Title says it all. I understand as we get older our bodies change but we aren’t at that age yet. I really love her. Personality wise and who she is as a person, the way she treats me, how kind and thoughtful she is, how low maintenance she is, how grateful she is for even the smallest things, how easily entertained she is, I can’t ask for much more out of girls in terms of how she is as a person.
Even very attractive in the face and her face doesn’t really put on any fat. Just her body. Weird thing is, she’s in the gym 5-6 days a week and it’s pretty well. We don’t live together right now so I don’t know if she’s eating crap when I’m not around. Some people just struggle with this more than others too.
Meanwhile I have these younger women who are really hot, really nice bodies, but I don’t know them well, so I don’t know anything about who they are as person, but they’re messaging me basically just begging to hang out. But that amazing body and all doesn’t mean shit if your personality sucks and you’re aren’t fun to be around.
I do really love my girlfriend, but I can admit I’m very shallow and superficial. My girlfriend has so much potential too if she could lose the weight. Cause she’s decently muscular and has great shape to her body (nice boobs, wide hips, big butt) but it’s all becoming too much.
I really don’t even know what I’m asking here, venting I guess, and I guess just curious how many of you have also had to deal with it and how you handled it.
I’m a bodybuilder, so I have a competition last weekend of July. We then have a big Europe trip starting in September and her and I are moving in together in about 3 weeks. So her and I have decided to get lean and lose weight together, me for my competition, her for our vacation which is around the same time. I do believe once her and I move in together, she’ll start losing weight. I can cook for her, and I eat very well, so if she sees what I’m eating, then she won’t want to eat bad and won’t want to eat more than me. And I can help her stay on track
Has anyone broken up with their gf over weight gain??
Even very attractive in the face and her face doesn’t really put on any fat. Just her body. Weird thing is, she’s in the gym 5-6 days a week and it’s pretty well. We don’t live together right now so I don’t know if she’s eating crap when I’m not around. Some people just struggle with this more than others too.
Meanwhile I have these younger women who are really hot, really nice bodies, but I don’t know them well, so I don’t know anything about who they are as person, but they’re messaging me basically just begging to hang out. But that amazing body and all doesn’t mean shit if your personality sucks and you’re aren’t fun to be around.
I do really love my girlfriend, but I can admit I’m very shallow and superficial. My girlfriend has so much potential too if she could lose the weight. Cause she’s decently muscular and has great shape to her body (nice boobs, wide hips, big butt) but it’s all becoming too much.
I really don’t even know what I’m asking here, venting I guess, and I guess just curious how many of you have also had to deal with it and how you handled it.
I’m a bodybuilder, so I have a competition last weekend of July. We then have a big Europe trip starting in September and her and I are moving in together in about 3 weeks. So her and I have decided to get lean and lose weight together, me for my competition, her for our vacation which is around the same time. I do believe once her and I move in together, she’ll start losing weight. I can cook for her, and I eat very well, so if she sees what I’m eating, then she won’t want to eat bad and won’t want to eat more than me. And I can help her stay on track
Has anyone broken up with their gf over weight gain??
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