can't cum from a blowjob - death grip?

[_Jericho_]

hey, i've been edging for a while now and working on my pelvic floor balance. i've been doing this before any sexual experience. now after getting blow jobs and hand jobs i've noticed some stuff i wish to share here and hear your opinion on this situation -

i can not cum from blowjob \ handjob. i do get had in a few seconds and remain 60-90% erection level during that act but i can last forever. problem is i tend to believe i have the death grip problem. if i close my eyes during the blowjob i cant really feel anything. when shes going deep i do feel more pleasure and the act itself do feel nice (its not like i cant feel anything, and i can get close to the PONR if shes going really hard without stopping).

for the last month i've stopped watching porn entirely and didnt masturbate more than once a week tops. is there something i should do? or should just stop masturbating?

[Pegasus]

Lighten your grip.

[_Jericho_]

Lighten your grip.

as noted here - https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...-drive-ed.html i can simply stop masturbating. should i? and even when i do masturbate i will lighten my grip. how long this process takes? i not looking for an exact date, but i would like to know if it takes weeks, months or years.

[mulkey]

I rarely get off from a bj or a hand job from someone else. I never thought it was a bad thing.

[TPW]

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[_Jericho_]

I rarely get off from a bj or a hand job from someone else. I never thought it was a bad thing.

i never said its a bad thing. i was wondering if i had the death grip or not. because i didnt felt the blowjob when shes was soft.

Hey Jericho,

If the ability to ejaculate via a blowjob is a concern for you, you may find it helpful to give the following article from my blog a quick read...

How He Can Orgasm from a Blowjob

thank you, i will check it out.

[mulkey]

That's what all the PE and edging and stuff does to me also. That's why it makes you last longer. Not getting off just means I can keep going. Maybe your overtraining like I did when I first started. It seems like the more I do with it the less sensitive it is. I'm trying to find a happy medium. I took a few days off and it helped a lot. I think I was numb from overtraining.

[_Jericho_]

That's what all the PE and edging and stuff does to me also. That's why it makes you last longer. Not getting off just means I can keep going. Maybe your overtraining like I did when I first started. It seems like the more I do with it the less sensitive it is. I'm trying to find a happy medium. I took a few days off and it helped a lot. I think I was numb from overtraining.

it does makes sense because when i trained i used forced when jelqing. BUT - i've stopped PE over a month ago because i didnt had the time for my routine.

[WIItard]

Since you really don't have a frame of reference then I would lighten your grip.

On the other hand I don't cum very easy from BJ's myself. Never have.

[mulkey]

what happens if you stop edging?