My Bathmate Journey to 7" x 6"

[Ben N. Syder]

My Bathmate Journey to 7"x 6"
(Started on 12/14/20 - Day 9 Currently)


Because I haven't been able to measure, I have been taking progress pictures nearly every few days so that I can document my gains in the beginning until I decide to measure. Here are some before and after pics of the 1st (full) week with the bathmate.


First two pics are before I started, the next two are after the first week (mostly an increase in EQ) and then the last picture is my current flaccid state, not true flaccid, this was taken in a cold room to see at its smallest. (I will date these photos correlating to the post)


I have been doing a 5 min jelq warm up before I get in the shower. I get in the shower and do two 10 minute sessions at medium to high pressure, usually I start off at medium pressure and then the second set I go a bit higher, (but I wouldn't really say its "high" pressure) with Jelqing or holds inbetween sets for 2-3 minutes. I have seen an increase in flaccid size at least doubling or tripling what it was a week ago.


PIs have been good, feels good. 8th day of consistent pumping today, switching to 3on/1off, I was pretty sore on the 5th day last week after PE, tomorrow is my rest day. Will keep posting in this thread to keep you all updated on my progress.


-12/22/20 (Edit: This thread has been reposted so I could change the title to be more fitting, look for the original called "Week 1 with Bathmate - Progress Pictures, no measurements yet")

[Ben N. Syder]

Week 2 with Bathmate (Day 17)


The Update:
Week 2 has been good, with the exception of masturbating two times. The first was an accident because I thought edging was a good idea, however the second one I wanted to but I felt bad so I let go at the climax to discourage myself in the future. After day 10 which was my first rest day and the day I came first, I experienced no morning wood and no PIs (day 11) and I could only push to 6.5" in the pump, which I can usually reach past 7" which will be revisited at the end. I recovered from this on day 12 and ruined it again on day 13, I have since recovered and my PIs are good.I am still doing two workouts a day except the day after a rest day, this gives me an extra 12 hours of rest. I was experimenting with cock rings to hold the expansion however I feel that they are impacting the level of stress my member is under because the pump seems far more straining on the days that I use cock rings. I have stopped using them since day 13 and do not intend to revisit them unless my SO takes interest.


Random thoughts: I am mainly looking to gain girth but I don't mind gaining length so it is easier to gain girth later and easier to gain length now, It looks like I have been gaining length. My own hard on catches my eye sometimes because it just appears to be longer, and I can feel the difference in my hand. I still haven't measured but I intend to within the next few days so I can post it in the next update. Also haven't been able to have sex due to the current living situation, which is helping gains I'm sure but no positive affirmations as of lately.


- 12/30/20

[Ben N. Syder]

New Milestone Reached! (Day 19)
Last night was the last day of my 3 day cycle of PE before 1-2 rest days. I have been able to push past 7.5" multiple times upon entering the pump, however my max length while pumping is about 6.5" and 6.75" on good days. I figure the reason I get so far when I very first enter is because of the construction of the bathmate, because the soft base expands and contracts, when I press the pump to my body it is getting max compression, therefore pushing the ruler back to unrealistic proportions.


The breakthrough is that after coming to this realization, I decided I wanted to see what my max pump was now that I have been doing this for 3 entire weeks. I pumped my normal two 10 minute sessions, but at the end of the last one I pumped more to a higher pressure than I have before, I wasn't that much further than what I usually do for high pressure towards the end. But it pushed me up to 7" in the pump WITHOUT pressing the pump into myself! This is huge for me, literally and mentally. I previously had a regular air pump and I never even touched the 6.5" mark. My dick was gigantic for around 45 minutes until it went to its regular afterpump hang until I went to bed. I am excited to measure, I am going to look for my mini measuring devices today. Hope I will get to post another update with a similar title.


-1/1/21

[Ben N. Syder]

Another Milestone Reached! (Day 20 - Almost 3 Weeks)
(Finally measured)
It is 1 day short of 3 entire weeks of using the bathmate. I have noticed I have not measured in quite some time, however I have always been 4.5" EG which is very unsatisfactory in my opinion. I have noticed some gains just by touch and sight, it feels longer in my hand, like somehow I have to move my hand more to get a full stroke in, it feels thicker from time to time but I haven't noticed much, my girlfriend gave me a handjob a couple days ago and she used two hands which she rarely does, I like to think of it as a positive indicator for length. I am happy to say though, after measuring I definitely know that this is working quite well.


Measurements as of 1/2/21:
EL - 6" (+.5")
BPEL - 6.5" (little to no change)
EG - 5" (+.5")


I was pretty damn happy to see I finally had a 6" member, I feel that my BPEL measurement could've been lacking in EQ, I had trouble pressing the ruler comfortably while keeping everything close to the ruler...When I measured my EG I must've done it at least 4 time, I was completely shocked that I had gained A HALF INCH like wtf. I don't think this can be contributed to EQ gains, I am quite past that. Thank you all for following this thread and replying, it keeps me motivated to keep posting which is great for a detailed progress log, I have the notes on my phone but this is far better to look back on. Super happy of where I am at currently, however I changed my goal to 7" x 6" because I thought 5" EG would be bigger. Will keep you all updated.


- 1/2/21

[Ben N. Syder]

I Told My Girlfriend About PE - (Day 21, 3 WEEKS!)

Last night after sex we had got to talking about what it would be like with other partners, because we are both eachothers first, we have no outside sexual experience from eachother and one other sexual partner we invited to the bedroom a few times. I had asked her if she ever wished it was bigger and she said "yes and no at the same time" so at least she's half honest. After she said I was the perfect size I asked her if she was sure? Because I felt like I could be thicker, and she agreed that she thought it would be nice if it was thicker, after I compared my size to one of her toys. I told her that I could get thicker with age, and then I was like tbh, theres this site I found in high school, and I peaked her interest bigtime, I told her I gained a half inch in the past and I could tell that she really liked the sound of everything.

She said I am long enough already, which I can disagree with, I didn't tell her this I just flaunted that I am a good length, however I told her about the posterior and anterior fornix and I feel like her perspective changed a little bit because she didn't say "Well I still think you go too deep" afterwards or try to argue, and knowing her after being together for almost 5 years this means I have interested her to some degree. Which I enjoy because I would really love to meet my goal, I said "I want to do it for me" and she said "Well if it makes you happy it makes me happy" and I teased that she would enjoy the added benefit and she got pretty giddy.

It was an interesting conversation, we talked about a lot of things regarding sex and pleasure and she learned about jelqing, it was honestly surreal. I will probably look for threads that ask the question "Have you told your SO about PE" and post there as well. I am more excited to grow than I ever have before. I STILL haven't told her about the bathmate yet, just because I think thats quite the grand introduction, next time we talk about it I will probably propose to show her my "tools" and break it out. Until next time!

- 1/3/21

[Slitherinsnake]

Keep pushing! You’re making me want to break out my bathmate and get back to it. I’ve been air pumping here for the last couple weeks because it gives me a bit more expansion, but here and there I like to revisit the bathmate. May try and in corporate both in. But I’m chasing length and girth. So we will see how it goes.

[Cabba]

Great to hear about all your progress and gains! Cool to hear about you telling our SO about PE, definitely good to know she’s into it as much as you are!

[Ben N. Syder]

Too Deep In Missionary for the First Time (Day 23) - Feel Like a King

It has almost been a month since I began my bathmate routine. I can say that I have seen some major results, as I said before, the ruler does not say much for gaining BPEL but I am sure I am. I can really feel in my hand I am bigger and thicker than before. After my girlfriend and I had our talk about PE, last night during sex I decided to see if going really deep would be too much for her, I rarely do this just because it fucks up my rhythm, and I already know I could never hurt her in most positions even if I tried. I got closer to her and slowly slid in, just before I was pressing myself against her she moans in half pleasure half pain, I ask her if its to deep, I thrust slowly one more time, and again she moans and pushes me back. For the first time ever in my whole entire life I have been able to bottom out in my girlfriend with such ease. I have done it before in doggystyle, but thats about it, doing it in missionary really boosted my confidence.

I know she would prefer if I didn't gain any more length, we haven't talked again, I just know she wouldn't want it to be "too long" but the way I see it theres no such thing as too long because I don't need to be all the way inside her. I am mainly looking for girth, however my routine seems to be giving me both length and girth equally, and I don't see why I would fix something that isn't broken so I am going to continue with the current routine until my girth plateaus.

I feel selfish but I honestly love the feeling of "being too big" in some way shape or form. Last night was honestly one of the biggest waves of confidence I have ever had come over me, and I really think it changed me as a person because I honestly feel different. I feel bad that I cant go balls deep (until we look for her deep spot) but I also greatly enjoy it. Can't wait until I gain some girth and really start filling her though, I know she would enjoy that most.

What are your thoughts? is there such thing as too big? Too long? Or only too thick? Would you stop gaining if you couldn't go balls deep or get deepthroated any more? If you have an SO, what do they think is "too big"?

1/5/21

[Ben N. Syder]

Im Back! Sight and Touch Girth Increase, Length still going strong + Big GF News (Day 38)

My apologies for being inactive for those who are following this thread. I have been utilizing my spare time running multiple online businesses, I always have, but the grind is extra hard because my girlfriend said that when we move out she would be down to start an OnlyFans with me to make some extra money. I am extraordinarily experienced in Tv and Film production and I am actually in college for it. I know it will be a success. ANYWHO. Here is the real update.

I measure myself very infrequently, I don't go on a schedule, but I know the longer I wait the more inches gained I will see. My length has been steadily increasing week by week. My girlfriend can already fit both her hands around me at once because she is small. However I can ALMOST get two hands on it, (just the shaft, I ignore the head when measuring with my hands) there just isnt enough room for 1 last finger. I can literally feel the length difference when I stroke and when I am inside my GF. I asked her if it looked longer during missionary, and she looked down and the reaction she had was honestly so turned on, I never thought I would see her as smiley as she was in so much pleasure, she couldn't really get words out, but she shook her head yes, and she said "It is, I like that" so things are still going good (in terms of size preference) even though I can bottom her out no problem. Sometimes I worry about her disliking how long I get.

We were at a sex shop looking for some high quality lube when she saw a cock sleeve and said "Does that thing stretch? It seems small AF" which made me happy because that tells me she thinks im thick at least to some degree.

The real change I saw was this morning when I did a TP roll measurement, Its a SUPER snug fit with my head, it just barely slides in. And my dick is really starting to come out of the top. I REALLY fill the whole tube as well. Its shocking to me as just around a month ago it felt more like a hot dog in a hallway. I have pictures from Dec 19th and pictures from January 20th, today. I will post both of these in my profile so you all can really see what Im talking about. I have still been on the same routine. Unplanned, I switched to 1 day on 1 day off for almost a week, just because I was unable to make the time for a long shower some days, this seems to have helped my EQ and I am jumping back in to my full schedule again today. I have been fucking around with some jelqing in the mornings but I stopped pumping morning and night, it seems that my temp gains, and my PIs are better when I only pump once a day. I do use temp gains as a large PI, if my dick isn't plump after the pump, somethings up. I will keep you updated more frequently over the weeks to come. I can't wait to measure, probably before my next post. Until next time, good luck on your gains!

1/20/21

[Ben N. Syder]

Breaking new records in pump regularly, Length is soaring...Measuring soon (Day 44)

Tomorrow will officially be the halfway mark to 90 days of bathmate. I have seen extraordinary results in just the short 45 days that I have been doing it. It is currently my rest day, however I have been able to do 3 days on more consistently, the past three days I pumped PAST 7" in the bathmate. (Typing this feels like such a lie I can't believe I've made it this far, I have photos as well, I will post with my next measurements). I often compare my dick to my phone, I have the iPhone 8+ (outdated I know) with an otterbox case which is 6.72", I used to barely be able to reach the top if I did somewhat of a bone press measurement, now I am the full length of my phone case, and bone pressed almost the whole head is above the top of the case. I am really excited to measure, it seems like I have gained quite a bit since last time.

Sex
My girlfriend has been reaching orgasm faster and faster as the weeks go on. Last night she was really experiencing almost max pleasure I have ever seen with almost no effort on my part, I used to have to try so hard to make her feel the way she did last night and I barely broke a sweat. I do not slip out of her almost ever now. Positions that are tricky to get it in or ones that require to keep putting it back have become easier for both of us. I can't wait to see what the future holds.

Routine
I have still been doing the bathmate in the shower, 3 days on, 1 day off. I usually warm up with a 5 min Jelq before I get hard enough to enter the pump, I pump 1 session for 10 minutes, I have noticed the most significant, and long lasting temp gains by increasing the pressure very gently and gradually the last 2-3 minutes. After exiting the pump I jelq for 3 minutes and then get hard enough for the second pump, I do another 10 minutes in the pump, I usually get about .25-.5" gain from the first session that I can see in the second. I pump for 10 minutes, gradually increasing the pressure, some days less, some days more than the first session. I exit and jelq for 3-5 minutes, and that is the end of my routine. Best case scenario I hold temp gains through the night and into the morning about 2 hours, it would probably equal out to about 9 hours. I use this as a PI.

I will be back soon with measurements, I am really interested to see how much I have gained, it feels fake at this point already.

1/26/21