So for a few weeks now I have been researching issues I am having with ED and I came across several blogs that talk about how extenders have improved erection quality, so I started researching extenders and found this website.
A little background on me:
I'm 51, 6'-4" tall and bit overweight (working on losing weight, goal is to lose 60-70 lbs). My wife and I will soon be empty nesters and we have really started to 'reconnect' with each other over the last several months...including reconnecting intimately (you married guys with young kids know what I mean). Although my desire and drive are still like they were when I was young, my body isn't as cooperative. During intimacy I can achieve an erection but I lose it after only a few minutes. I still wake up with the morning wood almost every morning but I have noticed erection quality (EQ) is slightly diminished. I know age and weight are factors with my ED but the blow to my self confidence is HUGE and I think that is only compounding the issue. I have read that PE can significantly help with EQ so I want to incorporate that in with losing weight to help with my ED. I am highly motivated because I want this phase of our marriage to be the best it's ever been (including intimacy).
So I guess this is the part where I talk about my 'junk'. With a good erection I am 6" long with a 5.1" girth. I am what I think is referred to as a 'grower' and not a 'hanger', so with my 6'-4" frame I feel like I am disproportionately small when erect and I have the 'turtle' syndrome when flaccid...which I have always been very self conscious about but have learned to live with.
So here are my goals: Better EQ, increased duration, increased length (I'd love to get to 8") and (less importantly) some increased hang. I am happy with my girth, so I'm not looking for any significant gains there.
Because we have very busy lives, making the time for a manual PE routine would be impossible for me to commit to. I do, however, work from home at my computer, so an extender seems to be the logical choice for me as I can have it on while I am working and my goal is for length and not girth.
So after a couple of days research I have settled on the Quick Extender Pro Deluxe package with the 4000g springs, and with any luck it'll be here in a week.
After reading through a number of threads I have to say it seems to be a great bunch of guys on this site and many are supportive and willing to help out and encourage members. So with that in mind i'd like to ask a few question...I'm sure these have probably been answered elsewhere, but it's hard trying to sift through all of the information. So if it's ok, I would ask that you humor a newbie.
When using an extender, how permanent are the gains? I have read in numerous places about 'cementing' or 'locking in' the gains but I *think* that may be gains achieved from manual PE?
If/when I achieve my ultimate goal of 8", is regular maintenance required to keep my gains?
So that's it for now, I will post an update when my QEP arrives!
-cheers!
**EDIT**
I figure it's best to keep my weekly progress updated in this post
Week 1 (Jan 29, 2021)
Week 2 (Feb 1, 2021)
Week 3 (Feb8, 2021)
Week 4 (Feb 15,2021)
Week 5 (Feb 22, 2021)
Week 6 (Mar 1, 2021)
Week 7 (Mar 8, 2021)
Week 8 (Mar 15, 2021)
Week 9 (Mar 22, 2021)
Week 10 (Mar 29, 2021)
Week 11 (Apr 5, 2021)
Week 12 (Apr 12, 2021)
Week 13 (Apr 19, 2021)
Week 14 (Apr 26, 2021)
Week 15 (May 3, 2021)
Week 16 (May 10, 2021)
Week 17 (May 17, 2021)
Week 18 (May 24, 2021)
Week 19 (May 31, 2021)
Week 20 (June 7, 2021)
Week 21 (June 14, 2021)
Week 22 (June 21, 2021)
Week 23 (June 28, 2021)
Week 24 (July 5, 2021)
Week 25 (July 12, 2021)
Week 26 (July 19, 2021)
Week 27 (July 26, 2021)
Week 28 (Aug 2, 2021)
Week 29 (Aug 9, 2021)
Week 30 (Aug 16, 2021)
Week 31 (Aug 23, 2021)
Week 32 (Aug 30, 2021)
Week 33 (Sept 6, 2021)
Week 34 (Sept 13, 2021)
Week 35 (Sept 20, 2021)
Week 36 (Sept 27, 2021)
A little background on me:
I'm 51, 6'-4" tall and bit overweight (working on losing weight, goal is to lose 60-70 lbs). My wife and I will soon be empty nesters and we have really started to 'reconnect' with each other over the last several months...including reconnecting intimately (you married guys with young kids know what I mean). Although my desire and drive are still like they were when I was young, my body isn't as cooperative. During intimacy I can achieve an erection but I lose it after only a few minutes. I still wake up with the morning wood almost every morning but I have noticed erection quality (EQ) is slightly diminished. I know age and weight are factors with my ED but the blow to my self confidence is HUGE and I think that is only compounding the issue. I have read that PE can significantly help with EQ so I want to incorporate that in with losing weight to help with my ED. I am highly motivated because I want this phase of our marriage to be the best it's ever been (including intimacy).
So I guess this is the part where I talk about my 'junk'. With a good erection I am 6" long with a 5.1" girth. I am what I think is referred to as a 'grower' and not a 'hanger', so with my 6'-4" frame I feel like I am disproportionately small when erect and I have the 'turtle' syndrome when flaccid...which I have always been very self conscious about but have learned to live with.
So here are my goals: Better EQ, increased duration, increased length (I'd love to get to 8") and (less importantly) some increased hang. I am happy with my girth, so I'm not looking for any significant gains there.
Because we have very busy lives, making the time for a manual PE routine would be impossible for me to commit to. I do, however, work from home at my computer, so an extender seems to be the logical choice for me as I can have it on while I am working and my goal is for length and not girth.
So after a couple of days research I have settled on the Quick Extender Pro Deluxe package with the 4000g springs, and with any luck it'll be here in a week.
After reading through a number of threads I have to say it seems to be a great bunch of guys on this site and many are supportive and willing to help out and encourage members. So with that in mind i'd like to ask a few question...I'm sure these have probably been answered elsewhere, but it's hard trying to sift through all of the information. So if it's ok, I would ask that you humor a newbie.
When using an extender, how permanent are the gains? I have read in numerous places about 'cementing' or 'locking in' the gains but I *think* that may be gains achieved from manual PE?
If/when I achieve my ultimate goal of 8", is regular maintenance required to keep my gains?
So that's it for now, I will post an update when my QEP arrives!
-cheers!
**EDIT**
I figure it's best to keep my weekly progress updated in this post
Week 1 (Jan 29, 2021)
- Friday: 3h
- Saturday: 3h
- Sunday: 3h
Week 2 (Feb 1, 2021)
- Monday: 3h
- Tuesday: 3h
- Wednesday: 6hr - added .5cm rod
- Thursday: 0hr
- Friday: 3h
- Saturday: 0hr
- Sunday: 2.5h
Week 3 (Feb8, 2021)
- Monday: 6h
- Tuesday: 6h
- Wednesday: 5hr
- Thursday: 5.5hr
- Friday: 6h - added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 3.25hr
- Sunday: 4hr
Week 4 (Feb 15,2021)
- Monday: 8h
- Tuesday: 4.5h
- Wednesday: 8hr
- Thursday: 6hr
- Friday: 6h - added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 2.5hr
- Sunday: 3hr
Week 5 (Feb 22, 2021)
- Monday: 8.5h
- Tuesday: 8h
- Wednesday: 4.5hr
- Thursday: 6.75hr
- Friday: 6h
- Saturday: 1hr
- Sunday: 2.5hr
Week 6 (Mar 1, 2021)
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 6.5h
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 5.5
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: rest
Week 7 (Mar 8, 2021)
- Monday: 6.5h
- Tuesday: 6.5h
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 5hr
- Friday: out of town
- Saturday: out of town
- Sunday: out of town
Week 8 (Mar 15, 2021)
- Monday: 5h
- Tuesday: 4h
- Wednesday: 2hr
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 3hr - added .5cm rod
Week 9 (Mar 22, 2021)
- Monday: 4h
- Tuesday: 5h
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 3hr
- Friday: 3.75hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
Week 10 (Mar 29, 2021)
- Monday: 1.5h
- Tuesday: 1.5h
- Wednesday: 2hr - strained fundiform ligament
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 11 (Apr 5, 2021)
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: rest
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1hr
- Friday: 1.75hr
- Saturday: 2hr
- Sunday: rest
Week 12 (Apr 12, 2021)
- Monday: 1.75hr
- Tuesday: 2hr
- Wednesday: 2hr
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 2hr
- Sunday: 2hr
Week 13 (Apr 19, 2021)
- Monday: 2hr
- Tuesday: 2hr
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 14 (Apr 26, 2021)
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 1hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 2hr
- Friday: 5.5hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: rest
Week 15 (May 3, 2021)
- Monday: 1hr
- Tuesday: 3.75hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 1.5hr
- Saturday: 3hr
- Sunday: 1.75hr
Week 16 (May 10, 2021)
- Monday: 3.5hr
- Tuesday: 1.5hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 1.5hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.75hr
Week 17 (May 17, 2021)
- Monday: 3hr
- Tuesday: 3.5hr
- Wednesday: 2.5hr
- Thursday: 3.5hr
- Friday: 1hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 18 (May 24, 2021)
- Monday: 4hr
- Tuesday: 3hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 5hr
- Friday: 2.25hr added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
Week 19 (May 31, 2021)
- Monday: 1.5hr
- Tuesday: 3hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 20 (June 7, 2021)
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 5hr
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 21 (June 14, 2021)
- Monday: 2.75hr
- Tuesday: 1.5hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: 4.5hr
- Saturday: 1.75hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
Week 22 (June 21, 2021)
- Monday: 4hr
- Tuesday: 2.5hr
- Wednesday: 1hr
- Thursday: vacation
- Friday: vacation
- Saturday: vacation
- Sunday: vacation
Week 23 (June 28, 2021)
- Monday: vacation
- Tuesday: vacation
- Wednesday: vacation
- Thursday: vacation
- Friday: vacation
- Saturday: vacation
- Sunday: vacation
Week 24 (July 5, 2021)
- Monday: 2.5hrs
- Tuesday: 3.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.75hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: 2.75hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1hr
Week 25 (July 12, 2021)
- Monday: 4hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.5hrs
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 3hrs
- Sunday: 1hr - added .5cm rod
Week 26 (July 19, 2021)
- Monday: 3.5hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 5hrs
- Thursday: 3hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 27 (July 26, 2021)
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 28 (Aug 2, 2021)
- Monday: 5hrs
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 2.5hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 29 (Aug 9, 2021)
- Monday: 5hrs
- Tuesday: travel
- Wednesday: travel
- Thursday: travel
- Friday: hospital
- Saturday: hospital
- Sunday: hospital
Week 30 (Aug 16, 2021)
- Monday: hospital
- Tuesday: hospital
- Wednesday: hospital
- Thursday: recuperating
- Friday: recuperating
- Saturday: recuperating
- Sunday: recuperating
Week 31 (Aug 23, 2021)
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 1hr
- Thursday: 2hrs
- Friday: .75hrs
- Saturday: 2hrs
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
Week 32 (Aug 30, 2021)
- Monday: 4.5hrs
- Tuesday: 3.75hrs
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: 2.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 33 (Sept 6, 2021)
- Monday: 3.5hrs
- Tuesday: 5.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.5hr
- Thursday: 2.5hrs
- Friday: 3.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
Week 34 (Sept 13, 2021)
- Monday: 4.5hrs
- Tuesday: 1hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 1hr
- Sunday: 1hr
Week 35 (Sept 20, 2021)
- Monday: 1hr
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1hr
Week 36 (Sept 27, 2021)
- Monday: 4.5hr
- Tuesday: 2hrs
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1.5hr
- Monday: 2.5hr
- Tuesday: 2.5hrs
- Wednesday: 3hrs
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 2hr
- Tuesday: rest
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Whole week off
- Whole week off
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 4.75hrs
- Thursday: 2hrs
- Friday: 2.5hrs
- Saturday: 2.75hrs
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 1.5hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 4hrs
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: off
- Saturday: 1.5hrs
- Sunday: 2.5hrs
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 5hrs
- Thursday: 1hrs
- Friday: off
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
- Monday: off
- Tuesday: off
- Wednesday: off
- Thursday: off
- Friday: off
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 2.5hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: 1hr
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 3hrs
- Saturday: 3hrs
- Sunday: off
- Monday: 2hrs
- Tuesday: off
- Wednesday: 4.5hrs
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: 3hrs
- Saturday: 3.5hrs - Merry Christmas!
- Sunday: off
- Monday: off
- Tuesday: 2.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 3hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
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