Hey guys,
this is the thread I originally made regarding the wonderful girl I met: https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/114...ationship.html
I guess I jumped the gun too quick and I thought that I was IN a relationship. Well it turns out we are in the process of building a serious relationship.
To summarize the first thread: I took her out, we had a great time..we hugged, held hands...we kissed (im the first guy she ever kissed)...she said that she really likes me and that she never experienced this with somebody (she's a virgin, never had a BF).
On sunday, we went shopping together. I bought her a shirt at American Apparel. She was hesitant at first, but she accepted the gift. On monday, she wore the shirt to school, but here's the problem: we basically ignored each other and didnt speak much.
She looked at me like as if I was a stranger. I have an explanation though: she was surrounded by her little friends in class, so it put pressure on her (I suppose)..and also the fact that she was wearing the shirt, it made her feel kind of obligated to speak to me...
Then in the afternoon, I *think* she saw me in the hallway but decided to ignore me (or she might not have seen me)...
So we ended up not really talking much on monday...then I texted her on monday evening saying: "Hey, so how was your day?"...she replied:"good, how was yours? I have so much stuff to do for school omgggg"
I didnt reply anything. I was pretty pissed last night, but now I thought things through...She needs her space, this is all too new for her. she's kind of nervous about it all...I dont wanna be the type of guy that stays glued to the girl 24/7 and then gets pissed if she doesnt speak to me.
I'm not gonna text her or contact her until she contacts me first. Then I'll be super nice and funny...I will NOT bring up what happened on monday. I'll just forget about it, and she will see that it doesnt have an impact on me.
This upcoming friday, my sister is holding a party. She rented a loft and invited lots of (older) people (she's 26)...I want to invite the girl but I dont know if its too early to be doing things again? We saw each other friday and sunday...I wonder if I should let another week go by?
Also, I was thinking of going to a fancy restaurant with her, but definitely NOT this weekend, its too soon for that. What do you think about the party though? Should I ask her tomorrow or thursday? Or nothing at all?
Thanks.
Oh and may I add that there are lots of other girls interested in me (in school)...how do I let the chick know that other girls want me? i wanna make her a little bit jealous so she has to work in order to get me.
this is the thread I originally made regarding the wonderful girl I met: https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/114...ationship.html
I guess I jumped the gun too quick and I thought that I was IN a relationship. Well it turns out we are in the process of building a serious relationship.
To summarize the first thread: I took her out, we had a great time..we hugged, held hands...we kissed (im the first guy she ever kissed)...she said that she really likes me and that she never experienced this with somebody (she's a virgin, never had a BF).
On sunday, we went shopping together. I bought her a shirt at American Apparel. She was hesitant at first, but she accepted the gift. On monday, she wore the shirt to school, but here's the problem: we basically ignored each other and didnt speak much.
She looked at me like as if I was a stranger. I have an explanation though: she was surrounded by her little friends in class, so it put pressure on her (I suppose)..and also the fact that she was wearing the shirt, it made her feel kind of obligated to speak to me...
Then in the afternoon, I *think* she saw me in the hallway but decided to ignore me (or she might not have seen me)...
So we ended up not really talking much on monday...then I texted her on monday evening saying: "Hey, so how was your day?"...she replied:"good, how was yours? I have so much stuff to do for school omgggg"
I didnt reply anything. I was pretty pissed last night, but now I thought things through...She needs her space, this is all too new for her. she's kind of nervous about it all...I dont wanna be the type of guy that stays glued to the girl 24/7 and then gets pissed if she doesnt speak to me.
I'm not gonna text her or contact her until she contacts me first. Then I'll be super nice and funny...I will NOT bring up what happened on monday. I'll just forget about it, and she will see that it doesnt have an impact on me.
This upcoming friday, my sister is holding a party. She rented a loft and invited lots of (older) people (she's 26)...I want to invite the girl but I dont know if its too early to be doing things again? We saw each other friday and sunday...I wonder if I should let another week go by?
Also, I was thinking of going to a fancy restaurant with her, but definitely NOT this weekend, its too soon for that. What do you think about the party though? Should I ask her tomorrow or thursday? Or nothing at all?
Thanks.
Oh and may I add that there are lots of other girls interested in me (in school)...how do I let the chick know that other girls want me? i wanna make her a little bit jealous so she has to work in order to get me.
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