I've known this person for quite some time, about seven years, and we had this little barely relationship going a few years ago, but nothing was ever made official and she met someone. We have flirted a lot during this time, both when she is and not in relationships, which has been nothing but harmless as I have always said that when she is in a relationship I won't do or say anything that steps over the line.
With that though over the last six months to a year there has been some rather odd statements. Now many of these aren't completely out of left field, like when I mention how I should have asked her out or if she's single again I'll ask her out and she says "Maybe one day". Statements like that don't mean much, at least I don't think so, but then recently, along with many other statements, I started to think if she means more by some of these. For example recently she was incredibly sick for a couple months and we couldn't speak much, so when she came back she said "I missed you, more than you know."
That last statement has me really thinking if she means something deeper. So here I sit wondering and thinking if maybe the next time we talk if I should bring up my confusion of these statements and what she means. What do you folks think? Am I reading what she is saying wrong and imagining things? Is it worth the time and risk to ask, possibly risking a friendship, or should I ask just for clarification, and on a chance at something more?
With that though over the last six months to a year there has been some rather odd statements. Now many of these aren't completely out of left field, like when I mention how I should have asked her out or if she's single again I'll ask her out and she says "Maybe one day". Statements like that don't mean much, at least I don't think so, but then recently, along with many other statements, I started to think if she means more by some of these. For example recently she was incredibly sick for a couple months and we couldn't speak much, so when she came back she said "I missed you, more than you know."
That last statement has me really thinking if she means something deeper. So here I sit wondering and thinking if maybe the next time we talk if I should bring up my confusion of these statements and what she means. What do you folks think? Am I reading what she is saying wrong and imagining things? Is it worth the time and risk to ask, possibly risking a friendship, or should I ask just for clarification, and on a chance at something more?
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