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One thing that astounds me is posts by guys coming here for advice about how to feel better about their dicks and get help with their insecurities, which is great, but then they say that though their wives or girlfriends seem happy with their cocks they have told their girlfriends or wives that they feel they don't measure up. This is a HUGE mistake on several levels.
Never point out an insecurity, especially about your dick to your woman. Here's why:
First, women aren't into your dick as much as you are. They aren't as obsessed with the size of our cocks as we are. They are happy that your cock get hard "for them" and that you desire them no matter what's in your pants.
Second, it may not be politically correct in todays society but biologically men are still men and women are still women. Meaning generally speaking women still want a "real" man. That's a man who can make decisions, has his life together and is in control of himself (and often her) in bed. So when you start showing insecurity it's a huge turn off to them.
Third, women take their cue from you. If you are happy, they tend to be. If you feel you are inadequate they will start to see you that way. She may NEVER even think about your cock not being "big enough" but if you start saying you have been short changed, guess what, she will begin to think so also.
If you are being a good lover, touching her, kissing her and making her feel good in multitudes of ways she isn't going to even think about your cock size.
Fourth, you are giving her ammo to hurt you if things go south. She may insult your cock to hurt you, even if she doesn't believe it. Women are ruthless when they argue if you are a wussy or let them know you feel insecure that's right where they will go.
With me it works the opposite way as well. I'd hate to be with a woman who was a bundle of insecurities. I'd hate to be trying to enjoy her tits and her holding back because she thinks they are to small, or her ass to fat or whatever. It all just gets in the way.
My whole point is don't plant seeds in her mind and cause problems were they don't need to be. It's not fair to you or her.
And, ironically, a guy with a smaller cock than you could end up taking her away from you!!
Never point out an insecurity, especially about your dick to your woman. Here's why:
First, women aren't into your dick as much as you are. They aren't as obsessed with the size of our cocks as we are. They are happy that your cock get hard "for them" and that you desire them no matter what's in your pants.
Second, it may not be politically correct in todays society but biologically men are still men and women are still women. Meaning generally speaking women still want a "real" man. That's a man who can make decisions, has his life together and is in control of himself (and often her) in bed. So when you start showing insecurity it's a huge turn off to them.
Third, women take their cue from you. If you are happy, they tend to be. If you feel you are inadequate they will start to see you that way. She may NEVER even think about your cock not being "big enough" but if you start saying you have been short changed, guess what, she will begin to think so also.
If you are being a good lover, touching her, kissing her and making her feel good in multitudes of ways she isn't going to even think about your cock size.
Fourth, you are giving her ammo to hurt you if things go south. She may insult your cock to hurt you, even if she doesn't believe it. Women are ruthless when they argue if you are a wussy or let them know you feel insecure that's right where they will go.
With me it works the opposite way as well. I'd hate to be with a woman who was a bundle of insecurities. I'd hate to be trying to enjoy her tits and her holding back because she thinks they are to small, or her ass to fat or whatever. It all just gets in the way.
My whole point is don't plant seeds in her mind and cause problems were they don't need to be. It's not fair to you or her.
And, ironically, a guy with a smaller cock than you could end up taking her away from you!!
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