I must say it's a bit unconvenient for me to confess this but this is something which repeats often when I meet someone new. And I think I should get to the bottom of it, once and for all.
The problem is, when I like someone and I notice or she even says that she likes me too - I do everything to break the relationship. In a transferred sense. I mean I usually either run away or be mean make the the connection broken. It's like I hate you but please don't leave me.
The usual explanation is that I want to protect myself from getting hurt. But I'm not sure on this, there must be more.
Any ideas, suggestions, experiences?
The problem is, when I like someone and I notice or she even says that she likes me too - I do everything to break the relationship. In a transferred sense. I mean I usually either run away or be mean make the the connection broken. It's like I hate you but please don't leave me.
The usual explanation is that I want to protect myself from getting hurt. But I'm not sure on this, there must be more.
Any ideas, suggestions, experiences?
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