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    I'm young and think i'm attractive and definitely think I know how to keep a conversation going when it comes to chicks. I'm finally single and nothing holding me back after a few years. What I find difficult though is just women. It seems millennial women want to text for months instead of actually meeting up. I've been texting two women for about 2 months now and have only met up with one of them once as of recent, and have definitely been trying to meet them in person. I've been trying the nice guy affect but it just doesn't work. I do respect women and don't just go into talking about sex with women unless they do first. Being honest with women outright and just saying i'm looking for a woman to have sex with does not work either. I just think to myself its either you got it with women or you don't, and there is no way of learning it. I haven't had sex in 2 months and i'm like dying on the inside lol. Anybody got some advice they could give me? I guess it also doesn't help I rarely go out to bars/clubs.

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    You gave these women two months of your life, why? They're clearly not interested in having sex with you so cut them loose and move on. There's no use in trying to make these women like you, there either is or isn't that level of attraction. For future reference you want to meet up as soon as possible, within a few days to a week of texting or chatting online. Better to see them in person before it's too late and you say something stupid or answer too many trick questions.

    It's not just millennial women doing this, a lot of women will keep texting with men for attention in a rather one-sided relationship. In my experience they only do it for a few months the before dropping you completely, when they move onto the next guy, ad there's nothing you can say or do to prevent it. There modus operandi the entire time was to use you and move on anyways. These are not good women btw but the damaged narcissistic troubled ones.

    Honest advice here:. You're not fooling anyone with the "nice guy" act so just drop it. Women can read you better than you realize and they know when you're just looking to get laid. And you're going to come off as selfish or miss a lot of her tells when you're focused on the end goal of sex. Either be up front about what your looking for or drop it and talk to all women like you would anyone else while you look to date other women. Right now you need to sew your wild oats and not be wasting your time with chat buddies.

    Also, you need to be willing to walk away from any woman for any reason. No matter how hot she is or how much you think it's a sure deal. Your time is more valuable than her looks and you should not be wasting it. And you need to be strong enough to call women out on their bullshit and let them know where your boundaries stand. You get these two things down and you won't have any problems with women.
    Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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    • #3
      You can most definitely be too nice .
      You can show an interest in other people while letting it be known in a subtle way what your goal is . Do not act all along as though you just want to be friends . Do not let her think you are gay .

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      • #4
        theres the magic word you used RESPECT, it aint 1950 no more, these women have 600 other of you whiteknights messaging them through social media. there in it for "attention only" even girls who were plain nothing special are now overwhelmed with attention off blokes

        heres what you do.........
        get one round your place after a night out and bang the living daylights out of her and i mean leave her trembling , then in the morning get up first and call her a taxi, tell her a taxi is coming for her , no arguing just cold as ice

        shell shout profanities at ya youll get a days worth of abuse, but shell be back SHE WILL BE BACK 100%.....

        i wont go into the pyschology of it

        also please if you read my comment and are 45+ please note we are a different generation us under 35's now the women dont look forward to that 1 guy asking them out on a date they get asked it all day every day through there phone

        i know one woman shes very attractive she is constantly putting stuff like "wheres all the good guys" and memes with pictures of a bloke hugging a woman at night.........these women are the total opposite of the shit that comes out there mouth
        alocacoc
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        Last edited by alocacoc; 06-15-2017, 04:28 AM.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by alocacoc View Post
          theres the magic word you used RESPECT, it aint 1950 no more, these women have 600 other of you whiteknights messaging them through social media. there in it for "attention only" even girls who were plain nothing special are now overwhelmed with attention off blokes

          heres what you do.........
          get one round your place after a night out and bang the living daylights out of her and i mean leave her trembling , then in the morning get up first and call her a taxi, tell her a taxi is coming for her , no arguing just cold as ice

          shell shout profanities at ya youll get a days worth of abuse, but shell be back SHE WILL BE BACK 100%.....

          i wont go into the pyschology of it

          also please if you read my comment and are 45+ please note we are a different generation us under 35's now the women dont look forward to that 1 guy asking them out on a date they get asked it all day every day through there phone

          i know one woman shes very attractive she is constantly putting stuff like "wheres all the good guys" and memes with pictures of a bloke hugging a woman at night.........these women are the total opposite of the shit that comes out there mouth
          A thread like this was bound to attract pua .

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          • #6
            its all true though theres no argument if there is lets discuss, i also fairly pointed out times have changed so if your 60 and happily married for 20 years you wont see my point i can also guarantee your wife wont be an avid selfie taker pouting her lips for her 10,000 followers on instagram whove never met her but they sure want to

            like i said bang and send her on her way....shell crave the fuck out of you plus her mates wil,,

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            • #7
              If this is you or who you want to become there is a ton of pua sites this is not one of them.

              https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/719...html?highlight=

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              • #8
                look youve fabricated my post tbh ive made a fact how times have changed there may be 1 traditional woman in 100 good luck finding her.....i dont know what age you fall into pegasus but i can assure you in most populated towns/cities nowadays a lot of young women and i mean A LOT.....will come onto a lad and go back to his at the end of the night if he has cocaine, even women you wouldnt expect

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                • #9
                  meant to add my point being there not as "princess needs saving in a castle" as you think they are.......but they tell people the princess needs saving to check there still wanted

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                  • #10
                    There are many good women out there. You just have to find them. It won't be too hard.
                    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by RalphPhoLauren View Post
                      I'm young and think i'm attractive and definitely think I know how to keep a conversation going when it comes to chicks. I'm finally single and nothing holding me back after a few years. What I find difficult though is just women. It seems millennial women want to text for months instead of actually meeting up. I've been texting two women for about 2 months now and have only met up with one of them once as of recent, and have definitely been trying to meet them in person. I've been trying the nice guy affect but it just doesn't work. I do respect women and don't just go into talking about sex with women unless they do first. Being honest with women outright and just saying i'm looking for a woman to have sex with does not work either. I just think to myself its either you got it with women or you don't, and there is no way of learning it. I haven't had sex in 2 months and i'm like dying on the inside lol. Anybody got some advice they could give me? I guess it also doesn't help I rarely go out to bars/clubs.
                      From your post, it seems like you're more about sex than a relationship.

                      Women can usually smell that a mile away and, unless they're just looking to hook up (which most aren't), they're going to be hesitant to meet you face-to-face.

                      I don't care how nice or attractive or how great a conversationalist you are, if I were single and looking for "love" and I got the "hook up" vibe from you, I probably wouldn't meet you either. But, I'd keep texting you, in case you developed feelings for me over time, and because it takes so little effort to keep a text conversation going - so why not?

                      So, my 2 pieces of advice --

                      1. Change your motives. You might not be specifically looking for a girlfriend, but be at least open to exploring a long-term relationship if the right one does come along.

                      2. Go places where you can meet people face-to-face to start with and not rely solely on dating apps or other electronic means of meeting people. It doesn't have to mean bars/clubs - but go and do things you actually enjoy, and you'll meet people that like the same thing. Example: If you like - or would like to try - an obstacle course run, chances are there's a group in your area that gets together for that. Or, if you like to scuba dive, there may be a dive club. Etc. But, the same thing will hold true - if you're just looking for sex, most women will sense that and will shy away.

                      Hope that helps!
                      Kimberly
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by alocacoc View Post
                        theres the magic word you used RESPECT, it aint 1950 no more, these women have 600 other of you whiteknights messaging them through social media. there in it for "attention only" even girls who were plain nothing special are now overwhelmed with attention off blokes

                        heres what you do.........
                        get one round your place after a night out and bang the living daylights out of her and i mean leave her trembling , then in the morning get up first and call her a taxi, tell her a taxi is coming for her , no arguing just cold as ice

                        shell shout profanities at ya youll get a days worth of abuse, but shell be back SHE WILL BE BACK 100%.....

                        i wont go into the pyschology of it

                        also please if you read my comment and are 45+ please note we are a different generation us under 35's now the women dont look forward to that 1 guy asking them out on a date they get asked it all day every day through there phone

                        i know one woman shes very attractive she is constantly putting stuff like "wheres all the good guys" and memes with pictures of a bloke hugging a woman at night.........these women are the total opposite of the shit that comes out there mouth
                        As a woman, and keeping in mind all the women I personally know, I can GUARANTEE you the only woman that would be back after that kind of abuse... and YES, that is ABUSE... is one that has serious mental health issues they should be talking to a mental health counselor about.

                        Why in the world would you do that to another human being? Honestly? That's sick, twisted, mean, and degrading!

                        It's actually quite misogynistic, in my opinion.

                        I truly believe in Karma. And, if this is the type of energy you put out into the world, for your personal life, do not be surprised if you have issues with women, alo. Three-fold, my friend. Three-fold.

                        I strongly suggest that perhaps you talk to a professional about this behavior and thought processes. With this type of mindset, you will either end up in a relationship where you will continue to emotionally abuse your partner, or you'll end up middle-aged, eating frozen dinners, watching porn, all alone. For the sake of women-kind, if you don't get help, I honestly hope the latter is what happens.
                        Last edited by KMWylie; 06-15-2017, 10:11 AM.
                        Kimberly
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by alocacoc View Post
                          look youve fabricated my post tbh ive made a fact how times have changed there may be 1 traditional woman in 100 good luck finding her.....i dont know what age you fall into pegasus but i can assure you in most populated towns/cities nowadays a lot of young women and i mean A LOT.....will come onto a lad and go back to his at the end of the night if he has cocaine, even women you wouldnt expect
                          So your a drug addict who cant pick up chics unless you offer them some as well, no really a nice way to go on, making them into drug addicts like you.

                          NOWHARD

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                          • #14
                            I honestly don't think things have changed much over the years. We certainly DID have text messaging back in the day, it just took a little longer for the message to send. They were called love letters, and they were sent through the mail system. Fact is, you had to put much more thought and meaning into the letter than you do with today's text messages. You couldn't send a love letter that said "whats up?" - which is how pointless texting has become today. The wait between letters actually built up some anticipation and helped to solidify a bond between individuals. Things went slower, you really got to know someone, you had the ability to stand out from the crowd and best of all, you really were able to tell someone how you really felt about them. Texting is for keeping in touch, IMO and not for courtship. You need to modify some things you do that help you stand apart from the countless others putting in the same minimal effort to win someones affection.

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                            • #15
                              just to confirm to everyone again who is fabricating my words I said "lads" i didnt say "I"

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