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[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

Unfortunately, there is no magical spell or catchy phrase that is going to make a female hop in bed with you. In my time here and at Betterman's there seems to be a high correlation with guys who have confidence in themselves, being outgoing, funny and humorous, and willing to talk to women. These guys seem to be very successful in going out with women and subsequently having sex with them.

On the other hand, there seems to be a high correlation with guys who wallow in self-pity, obsess over their penis size and make excuse after excuse to not ask girls out, also. These guys get very few dates, which obviously leads to less sex.

I am not trying to make anyone feel bad; on the contrary, I am trying to help some of you. Don't get discouraged if you have one or more bad experiences with a female. Use it as a learning tool and then go out and ask another girl out. Remember, some girls are petty, spiteful bitches. Don't let them destroy your self-confidence or get you to believe that all women act the way they do.

I would like some input as to why it is so hard to do the above. Or, is it more fun to sit in front of a computer screen and masturbate to porn than to go out and meet a girl and create your own porn?

[fornan Member Find all posts View Profile Close fornan]

I'm so excited for tomorrow!! My first time renting a hotel, first time with a condom yeuuhhh hopefully first doggy style (she only likes cowgirl....nothing more) But we're still NOOBS!! IM SO EXCITED!!! Ever since I woke up this morning i've been ready for sunday

[59wood Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 59wood]

I'm so excited for tomorrow!! My first time renting a hotel, first time with a condom yeuuhhh hopefully first doggy style (she only likes cowgirl....nothing more) But we're still NOOBS!! IM SO EXCITED!!! Ever since I woke up this morning i've been ready for sunday

High Five!!! and have fun....Let us know how it was with your "date"..

[fornan Member Find all posts View Profile Close fornan]

High Five!!! and have fun....Let us know how it was with your "date"..

i won't be able to post pictures, but we're going to see the harlem globetrotters an then staying at the westin bonaventure!! Goodbye paycheck!! i already bought "durex extra thin"....i dunno they were at CVS and i just kinda grabbed em i didnt want to pretend like im looking because its so awkward feeling when other people see you staring at condoms >.<

[RIB2211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RIB2211]

It's hard because most of the users on this site are age 18-25 (that is just my rough guess). For guys like me who are in still in college, the majority of girls are just...hard to come by. The ones we always go after already have a long line of guys behind them, and therefore see us new guys as nothing more than fodder.

For myself, never in my life have I had a random hook up with a girl I met that night. All the girls I have ever gotten with I have known through class, and it's never until like, the fourth or fifth time we hang out that maybe something happens.

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

You're absolutely right, obviously.

Sometimes it feels good to complain and do nothing about it.

Every man eventually gets off his ass and talks to the chick he likes.

[RIB2211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RIB2211]

You're absolutely right, obviously.

Sometimes it feels good to complain and do nothing about it.

Every man eventually gets off his ass and talks to the chick he likes.

and this haha

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Unfortunately, there is no magical spell or catchy phrase that is going to make a female hop in bed with you. In my time here and at Betterman's there seems to be a high correlation with guys who have confidence in themselves, being outgoing, funny and humorous, and willing to talk to women. These guys seem to be very successful in going out with women and subsequently having sex with them.

On the other hand, there seems to be a high correlation with guys who wallow in self-pity, obsess over their penis size and make excuse after excuse to not ask girls out, also. These guys get very few dates, which obviously leads to less sex.

I am not trying to make anyone feel bad; on the contrary, I am trying to help some of you. Don't get discouraged if you have one or more bad experiences with a female. Use it as a learning tool and then go out and ask another girl out. Remember, some girls are petty, spiteful bitches. Don't let them destroy your self-confidence or get you to believe that all women act the way they do.

I would like some input as to why it is so hard to do the above. Or, is it more fun to sit in front of a computer screen and masturbate to porn than to go out and meet a girl and create your own porn?

I think for some guys, it's hard to do the above because the self confidence simply isn't there. As in anything that requires effort, masturbating to porn on the net is easier for some than going out, talking to women, getting a little play and eventually getting into bed with them. I think it also depends on what you are looking for too. My last relationship taught me alot and I'm viewing it as a total learning experience. I'm also of the age where I'm actually wanting Mrs. Right..............while I wouldn't take a one night stand if given the opportunity, that's not ultimately what I want. I'd like to remarry and have my life partner. Then again, I'm approaching 40 so my outlook is a bit different than many guys here who are in their late teens to mid 20's.

I think what's at the core of this is the self confidence card. If you aren't confident about who you are as a man, where you're heading in life and what assets you bring to the table, you're going to strike out with women (unless you've got those chiseled good looks, a ripped physique and a huge 9" dong hangin' off you, you're likely to get rejected unless your self esteem and confidence are well in check).

I'm a very outgoing, congenial, fun type of guy who has no problem approaching a woman on the street and striking up a blind conversation. It simply doesn't bother me. But, that's me..........

[HitTheSpot Member Find all posts View Profile Close HitTheSpot]

For me, i have no problem talking to girls I'm not particularly interested in and being my usual funny and quirky self but when I'm around any girl i have interest in I'm just not able to project my normal usual self. Thus attracting the girls i have little to no interest in. Just a confidence thing i guess!?!

[hardcore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcore]

for me personaly the way americans deal with woman compared from like me in uk is like 2 complete different worlds like cheese and chalk,such a major differanceso much pressure is put on people they get to the stage they dont want to get "laid" first time i got some was 13 which is normal here iv always thot myself as small tho that doesnt make me want it less! if anything it was the girls that wer more causious whre im from anyway im quite confident right enough dont really no if its just my opinion!

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

Hard to say for me, I'm a virgin and 18 so I would like to have a real girl over porn anyday. The only reason I have not had sex is because I feel I have a small penis. I have had girlfriends, but only one I have been on a date with if that makes sense. Never even had my first kiss yet. Not making any generalizations here or bragging but I am real athletic, fairly good looking, and I love to talk to people and be funny. It's just that when it comes to my penis size I feel worthless. I know I shouldn't put too much emphasis on it but it is hard not to. I am here for this reason, I hope a bigger me will give me that extra boost of confidence to "complete" me, haha.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Hard to say for me, I'm a virgin and 18 so I would like to have a real girl over porn anyday. The only reason I have not had sex is because I feel I have a small penis. I have had girlfriends, but only one I have been on a date with if that makes sense. Never even had my first kiss yet. Not making any generalizations here or bragging but I am real athletic, fairly good looking, and I love to talk to people and be funny. It's just that when it comes to my penis size I feel worthless. I know I shouldn't put too much emphasis on it but it is hard not to. I am here for this reason, I hope a bigger me will give me that extra boost of confidence to "complete" me, haha.

Your feelings of inadequacy are all in your head bro. You should NEVER feel inadequate because of your size.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Hard to say for me, I'm a virgin and 18 so I would like to have a real girl over porn anyday. The only reason I have not had sex is because I feel I have a small penis. I have had girlfriends, but only one I have been on a date with if that makes sense. Never even had my first kiss yet. Not making any generalizations here or bragging but I am real athletic, fairly good looking, and I love to talk to people and be funny. It's just that when it comes to my penis size I feel worthless. I know I shouldn't put too much emphasis on it but it is hard not to. I am here for this reason, I hope a bigger me will give me that extra boost of confidence to "complete" me, haha.

I hope your time here helps you become more positive about yourself. You've named four wonderful attributes about yourself. Now you just have to act on them with the girls. You have so much to offer them. As soon as you realize this and act on it, the sooner you will realize how unimportant the size of your penis really is.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

I'm so excited for tomorrow!! My first time renting a hotel, first time with a condom yeuuhhh hopefully first doggy style (she only likes cowgirl....nothing more) But we're still NOOBS!! IM SO EXCITED!!! Ever since I woke up this morning i've been ready for sunday

Good luck, young chap. Enjoy!! I LOOOOOOVE doggy style. You want to have fun with the sales people? You stop at the condom display and wait until there is a sales person around, then you keep handling the super XXX magnums, "trying to make up your mind." Then, when you take them to the counter to pay for them, you hand them to the sales girl, and announce in a loud voice, "Is this the largest size condom you carry here?"

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Good luck, young chap. Enjoy!! I LOOOOOOVE doggy style. You want to have fun with the sales people? You stop at the condom display and wait until there is a sales person around, then you keep handling the super XXX magnums, "trying to make up your mind." Then, when you take them to the counter to pay for them, you hand them to the sales girl, and announce in a loud voice, "Is this the largest size condom you carry here?"

You know going411by7, that sounds funny as hell and I've just enough brass balls to pull that off. Funny stuff man!!

"2, 4 ,6 8, doggy style is really great!.......doggy style, doggy style, yyyeeeeAAAHHHHH doggy style!!!!" lol