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  • How has leaving porn impacted your love life?

    I am on the verge to remove it, but lost to it today.
    Feeling miserable cause I dropped the idea to get an ffm or chance to get with any girl.
    Been three months to that.
    Reduced watching porn, but thid week has been messed up.

    Getting shit thoughts like what if she wants a threesome? How would I feel?
    But I still am unable to drop it.
    Lost to it thrice this week.


    Feeling down.




    And is it usual to have more of such thoughts and easily aroused when leaving porn?
    CURRENT - :baby:
    NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
    BPEL - 7.5 inches.
    EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
    BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


    GOAL - :training1:
    NBPEL - 7.2 inches
    BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
    EG - 5.5 inches

  • #2
    I wish my GF wanted a 3some bahaha banana!

    Tighten up bro! Sounds to me you need strength training in your life. Drop down and do some slow controlled pushups, now!!!!!!!!

    You never slow down, you never grow old!

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    • #3
      Porn is not reality. Most women don't want threesomes!
      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
        I wish my GF wanted a 3some bahaha banana!

        Tighten up bro! Sounds to me you need strength training in your life. Drop down and do some slow controlled pushups, now!!!!!!!!



        Jay haha, sirrrr. You replies in such a way made me feel calm. Thanks banana bro!

        Yes, yes. Wanting to. Really need to too.
        CURRENT - :baby:
        NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
        BPEL - 7.5 inches.
        EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
        BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


        GOAL - :training1:
        NBPEL - 7.2 inches
        BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
        EG - 5.5 inches

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Pensivepenis View Post
          I am on the verge to remove it, but lost to it today.
          Feeling miserable cause I dropped the idea to get an ffm or chance to get with any girl.
          Been three months to that.
          Reduced watching porn, but thid week has been messed up.

          Getting shit thoughts like what if she wants a threesome? How would I feel?
          But I still am unable to drop it.
          Lost to it thrice this week.


          Feeling down.




          And is it usual to have more of such thoughts and easily aroused when leaving porn?
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          • #6
            Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
            Porn is not reality. Most women don't want threesomes!


            I knoowwww. And I am 1000% sure she isn't into that.
            She isn't into anything lol, but I feeling like shit.

            These thoughts, randomly popping up.

            So wondering I quit porn soon and have a nice calm mind all the time.



            Thankkk you.
            CURRENT - :baby:
            NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
            BPEL - 7.5 inches.
            EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
            BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


            GOAL - :training1:
            NBPEL - 7.2 inches
            BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
            EG - 5.5 inches

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Ujjayi View Post
              Join us on THIS THREAD so we can be a support and encouragement to you.



              Ujjayi always to the rescue, thanks sir. May god bless you loads, doing such a good job!
              CURRENT - :baby:
              NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
              BPEL - 7.5 inches.
              EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
              BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


              GOAL - :training1:
              NBPEL - 7.2 inches
              BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
              EG - 5.5 inches

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Pensivepenis View Post
                Ujjayi always to the rescue, thanks sir. May god bless you loads, doing such a good job!
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                • #9
                  I can't answer how leaving porn effects a man but I can say most things in porn no woman would really want in real life.

                  For most part porn is aggressive towards women, as it's main target group is men who probably aren't getting that much sex from real women.

                  I'm not saying that women don't have fantasies and maybe like acting out gentle role play stuff with their partners but it would be very few who would like to have sex with 8 men at once or be humiliated as most are in mainstream porn.

                  I would say to focus on a healthy sex life with your GF and if you feel the need to watch porn, try to watch more loving run of the mill kind of sex.
                  Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
                    I can't answer how leaving porn effects a man but I can say most things in porn no woman would really want in real life.

                    For most part porn is aggressive towards women, as it's main target group is men who probably aren't getting that much sex from real women.

                    I'm not saying that women don't have fantasies and maybe like acting out gentle role play stuff with their partners but it would be very few who would like to have sex with 8 men at once or be humiliated as most are in mainstream porn.

                    I would say to focus on a healthy sex life with your GF and if you feel the need to watch porn, try to watch more loving run of the mill kind of sex.



                    Nooooooo, need to stay away.
                    It is bad, bad, bad.

                    I have learnt enough and I don't feel there is any reason for me to lust random girls, and just 'watch' and be affected my it emotionally and mentally.


                    Thank you though, I am very well sure of her, that's not an issue AT ALL.
                    We both are happy, like touchwood. No issue in ANYTHING.


                    But just randomly, this thought messes me up, so yes.



                    So was wondering does the thoughts or the need to watch it, with messed up thoughts come more when you realise how messed up it is and want to leave it?





                    Just me sitting and wondering, trying to get rid of it and then these thoughts really make me wanna puke.


                    Trying now.
                    Will make it this time, for sure.


                    Thanks for your reply!
                    CURRENT - :baby:
                    NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
                    BPEL - 7.5 inches.
                    EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
                    BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


                    GOAL - :training1:
                    NBPEL - 7.2 inches
                    BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
                    EG - 5.5 inches

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                    • #11


                      Hehehe, it wasn't such a big issue!
                      This article makes me wonder how people mess up so much.

                      Glad I haven't reached such a level, but thanks.
                      It is a good read.
                      CURRENT - :baby:
                      NBPEL - 6.8 inches.
                      BPEL - 7.5 inches.
                      EG - 4.8 - 5.1 inches.
                      BPFSL - 6.5 inches.


                      GOAL - :training1:
                      NBPEL - 7.2 inches
                      BPEL - 7.8 - 8 inches
                      EG - 5.5 inches

                      Comment


                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Pensivepenis View Post
                        Hehehe, it wasn't such a big issue!
                        This article makes me wonder how people mess up so much.

                        Glad I haven't reached such a level, but thanks.
                        It is a good read.
                        You're welcome

                        For some, porn addiction is an extremely serious issue. If it hasn't affected you greatly please be thankful.
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                        • #13
                          Focus on making many meaningful relationships with both men and women. I was hooked on porn for 13 years. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. All of the weird stuff you named them, I have watched them all (except child porn, though).

                          I agreed that you will have some f*ucked up thoughts creeping into your mind, forcing you to watch porn. Everytime it happened to me, I reminded myself it's the "porn part" of my brain dying; that's why it tried to get my attention. Don't give in to it. I kept reminding myself "I'm in total control of myself, my life and my future. You (ie. porn) have no part in my life. I'm WINNING!"

                          But do not feel horrible if you relapsed. Lots of guy beat themselves up if they messed up. This is not "black and white; either you do or you don't". If relapsed, just remind youself how porn messed up your life and focus on being a better man/woman.

                          I found porn teaches you to become a SELFISH lover. Don't be that. Even if you manage to get a girl in your life, she will leave you if you don't respect her or take care of her physically and mentally. Focus on being a GREAT lover (through reading on self-help books about sexuality, techniques, emotional connection, tantra etc.).

                          Good luck, man! YOU CAN DO IT!
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                          • #14
                            I'm off porn now. Don't know for how long but the effects are awesome for me. My sex drive is more focused. I'm also starting to get my thought life clean and trying not to oggle at beautiful women.

                            I'm on my first week of no looking at attractive women and keeping them out of my thoughts. I'm struggling and cursing the world because there are so many beautiful women. It's hard to not look! I was commuting the other day and someone with nice lipstick and mascara sat across from me. I glanced a couple of times. I tell you, it was difficult to not look.

                            But anyhow, I feel my sex drive is more focused now. Also focus at work and other aspects in life like friends and hobbies has gone up. I feel more energetic throughout the day.

                            Anyway porn really wrecks your sex drive anyway. It's addictive and there are withrdawal effects just like how alcohol addicts get enraged easily, heroine guys get the shivers, cigarrette guys get the fidgets, etc... Just like any addiction it can be hard to quit. You just have to decide to quit because it's no good.
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                            Last edited by Telerecca; 02-02-2017, 06:53 PM.

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                            • #15
                              Internet PORN is a Massive MIND FUCK!

                              Get Off It!

                              PERIOD ! ! !
                              “The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything” Albert Einstein

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