Edging with Fleshlight log

[hoochiNn]

TLDR: massaging core areas has a 100% (but only 2 out of 2) success rate in lasting longer, reducing involuntary kegels.

Wich type of massaging? How to do it?

[dafaq]

Hm, no idea which topic is main for this toy, but..
I have STU, then I had some two others (some tight (11mm diameter I believe, not the 9mm not the 18mm realistic one) and here is what I think.
It takes longer with fleshlight to reach PONR (point of no return), than with hand (not sure what grip, as I'm still googling grip groups)
Oh yes, also I have had lot's of those tenga eggs, I think it's trash, no real fun, cheap rubber..
And have that white tenga, which you can "slice open" like book.. and clean easily.
They say tenga is for "ultimate joy feeling" or what ever, and that STU and fleshlight is to simulate real sex.
Can't compare it to real sex yet, for obvious reasons.
But it is fun to play with STU.
I really HIGHLY DOUBT this help, becasue I think PE is 90% due to psychology thing in our man's brain and so on..
But that STU thing, well, it's like "wow" in the first seconds, and then you I either reach PORN very quickly or very slowly.
Funny thing is, one day I can reach ponr as fast as like let's say 1 minute (or maybe a bit less), or sometimes never..
I guess it depends on mood or what..
But one day back then I tried to do as many cums as possbile, and managed to stay under 1cums/30minutes, 5 times in total, STU helped with last two one Ithink (hand eas dead-tired), I have no idea what was the point of this experiment, but I just placed a bet with one chick, she said it's impossible to do more than 2-3 cums with 30minute pause (yet I had pause no more than 2-10minutes). But it was really hard job Did not try it anymore as I was afraid I could damage something..
But all I can say, with STU it is "mind job" rather than "hand job".. At least this is my observation (but it might be due to my 8-9years no-lube-maybe-or-maybe-not-death-grip )
Funny thing is, I'm so used to left hand (oh yes, internet porn, left handed shit I did quit 3 days ago) than with the right, it takes like forever - i was right handed before, left did not work back then, so I guess this is curable, few weeks or month or two...
I'm not sure, but if this makes me stay longer in real sex, I'll be quite glad... But some of you say, be carefull what I wish for :/
My brain will explode soon, this forum is larger than I ever imagined..
EDIT:
funny thing is, that once I wanted to get quick porn finishment before I go to work, and I beathed the hell out of it, with no-lube-maybe-or-maybe-not-death-grip for nearly 40 minutes)
that tells me that maybe it's really something in-the-mind-rather-hand theory is right..
not sure, but I think something similar happened with fleshlight too..

but the orgasm itself is more intense with fleshlight, but that cleaning process doesn't worth it much