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    I'm Really self-conscious when a girl starts putting her hand down my boxers I feel like I've got a little ity bitty thing and then I need to stand up and make it look as big as possible which ruins the whole experience I can't just relax and enjoy a blowjob or even a handjob without having to make my dick look bigger shoving it down her throat to hide my own insecurities,does anyone else have these issues? Also woman with big hands is a massoiive turn off for me no matter how good looking they are.

  • #2
    You're robbing yourself from enjoying the experience fully.

    You need to recondition your thinking. When these thoughts come into your mind, you need to relax and think about the sensations you are feeling in that moment.

    It will take practice but you can change your negative thinking.
    Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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    • #3
      Start doing penis exercises.Look JP90 and make sex as much as possible.Less thinking, more sex, and bigger dick over time and your confidence will increase.

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      • #4
        If it's really bothering you that much, it's time to do something about it. Like GOAT said, start with JP90 and don't cheat yourself on it. I can promise you that if you follow the instructions and do everything as instructed, you will grow.

        Go to the Beginner's forum and ask any questions you need to get ramped up.
        Start 03/23/16
        BPEL: 7.5"
        MEG: 5.25"

        Current
        BPEL:
        MEG:


        Porn. Is. Evil.

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        • #5
          So a lot of things you have to get over, I myself thought I had I was small, porn and big hands is a bad combo, but now I know I don't, there's growers and showers so if you're a grower like most men on top of anxiety of having sex, I get it just relax, start doing PE jp90 good place to start. I used to turtle before sex and sometimes it took some time for me to get erect which is pretty devastating, so just start PE get out of your head.

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          • #6
            Hey, man! Do yourself a HUGE favor and stop worrying about it. Most women do not really care about that. We men care WAY MORE about that than women do.

            So, if you get hard and you stay hard then you have all you need. And, this is very general in nature, learn how to pleasure a woman with your lips and with your fingers/hands. No matter how big your dick is, it is not always going to be hard. There is that thing called a refractory period. Does not mean that the fun needs to be put on hold for her. Right?

            Anyway, work on a strong and balanced Pelvic Floor. You do this with kegels. Be mindful that there are two types of kegels - regular kegels and reverse kegels. Regular kegels are strength exercises and reverse kegels are stretching. Regular kegels are - for example - when you stop the flow of urine. Be mindful that you do not do too many too often. Reverse kegels are where you push the urine out. I have a very difficult time doing those so I do hindi squats.

            Work on length (so, do stretches) and work on girth (so, jelqs and squeezes).

            Find a program (click on the "Start Here!" button in the upper left area) and follow it. Watch for negative PIs (for example, your EQ - aka, Erection Quality - diminishes or your start turtleing). Ask questions. Start a Progress Log.

            Ready? Set! Go!!
            Start: August, 2017
            Start: 5.50inches BPEL x 5.125inches MEG
            Goal: 7.0inches BPEL x 6.0inches MEG
            Focus: AMAZING EQ! A strong and balanced Pelvic Floor!! Awesome Hip Flexibility!!!

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