kegels and edging

[b123]

When you do kegels do you stop when your pc muscle is at failure ? i can hold my pc muscle for longer than a minute.

When edging i do this normally .. if im doing edging for 30 minutes i will get to the point of needing to cum then stop and start every 10 minutes so in a 30 minute session i will stop and start 3 times is this right or should i stop and start more ?

And why is it that when masterbating i can last as long as i want but with sex i cant last more than 30 seconds ?

[Pegasus]

The idea is to give yourself a decent workout with kegals, it doesn't need to be done in one rep.
I am a edging rebel and have dry orgasms soon and often. But I believe in doing what works for you.
If you keep training you should be able to apply it to sex.

[st.it]

I am a newbie (1st post ), but I think I can answer one of your questions.

The vagina feels much better than the hand, so there is a difference in physical stimulation.
And then there is more visual and tactile stimulation since a real person probably beats porno or whaterver visual stuff you use for jerking off. Sex is the real deal, masturbation is lesser imitation.
Also consider that you are with another person, and not solo. I dont think you could last as long as you want with your partner masturbating you. Psychological factor there.

[b123]

Thank You st.it and pegasus but is there anyone who can answer my 2nd question ?

[JohnSmith011]

I think your edging sessions are fine its all about doing what works for you and 30 mins of edging is alot more than i do i usually only get in 5-10 mins becaue my routines are so long and i am also quitting porn but anyway hope this helps

[pe_ZEN]

Thank You st.it and pegasus but is there anyone who can answer my 2nd question ?

pay very close attention to the way you are kegeling when you are having sex. See if your automatic reaction is to kegel constantly, for many it is...

[b123]

Ok so i am edging right ?

[pe_ZEN]

When you do kegels do you stop when your pc muscle is at failure ? i can hold my pc muscle for longer than a minute.

When edging i do this normally .. if im doing edging for 30 minutes i will get to the point of needing to cum then stop and start every 10 minutes so in a 30 minute session i will stop and start 3 times is this right or should i stop and start more ?

And why is it that when masterbating i can last as long as i want but with sex i cant last more than 30 seconds ?

Your question are you edging correctly, it sounds like you are. I like to think of it as "hovering" around the PONR

Your last question, well that may be a more complicated story but overkegeling may be the reason why...

[b123]

So if i relax my pc muscle through sex i might be able to last longer ?

And when i first started having sex about 2 years ago i could last atleast 10 minutes every time and sometimes up to an hour but for about 7 months i cant last long at all.