Lost confidence

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Hello I have fallen in love with a amazing woman and things are great other than one thing, The first time we made love we needed a condom and I said I can only wear large condoms because normal size hurts.. I'm 7x5.8 and it's mainly the girth that effects condom size, anyway she goes in her room and grabs a magnum condom to her it was being nice but to me it created a million different thoughts like was her ex bigger why else would she have these so the next night I drank a bit and asked her. Bad mistake,, by the way she has a son and his dad wore the magnums, so she went on to say sex was painful but she didn't know if he was longer or the fact his penis curved. She said mine was the thickest and the best sex she ever had. But I can't shake the thought and I know it sounds messed up but it bothers me knowing it hurt with him only because it makes me think he is larger and I have never felt small till now, I just want to feel big again it's driving me insane....

[Reallyshortblackguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Reallyshortblackguy]

You worry too much bruh.

[Mash87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mash87]

I do worry alot I have extreme anxiety

[gfbpa97 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gfbpa97]

Man, come on, you're 7x5.8

[tomasssss Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tomasssss]

Indeed it's very probable you are the thickest she has had, because 5.8 girth is well-above average, in the top 5% for sure (even more i think). Your length is also well above-average. So congrats, you have a big dick and actually nothing to worry about in this department (exept not to hurt the girl going to fast).

There's always gonna be some guy bigger than you, even if you make it to 9 inchesx6.5.

What's the point about talking about her ex dick size? This kind of conversation can only bring bad stuff.

[Mash87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mash87]

Indeed it's very probable you are the thickest she has had, because 5.8 girth is well-above average, in the top 5% for sure (even more i think). Your length is also well above-average. So congrats, you have a big dick and actually nothing to worry about in this department (exept not to hurt the girl going to fast).

There's always gonna be some guy bigger than you, even if you make it to 9 inchesx6.5.

What's the point about talking about her ex dick size? This kind of conversation can only bring bad stuff.

Curiosity I guess after seeing she had magnum sized condoms haha, you're very correct though it's dumb for me to even ask her something like that..

[Pipeman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Pipeman]

I asked the stupid question to my girlfriend... I was blessed with all the answers I wanted to hear...................................But she's also a great liar.. Hahahahaha. We love to get our balls kicked in I guess.. oh well. Dude, you have a big dick. Show her how big it is when you stuff it up her butt, she will then without a doubt know you have a big one..

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

If he was very thick she would have had imported condoms.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Magnums would fit way smaller guys than you. Maybe he bought them to impress her and she had them left over from when he was around. Even if he was long he apparently didn't know how to use it and banged her cervix too much (BTW a 6" long guy can bottom out in a lot of women). And she apparently didn't like his curve. She likes sex better with you and you got the girl. Don't show her your insecurities and enjoy.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

Magnums are a marketing ploy which has been proven...I am actually surprised you didn't have a problem with putting it on at 5.8 girth?. It does also depend on the shape of your dick too.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

You should never ask questions about your partner's previous sex life or size she's had etc. Nothing good can ever come from it.

The size of her ex is completely out of her hands for one and I can tell you now it wouldn't of mattered. He's her ex for a reason.

She's with you now, focus on being a happy couple and out these silly thoughts away before they do any damage.

[Mash87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mash87]

Magnums are a marketing ploy which has been proven...I am actually surprised you didn't have a problem with putting it on at 5.8 girth?. It does also depend on the shape of your dick too.

I actually try to avoid condoms all together but the XLmagnums are about the only condom I have used that don't strangle my manhood off.

[Mash87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mash87]

You should never ask questions about your partner's previous sex life or size she's had etc. Nothing good can ever come from it.

The size of her ex is completely out of her hands for one and I can tell you now it wouldn't of mattered. He's her ex for a reason.

She's with you now, focus on being a happy couple and out these silly thoughts away before they do any damage.

thank you it really is a thing that has faded but will pop up in my head here and there, were very in love and I don't want to mess it up over something that really has nothing to do with true love.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

thank you it really is a thing that has faded but will pop up in my head here and there, were very in love and I don't want to mess it up over something that really has nothing to do with true love.

Get over it. Who cares if you're not the biggest. Worry about being the best.

After my gains I thought I would try Magnums. At my max girth of 7.6x5.5" it was still kind of a loose fit. I haven't used condoms in awhile but also tried a regular and I still am in the "average" condom department. I guess I need to hit 5.75"+ to really belong wearing Magnums. Oh well, no biggie. Lol

[Mash87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mash87]

Get over it. Who cares if you're not the biggest. Worry about being the best.

After my gains I thought I would try Magnums. At my max girth of 7.6x5.5" it was still kind of a loose fit. I haven't used condoms in awhile but also tried a regular and I still am in the "average" condom department. I guess I need to hit 5.75"+ to really belong wearing Magnums. Oh well, no biggie. Lol

You all have helped out alot I just need to be happy with what I have and I know she is for sure!, I'm suprised at 5.5 it would slip off, would my .25 of a inch in girth make that big of a difference ?