My girlfriend dumped me so she could go "find herself" right before our eight month anniversary and I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
I know exactly what that means and I told her "no one breaks up to find themselves." Exes just say that as an excuse to party and sleep around. She's 18 and doesn't know what she wants, I'm 30, divorced, know exactly what I'm looking for in a relationship, and how to accomplish those goals. I think she wants to go party expecting her birthday to be more exciting and let her single friends from work talk her into this.
I told her that she can't come back, we won't remain friends, I won't call or text her, and I won't help with school anymore. Sucks for her because the only class she passed this semester was the online class I "helped" her with where she got a B. I hope she finds what she's looking for and gets her act together because I'm a real catch IRL and I won't give her a second chance.
On a positive note, this is the kick in the pants I have been waiting for. I have two weeks to myself to finish some school work and workout, then I start classes again at a women's university where women outnumbered men 3:1 and almost all of them are single.
I know exactly what that means and I told her "no one breaks up to find themselves." Exes just say that as an excuse to party and sleep around. She's 18 and doesn't know what she wants, I'm 30, divorced, know exactly what I'm looking for in a relationship, and how to accomplish those goals. I think she wants to go party expecting her birthday to be more exciting and let her single friends from work talk her into this.
I told her that she can't come back, we won't remain friends, I won't call or text her, and I won't help with school anymore. Sucks for her because the only class she passed this semester was the online class I "helped" her with where she got a B. I hope she finds what she's looking for and gets her act together because I'm a real catch IRL and I won't give her a second chance.
On a positive note, this is the kick in the pants I have been waiting for. I have two weeks to myself to finish some school work and workout, then I start classes again at a women's university where women outnumbered men 3:1 and almost all of them are single.
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