So my GF is 30, I'm younger, only 25. Been together for just under 2 months, been hanging out and seeing each other for about 4. She's overall one of the most well rounded and thoughtful people I've ever met. She makes great money, the smallest things make her so happy, she looks great, body is great, amazing personality, eats right, extremely nice, also very very honest, I've never been able to trust someone as much as her, she's athletic, she's very smart, very close with her family. The sex between us is amazing. There was just this automatic click and immediate and very strong sexual chemistry between us that just felt so right. Matching sex drives, she'll do anything with me in bed. I've done things to her in bed she's never done (blind fold, certain positions, etc.) She told me last week that sex with me is completely mind blowing and she had to brag to her friends about me (cause of the sex and I'm guessing my body as well. I'm a bodybuilder/ actual signed fitness model with an agency) which she said she's never done. She actually pursued me, very persistently even tho I showed hardly any interest the first few times just cause I was talking to other women at the time and she just didn't give up.
SO, she tells me she's had 3 boyfriends, and that she hasn't been with many guys, started having sex at 17, so 13 years of sex. Cause she told me "not that many" I thought like 6-7 total partners. Then I find out she's had 10...something about it being double digits I just didn't like. BUT, a big but, 10 guys at 30 reallly isn't bad. She was in an off and on 9 year relationship 17-26, where other than her off and on boyfriend, she had sex with 4 other guys in those 9 years of being off and on. Then since 26, 5 more guys. So in the past 4 years, 5 guys, which really isn't also bad. But it stil bugs me, maybe just cause I care about her so much so it's hard to imagine. Also, she didnt tel me she was off and on in that 9 year relationship. I assumed she was with only that one dude for 9 years. So if she would have told me they were off and on, instead of guessing 6-7 partners, I really would have guessed 10-13, and she's had 10.
What do you guys think? Slutty? Would it bother you? I know plenty of girls that are 18-21 and already at 8-10, girls in their mid 20's at 15-20 guys. so 10 at 30, not too bad really. I also know 2 guys that are both pretty good lucking who have pursued her and she turned them both down, so she's picky. And just to throw this in there, I know, double standards, I've been with 50 some woman and I've been with 13 in the last year, so I've been with more in one year than she has in 13 years
One last thing I'll say, most girls are getting engaged and the married by like what 26-27? If you were to give those girls another 3-4 years of being single I'm sure they'd hit 10 guys.
6 years ago the hottest girl I ever hooked up with had some solid standards and was an extremely well rounded girl just like my GF, and by the time she was 21 she had 5-6 guys, at 18 she had 3. So give her till 30 of being single and I'm sure she'd also rack up 10+ despite being one of the best women I've ever met in my life in terms of kindness, honestly, loyalty, physical attractiveness, smart, fun, personality.
SO, she tells me she's had 3 boyfriends, and that she hasn't been with many guys, started having sex at 17, so 13 years of sex. Cause she told me "not that many" I thought like 6-7 total partners. Then I find out she's had 10...something about it being double digits I just didn't like. BUT, a big but, 10 guys at 30 reallly isn't bad. She was in an off and on 9 year relationship 17-26, where other than her off and on boyfriend, she had sex with 4 other guys in those 9 years of being off and on. Then since 26, 5 more guys. So in the past 4 years, 5 guys, which really isn't also bad. But it stil bugs me, maybe just cause I care about her so much so it's hard to imagine. Also, she didnt tel me she was off and on in that 9 year relationship. I assumed she was with only that one dude for 9 years. So if she would have told me they were off and on, instead of guessing 6-7 partners, I really would have guessed 10-13, and she's had 10.
What do you guys think? Slutty? Would it bother you? I know plenty of girls that are 18-21 and already at 8-10, girls in their mid 20's at 15-20 guys. so 10 at 30, not too bad really. I also know 2 guys that are both pretty good lucking who have pursued her and she turned them both down, so she's picky. And just to throw this in there, I know, double standards, I've been with 50 some woman and I've been with 13 in the last year, so I've been with more in one year than she has in 13 years
One last thing I'll say, most girls are getting engaged and the married by like what 26-27? If you were to give those girls another 3-4 years of being single I'm sure they'd hit 10 guys.
6 years ago the hottest girl I ever hooked up with had some solid standards and was an extremely well rounded girl just like my GF, and by the time she was 21 she had 5-6 guys, at 18 she had 3. So give her till 30 of being single and I'm sure she'd also rack up 10+ despite being one of the best women I've ever met in my life in terms of kindness, honestly, loyalty, physical attractiveness, smart, fun, personality.
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