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    I've had premature ejaculation problems all my life. With intercourse, I last less than 1 minute most times. If I masturbate without lube or get a handjob without lube, I last a long time. When I masturbate with lube, again I can only last a short time. I get over aroused and have involuntary kegels.

    My wife has agreed to help me. What specifically should I ask her to do while we are having sex?

    Thanks.

  • #2
    So you guys use condoms, or not? Have sex in the most arousing positions to get used to them. After that all other positions will be easier. Stop watching porn. Do only reverse kegel exercises outside of sex. No regular kegels.
    Masturbate/edge with a tighter grip using your imagination of her, find all your sensitive spots and rub(balloon) them dry without lube. Fast strokes during masturbation. Go for round 2 and 3 with her. Every time. Don't always ejaculate after edging/masturbating. Once every 3 times. Do jelqiing without lube.
    Good luck.
    Started MAY 2011 BPEL 5 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
    Now MAY 2012 BPEL 6 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
    I have cured myself of prem ejac, now I am working on a bigger shlong.

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    • #3
      ^ what he said. Apart from jelqing without lube, which sounds like a highway to edema to me personally.

      I don't masturbate with my foreskin any more, that weirdly makes me cum quicker, and less aroused so it's not as good an orgasm either. I rub all the sensitive spots now. Don't get me wrong, it took me best part of a year to see improvement and probably another year to actually get there, but you WILL get there if you focus on the highest "OMG I can't handle this" sensitive parts. Gradually.

      The "Peaking" exercises I talked about in my master post are AWESOME for practicing and learning control. Don't get disheartened, it takes time to get there, give it time, but you WILL.

      And focusing on getting rid of those involuntaries is a *must*. They're a symptom anyway, not a cause, you'll find as you get more familiar with your scale, taking it more slowly, they'll just not be there any more.

      I haven't had one involuntary kegel twitch for years. you WILL beat them. Trust me.
      "I want to go to my death bed one day knowing that even when my heart led me into the fire, I fucking did it anyway, and I have the story to tell."

      Everything I know about Premature Ejaculation

      Your dick is almost certainly big enough. Relax

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      • #4
        Originally posted by spanky View Post
        ^ what he said. Apart from jelqing without lube, which sounds like a highway to edema to me personally.

        I don't masturbate with my foreskin any more, that weirdly makes me cum quicker, and less aroused so it's not as good an orgasm either. I rub all the sensitive spots now. Don't get me wrong, it took me best part of a year to see improvement and probably another year to actually get there, but you WILL get there if you focus on the highest "OMG I can't handle this" sensitive parts. Gradually.

        The "Peaking" exercises I talked about in my master post are AWESOME for practicing and learning control. Don't get disheartened, it takes time to get there, give it time, but you WILL.

        And focusing on getting rid of those involuntaries is a *must*. They're a symptom anyway, not a cause, you'll find as you get more familiar with your scale, taking it more slowly, they'll just not be there any more.

        I haven't had one involuntary kegel twitch for years. you WILL beat them. Trust me.
        Haha! I don't rub against the skin when I was dry jelqiing. I go WITH the skin, even though I'm circumcised.
        No pain. It's just for the tightness around the shaft and it inflates the penis head. You just have to experiment.
        Started MAY 2011 BPEL 5 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
        Now MAY 2012 BPEL 6 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
        I have cured myself of prem ejac, now I am working on a bigger shlong.

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        • #5
          Spanky have you sound a sensitive spot right on the top of your penis head right before of near the penis head? That is the only place where I get an involuntary kegel spasm and I still get them. Try to find it. I bet you it's there. It's got to be a major nerve ending.
          Started MAY 2011 BPEL 5 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
          Now MAY 2012 BPEL 6 and a 1/2 inches. EG 5 and a 1/2 inches.
          I have cured myself of prem ejac, now I am working on a bigger shlong.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by JamesMonroe View Post
            Spanky have you sound a sensitive spot right on the top of your penis head right before of near the penis head? That is the only place where I get an involuntary kegel spasm and I still get them. Try to find it. I bet you it's there. It's got to be a major nerve ending.
            It can be really sensitive round there sure, and my frenulum. But I don't get involuntaries at all. I tend to tell women to work on that bit when they're going down on me 'cause it sends me. Through. The. Roof
            spanky
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            Last edited by spanky; 06-12-2015, 02:54 PM.
            "I want to go to my death bed one day knowing that even when my heart led me into the fire, I fucking did it anyway, and I have the story to tell."

            Everything I know about Premature Ejaculation

            Your dick is almost certainly big enough. Relax

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            • #7
              Edge with lube, you said you can last a long time without but using lube sends you over the edge quickly. So get used to it.
              A Game of Bones. A Stretch With Rice And Fire.

              Start1/04/15:BPEL:7.1 MEG:5.2 -1/07/15:BPEL:7.2 MEG:5.4

              Edging For Premature Ejaculation./
              Pelvic Floor Balance./
              Minute Man'snKegel Master List./ Reverse Kegels./
              JP90 Routine./ Conditioning Your Wang.

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              • #8
                Thanks for all the suggestions!

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