staying sprays use the extra sensitive ones. If your lasting a long time edging this will do good for getting used to going longer while more sensitized. Also maybe try the death grip.
Can i ask what do you think is causing pre e, is it strong ik's, high sensitivitivity or something else.

[Benny]

I'm not too sure. When edging alone & no imagination, I have control over the outcome. The problem is the worst when I am actually having sex, or watching porn. I'm starting to narrow it down to getting too excited when I'm about to have sex, or see sexual images. But that doesn't explain why I take a drug for ED, and all the sudden I have complete control? I also have Ik's when I am really turned on, I seem to be able to control it using A RK to counter, but once I start getting close to the PONR I can't control it anymore.

I am thinking about moving on to edging while using my imagination more. I tried it today. I found that when I think of myself as a more confident lover, and someone that has control over the outcome, I seem to last longer and have more control.

Has anyone ever tried hypnotism? I dloaded a hypnotism cd that is said to cure pre E. Wondering if anyone has tried it?

[Benny]

Also has anyone tried a testosterone booster? For my age I have a healthy test level, but Im always concerned I wont get erect again after I cum once, which is how iv'e gotten by this long. I know with extra test your raising your chances of being able to keep having sex after you cum, and lifting your libido. Just concerned about raising estrogen along with it, or losing my hair haha.

[MrB8]

Also has anyone tried a testosterone booster? For my age I have a healthy test level, but Im always concerned I wont get erect again after I cum once, which is how iv'e gotten by this long. I know with extra test your raising your chances of being able to keep having sex after you cum, and lifting your libido. Just concerned about raising estrogen along with it, or losing my hair haha.

Synthetic testosterone will mess up your body's natural testosterone production, and general hormones level, it is for those who really need it, and they should be under medical supervision.


If you want to minimize your refractory period, research MMO, and strengthen and balance your pelvic floor, all healthy, no side effects and fun.


https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...asm-guide.html

Multiple Male Orgasms: Are They Real?

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/677...geing-etc.html

[longerlastingnoob]

You have that control solo with no external stimulus so getting used to that, porn, your gf, will help you last. For stopping the ik's that was my big problem i was used to high arousal and sensitivity wasn't a big issue but when i cut out the ik's, during sex and in everday situations i kept progressing in the time i lasted. Start doing a rk's a few times a day as many as possible without straining. And short bursts.