Edging with Fleshlight log

[alex553]

How does the lube work in the STU fleshlight, also are you experimenting with different thrusts too?

I use xantham gum lube, here is a detailed post I made about making it. You can buy all the supplies in a nearby grocery store, probably an organic one like MOMs or Wholefoods. https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...tml#post479654

I mostly work on thrusting in the missionary position because that is one of my weaker positions in terms of lasting and it's just such a popular position. I've also worked on different paces in the past, such as working my way up from 1 fast and 1 normal thrust to 10 fast and 1 normal thrust. Nowadays I'm not nearly as dedicated because life is getting in the way, but I know very soon i can come back to it 100%.

Honestly, I think as long as you're thrusting you're getting a lot of progress for your time. Just don't forget to switch up positions once in a while.

[alex553]

Do you use porn? I used to always use porn with it and I would last like 2 minutes maybe, now I am trying to get out of using porn.

No no no no no no!

Seriously, NO! Porn is BAD!

Porn fucks me in the ass in so many ways. Mentally, I feel like I should be making girls orgasm and scream in 5 seconds, so I end up thrusting super fast and blow my load way too fast. It gives me ED, which in turn gives me premature ejaculation, which makes my ED even worse. It's just a bad bad cycle of negativity. It affects me especially bad and it sounds like it messes with you as well, so just don't use it.

I remember over a couple months where I "didn't look at porn" but I would still use it while fleshlight edging to get the first erection, to get a harder erection when I lost it mid-edging, in the end to maybe do a couple jelqs. In the long-run, this will FUCK YOU UP! Just don't use it at all. A very big benefit other than the obvious ones is that I can get an erection pretty much any time I want to in under a minute, sometimes in 1.5 minutes without even being horny. This is a skill I didn't have when I was watching porn. I am pretty proud of this because I know other guys without ED can't do this without porn.

[bautista19]

Alex, OMG, your story sounds identical to mine. I used the FL this weekend without fantasizing and EQ was completely different. I did manage at about the 8 minute mark each time to get to that point of good EQ, but it took entirely way too long focusing on the feeling and leaving my mind blank.

I am so thankful I found this website. If nothing else I'll be better at jerking off.

[bautista19]

Alex,

Did it take you a while after quitting porn to get an EQ adequate enough to even FL? It takes me tons of work to do so now just 4 days in and I am thinking of working on quitting the porn and just doing PE (for quality EQ) before I begin edging or anything like that for stamina.

[alex553]

Alex,

Did it take you a while after quitting porn to get an EQ adequate enough to even FL? It takes me tons of work to do so now just 4 days in and I am thinking of working on quitting the porn and just doing PE (for quality EQ) before I begin edging or anything like that for stamina.

I don't know it depends on a lot of factors. Some times it might take a week or two for your penis to work right after quitting porn so don't be surprised. Don't wait on the edging, that will raise your EQ as well. Just don't have high expectations for lasting time and you'll be fine.

[bautista19]

Thanks for the advice. The strangest thing happened to me on day #5 porn free. I was sitting around the living room and I got that feeling down there. The wife was asleep so I figure I'd take the chance to experiment without porn or fantasies. I had an extremely good EQ, I'd say 9/10. It just wasn't throbbing. For about 10 minutes without the FL I worked on the glans and it felt amazing. I never would focus on it during masturbation before (alongside with a porn addiction, talk about a recipe for pre e). I could have easily been able to use the FL.

I think the fact I did so little stimulation to the glans will help me with a quick turnaround for my EQ.

I could have edged, but I was feeling confident and I didn't want to add a level of difficulty to my session.

[alex553]

Thanks for the advice. The strangest thing happened to me on day #5 porn free. I was sitting around the living room and I got that feeling down there. The wife was asleep so I figure I'd take the chance to experiment without porn or fantasies. I had an extremely good EQ, I'd say 9/10. It just wasn't throbbing. For about 10 minutes without the FL I worked on the glans and it felt amazing. I never would focus on it during masturbation before (alongside with a porn addiction, talk about a recipe for pre e). I could have easily been able to use the FL.

I think the fact I did so little stimulation to the glans will help me with a quick turnaround for my EQ.

I could have edged, but I was feeling confident and I didn't want to add a level of difficulty to my session.

Great job bautista19. Unfortunately I have not been doing as good as you as I fell off the bandwagon and looked at porn for a couple days, but starting again! If it's one thing I've learned, it's to learn from your mistakes and not get to down over it.

[alex553]

Well fellas, I'm starting again and hopefully for good now. I will be busy in the next couple months but I at least have the opportunity to edge with privacy for some time, so I'll make the best out of it!

Couples things: daily stretching that focuses on relaxing the pelvis. Some core building exercises, but starting slowly because of injury- running, pullups. Hopefully daily self massage but I can't see myself following it that closesly, so maybe 3-4x/week. The edging I don't know how often it will be as well because of my schedule, but hopefully at least 4x/week.

Sunday 8/19
Session 1
8:15 minutes very fast missionary

Session 2
~6 minutes couple breaks average speed missionary
(took a couple minutes to get rid of constant PONRs)

[AnonMe]

Any updates? Any sex yet? I'm really curious to know if your method has helped while with a woman.

[hoochiNn]

Any updates? Any sex yet? I'm really curious to know if your method has helped while with a woman.

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