Hi,I'm RisingHope and a long time lurker. But I had to admit that I won't get very far alone or that it would take way more time than needed so, here I am,hoping that the feedback I get from this forum will be able to guide me more efficiently to my goal.
Since we gotta start somewhere,I'll share my story with you. I discovered pornography pretty early in my life. My first encounter with that medium was at the age of 8 years. Now don't worry it wasn't anything hardcore. It was one of those softcore movie that would be aired at midnight(if anyone live in the province of Quebec and watched TQS back when it still existed,they'll know the word Bleu Nuit lol). I only watched a bit and it didn't trigger much in me.
Skipping forward by 4 years. Ah...12 years old. The dreaded puberty. No I was not rebellious, but I sure was horny as hell! I had my first ejaculation by rubbing myself on a pillow until I came. From that moment forward, I'd masturbate by rubbing myself on a pillow or using a calendar with sexy women that I found. At that period I didn't have a computer...yet. When I finally got my computer, I still remember the first search I ever made on Google: XXX. I still remember how overwhelmed I was. My heart was beating very fast. I was seeing a women naked for the first time. It wasn't softcore crap where you don't even see her genitals. I masturbated and came a lot. Porn was my new drug. I would masturbate pretty even every other day and sometimes, twice in a row.As far as I can remember it was never longer than 10 non-continuous minutes. I would use a light grip and do the start-stop techinique when I reached PONR,until I decided to blow it.(I still do that when I relapse,but that's another issue.). This period where I was hooked on porn lasted for pretty much 5 years...
17 years old...Porn starts to feel boring...I need to watch more bizzare genres to get off...I won't share the details, but I hit the lowest of the lowest genres possible. At 18 years old, I want to become a sex machine like in porn and last 1h30 or something. So I started kegeling with no particular plan other than to do a crapton of Kegels and becoming a MMO and DO. At some point I was doing like 200 kegels x 2 per day.
Very recently(as in 5 months ago), I decided to lose my virginity. So I went to a massage parlor and chose some chubby girl. Fake massage and stuff, when prompted I ask for full intercourse. No teasing or anything she puts some lube and gets in cowgirl position. 30 secs later and I was done. She even said: "Already?". I felt kinda awkward but deep down I knew it was bound to end like this the first time. I left...pretty pissed off about sex.
A month later,I went to another massage parlor and picked a decent girl this time. Got to play around a bit more. She gave me a blowjob with a condom on and I didn't blow it instantly. Thought it was a sign that I was already used to sex. We got into doggy style position and after about 30 secs I was done...again. At least she didn't make any commentary...
A month later(seeing a pattern here lol), I went to a nuru massage parlor. They don't go full intercourse,only a handjob. Also the girl spends more time massaging you. After some time,you switch side and she does some body to body and you can touch her. When she grabbed my penis to release me, I blew it...after 6-7 strokes. At this point I was suspecting that something is wrong. I mean,by the 3rd sexual encounter,I should be able to last at least 5 minutes right?
About 3 weeks later is when I started to get desperate a bit. I went and did it with some ugly 48 year old granny. She was pretty overweight(face wasn't that bad). She started by trying to give me a blowjob(no condom),but as soon as she started licking,I felt like I was going to cum just like that. I went down on her to last longer. Then we switched to doggy. Yep, as you guessed after a few thrusts, I could feel the PONR so I was doing the stop-start technique as usual. She wasn't wet at all and so after some rather intensive thrusting,I could feel something snap. Lo and behold, my penis was all bloody. Frenulum snapped. I hurried to cum,then I got the f*** out of there as soon as I could,cursing the thing known as sex.
2 weeks later(lol), I went to a massage parlor again. This time it was some cheap a** asian with saggy tits. We immediately got into it. She started by giving me a blowjob(with cap on)...and I almost came in 10 secs. Told her to stop,she giggled a bit(Tch.). We got into missionary and I was thrusting, I already knew I wouldn't last...again!. I left sad and depressed and stayed that way for a few days. At this point, I was researching like a mad scientist on the subject of PreE. I was already doing Minuteman's DO routine in order to bring back pelvic floor balance(currently at Lvl 0,Sublevel 0.3). In the meanwhile,I had relapsed to porn after 30 days of abstinence.
October 27th...Nuru..again.Sensual BS and stuff. Still blew it after 6-7 strokes.
November 1st...Massage parlor...again. This time I was able to last 1 min? It seemed to have lasted 1 min anyway.Relapsed to porn on November 3rd and 8th... and this is my story so far. Nice to meet you all, and I already thank you for the feedback I'll probably get from members
So far I'm only doing Minuteman's DO routine and ammonite's Plateau Edging(when I can find some privacy). If you have any additonal routine suggestions or questions,feel free to ask
Since we gotta start somewhere,I'll share my story with you. I discovered pornography pretty early in my life. My first encounter with that medium was at the age of 8 years. Now don't worry it wasn't anything hardcore. It was one of those softcore movie that would be aired at midnight(if anyone live in the province of Quebec and watched TQS back when it still existed,they'll know the word Bleu Nuit lol). I only watched a bit and it didn't trigger much in me.
Skipping forward by 4 years. Ah...12 years old. The dreaded puberty. No I was not rebellious, but I sure was horny as hell! I had my first ejaculation by rubbing myself on a pillow until I came. From that moment forward, I'd masturbate by rubbing myself on a pillow or using a calendar with sexy women that I found. At that period I didn't have a computer...yet. When I finally got my computer, I still remember the first search I ever made on Google: XXX. I still remember how overwhelmed I was. My heart was beating very fast. I was seeing a women naked for the first time. It wasn't softcore crap where you don't even see her genitals. I masturbated and came a lot. Porn was my new drug. I would masturbate pretty even every other day and sometimes, twice in a row.As far as I can remember it was never longer than 10 non-continuous minutes. I would use a light grip and do the start-stop techinique when I reached PONR,until I decided to blow it.(I still do that when I relapse,but that's another issue.). This period where I was hooked on porn lasted for pretty much 5 years...
17 years old...Porn starts to feel boring...I need to watch more bizzare genres to get off...I won't share the details, but I hit the lowest of the lowest genres possible. At 18 years old, I want to become a sex machine like in porn and last 1h30 or something. So I started kegeling with no particular plan other than to do a crapton of Kegels and becoming a MMO and DO. At some point I was doing like 200 kegels x 2 per day.
Very recently(as in 5 months ago), I decided to lose my virginity. So I went to a massage parlor and chose some chubby girl. Fake massage and stuff, when prompted I ask for full intercourse. No teasing or anything she puts some lube and gets in cowgirl position. 30 secs later and I was done. She even said: "Already?". I felt kinda awkward but deep down I knew it was bound to end like this the first time. I left...pretty pissed off about sex.
A month later,I went to another massage parlor and picked a decent girl this time. Got to play around a bit more. She gave me a blowjob with a condom on and I didn't blow it instantly. Thought it was a sign that I was already used to sex. We got into doggy style position and after about 30 secs I was done...again. At least she didn't make any commentary...
A month later(seeing a pattern here lol), I went to a nuru massage parlor. They don't go full intercourse,only a handjob. Also the girl spends more time massaging you. After some time,you switch side and she does some body to body and you can touch her. When she grabbed my penis to release me, I blew it...after 6-7 strokes. At this point I was suspecting that something is wrong. I mean,by the 3rd sexual encounter,I should be able to last at least 5 minutes right?
About 3 weeks later is when I started to get desperate a bit. I went and did it with some ugly 48 year old granny. She was pretty overweight(face wasn't that bad). She started by trying to give me a blowjob(no condom),but as soon as she started licking,I felt like I was going to cum just like that. I went down on her to last longer. Then we switched to doggy. Yep, as you guessed after a few thrusts, I could feel the PONR so I was doing the stop-start technique as usual. She wasn't wet at all and so after some rather intensive thrusting,I could feel something snap. Lo and behold, my penis was all bloody. Frenulum snapped. I hurried to cum,then I got the f*** out of there as soon as I could,cursing the thing known as sex.
2 weeks later(lol), I went to a massage parlor again. This time it was some cheap a** asian with saggy tits. We immediately got into it. She started by giving me a blowjob(with cap on)...and I almost came in 10 secs. Told her to stop,she giggled a bit(Tch.). We got into missionary and I was thrusting, I already knew I wouldn't last...again!. I left sad and depressed and stayed that way for a few days. At this point, I was researching like a mad scientist on the subject of PreE. I was already doing Minuteman's DO routine in order to bring back pelvic floor balance(currently at Lvl 0,Sublevel 0.3). In the meanwhile,I had relapsed to porn after 30 days of abstinence.
October 27th...Nuru..again.Sensual BS and stuff. Still blew it after 6-7 strokes.
November 1st...Massage parlor...again. This time I was able to last 1 min? It seemed to have lasted 1 min anyway.Relapsed to porn on November 3rd and 8th... and this is my story so far. Nice to meet you all, and I already thank you for the feedback I'll probably get from members
So far I'm only doing Minuteman's DO routine and ammonite's Plateau Edging(when I can find some privacy). If you have any additonal routine suggestions or questions,feel free to ask
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