tired of being insecure

[cantthin]

I was kinda nervous about joining a site like this but figure it might help since i can be open and anonymous.

My story is this. Ive slept with three girls one being my current gf. My measurements are roughly 7.5 length by 6 girth.

Anyway ive never thought i was real small or real big until my last gf. She was obssessed with size and always talked about it. One day she decided to tell me about some guy she had hooked up with who was huge and it bugged me. Then to comfort me since he was white she said so what any black guy is that way. race is not an issue with me just that she said that kinda stung even though shed never seen one in person. A few other times shed talk about huge guys and it made me insecure to the point i couldnt have sex anymore and if i tried i couldnt get it up.

My current gf is the first girl ive tried to have sex with since then and she has made several subtle comments about large dicks but nothing too bad. Just recently she decided to tell me though about another ex who was huge apparently.

So now after just barely starting to get over my insecurites and unable to perform. The worst thing is as soon as my pants go back on i have a raging hard on. I wanna get past all this and was hoping this site will help. Mainly im looking to focus on length and i started jp 90 day thing today.

thanks

[Erebus197]

7.5x6 IS huge. Considering the magic number around here is 8x6 you should be (more) huge in no time.

Anyway, welcome to the forum, I'm now going to go back into my self loathing corner of not hugeness

[ldbraveheart]

LOL, Erebus. I've never imagined that a website for penis enlargement would be filled with so many guys with very large penises. I'd give my gall bladder for a 7.5 penis.

[GTO]

I was kinda nervous about joining a site like this but figure it might help since i can be open and anonymous.

My story is this. Ive slept with three girls one being my current gf. My measurements are roughly 7.5 length by 6 girth.

Anyway ive never thought i was real small or real big until my last gf. She was obssessed with size and always talked about it. One day she decided to tell me about some guy she had hooked up with who was huge and it bugged me. Then to comfort me since he was white she said so what any black guy is that way. race is not an issue with me just that she said that kinda stung even though shed never seen one in person. A few other times shed talk about huge guys and it made me insecure to the point i couldnt have sex anymore and if i tried i couldnt get it up.

My current gf is the first girl ive tried to have sex with since then and she has made several subtle comments about large dicks but nothing too bad. Just recently she decided to tell me though about another ex who was huge apparently.

So now after just barely starting to get over my insecurites and unable to perform. The worst thing is as soon as my pants go back on i have a raging hard on. I wanna get past all this and was hoping this site will help. Mainly im looking to focus on length and i started jp 90 day thing today.

thanks

Turn the tables on 'em. Next time they say something asinine like that, say something like "Yeh, I remember my last girlfriend's tits - they were much bigger and nicer than yours." Let them actually HEAR the absurdity of the comments and then they'll think twice before going down that road again.

By the way, welcome to the Gym! 7.5 x 6 is pretty big dude. Period.

[somebodyelse]

you know... Looking at it from this side. you've got huge girth. I think girls are saying that their Ex's are huge because they can't believe that you're as big or bigger than them. Take it as a compliment

[GTO]

you know... Looking at it from this side. you've got huge girth. I think girls are saying that their Ex's are huge because they can't believe that you're as big or bigger than them. Take it as a compliment

Good way to look at it but I think anytime a guy gets compared to another guy - esp. when he is NOT the one to initiate the comparison - can be a bit unnerving.

Oh, and tell them to go get butt implants while they are at it!!

[Flanker6]

Sounds like she's pulling out mind moves on you. 7.5 by 6 is actually considered the perfect penis. She may be just trying to manipulate you and keep your esteem down, some women (and men) do that. Anyways welcome to the forum!

[cantthin]

7.5x6 IS huge. Considering the magic number around here is 8x6 you should be (more) huge in no time.

Anyway, welcome to the forum, I'm now going to go back into my self loathing corner of not hugeness

well i know im not small. But of course even though i say that i cant have sex because im so insecure lol. I was kinda worried about posting on this site though because i didnt know what reactions would be like.

Turn the tables on 'em. Next time they say something asinine like that, say something like "Yeh, I remember my last girlfriend's tits - they were much bigger and nicer than yours." Let them actually HEAR the absurdity of the comments and then they'll think twice before going down that road again.

By the way, welcome to the Gym! 7.5 x 6 is pretty big dude. Period.

With this current girl i did ask her how she would feel if i said my ex was super tight or had amazing tits. It didnt go anywhere she got mad at me and didnt see the similarity somehow...

Good way to look at it but I think anytime a guy gets compared to another guy - esp. when he is NOT the one to initiate the comparison - can be a bit unnerving.

Oh, and tell them to go get butt implants while they are at it!!

yeah exactly, why would they ever feel the need to tell me bout some guy who was bigger then me??

you know... Looking at it from this side. you've got huge girth. I think girls are saying that their Ex's are huge because they can't believe that you're as big or bigger than them. Take it as a compliment

Sounds like she's pulling out mind moves on you. 7.5 by 6 is actually considered the perfect penis. She may be just trying to manipulate you and keep your esteem down, some women (and men) do that. Anyways welcome to the forum!

I think its trying to make me feel bad. A friend of the first girl who caused me all the problems told me my ex confessed she said things like that to make me feel bad. It worked.

thanks for the replies though guys

EDIT: also since im focused mainly on length is it ok to add one length exercise to the jp 90 days routine and if so what a good one for beginners?

[Qarzan]

Be careful, if you get any bigger, you might run into the problem of girls refusing to have sex with you because it's painful / too big.

I personally think you're at a perfect size. Don't do anything to it, unless you're trying to become a porn actor or something...

[amiok]

I was kinda nervous about joining a site like this but figure it might help since i can be open and anonymous.

My story is this. Ive slept with three girls one being my current gf. My measurements are roughly 7.5 length by 6 girth.

Anyway ive never thought i was real small or real big until my last gf. She was obssessed with size and always talked about it. One day she decided to tell me about some guy she had hooked up with who was huge and it bugged me. Then to comfort me since he was white she said so what any black guy is that way. race is not an issue with me just that she said that kinda stung even though shed never seen one in person. A few other times shed talk about huge guys and it made me insecure to the point i couldnt have sex anymore and if i tried i couldnt get it up.

My current gf is the first girl ive tried to have sex with since then and she has made several subtle comments about large dicks but nothing too bad. Just recently she decided to tell me though about another ex who was huge apparently.

So now after just barely starting to get over my insecurites and unable to perform. The worst thing is as soon as my pants go back on i have a raging hard on. I wanna get past all this and was hoping this site will help. Mainly im looking to focus on length and i started jp 90 day thing today.

thanks

Didn't read the whole thing. But listen man if you're 7.5 by 6 you are a beast. I'm 4.5 by 5, who should be insecure here?



And I am.