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    So, I was wondering when some of the older members here stopped having sex?

    My lack of orgasm has put a divide between the Mrs and myself. She blames herself, I know it’s my PE mistakes over the years. She figures she’s so fat now I don’t find her attractive anymore, balony. She is definitely not as tight as she was but that cums with age. We’ve had sex for a couple hours four times in the last two weeks. Needless to say, I’m one frustrated puppy, I almost can’t remember what it feels like. The most frustrating part is getting close, like today. I’m almost there with her riding my after a half hour and she forgets my small size and I fall out. Game over, wasn’t gonna try again, Arrgh.

    Sex has become a frustrating tension creation instead of a relief for it.

    My my heart tells me, if you love her? Let her go. She’s only 55 and in her prime, no reason for her to suffer with guilt.
    A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

  • #2
    And all that silliness means what?
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
      And all that silliness means what?
      IDK. I don’t consider it silly. It’s very distressing for me and her. Ugh. Idk. We my just talk about not trying anymore. She can go out and find some sex on the side I guess. My neighbors are swingers, I’m sure they could hook her up. Again, I started this thread at my witts end. What a great end to a fucking shit 12 months we’ve had. Jesus, can it get any worse?

      And I know it can, or could of, I thank Him for our blessings.
      A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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      • #4
        Is the lack of orgasm not due to the stress regarding your daughter's illness.

        You know you can be affectionate without cumming. You can have sex and enjoy it without an orgasm.

        Just enjoy being together.
        Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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        • #5
          What happened to the " til death do us part" thing?
          The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
            Is the lack of orgasm not due to the stress regarding your daughter's illness.

            You know you can be affectionate without cumming. You can have sex and enjoy it without an orgasm.

            Just enjoy being together.
            Ugh, she wants my to orgasm so bad knowing how upsetting it is for me she cries. I mean, she’ll have a 100 orgasms but cry afterward. Just adds to my growing pain and worries about the next time.
            A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
              What happened to the " til death do us part" thing?
              I never said anything about divorce Just letting her have fun without worrying about mine.
              A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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              • #8
                You both need to look at sex differently.

                You need to talk about it, reassure her, lie if you have to that your not bothered about finishing at the end.

                Maybe tantric massages?
                Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
                  You both need to look at sex differently.

                  You need to talk about it, reassure her, lie if you have to that your not bothered about finishing at the end.

                  Maybe tantric massages?
                  We’ve had this talk, and have just “All about Her Days”, no Viagra, Vibes galore. And I was ok with this knowing I could get there the next time, but now? IDK

                  I hadn’t planned on this at my age. I can’t accept it. I NEED a fucking orgasm, otherwise...what’s the point? That’s all I’ve got left in my life to look forward to on a personal level.

                  Cum on, can we catch a break Lord.

                  Im sure the next shoe is about to drop, wait for it......
                  A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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                  • #10
                    Well if I could trade daily orgasms for a guy in bed with me that I could snuggle, and smell and feel his breath on my neck... I would in a heartbeat.

                    You have the woman your in love with beside you, that's far more important. Stop stressing out about not having them. Things could change in that department.
                    Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
                      Well if I could trade daily orgasms for a guy in bed with me that I could snuggle, and smell and feel his breath on my neck... I would in a heartbeat.

                      You have the woman your in love with beside you, that's far more important. Stop stressing out about not having them. Things could change in that department.
                      Smart girl ain't she, for a vegan that is.
                      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                      • #12
                        And stop with the self pity... only thing to look forward to, what rubbish. You have each day with your son and daughter and wife.

                        You have your own life and of course my crack with the other pegym members!
                        Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Party View Post
                          So, I was wondering when some of the older members here stopped having sex?

                          My lack of orgasm has put a divide between the Mrs and myself. She blames herself, I know it’s my PE mistakes over the years. She figures she’s so fat now I don’t find her attractive anymore, balony. She is definitely not as tight as she was but that cums with age. We’ve had sex for a couple hours four times in the last two weeks. Needless to say, I’m one frustrated puppy, I almost can’t remember what it feels like. The most frustrating part is getting close, like today. I’m almost there with her riding my after a half hour and she forgets my small size and I fall out. Game over, wasn’t gonna try again, Arrgh.

                          Sex has become a frustrating tension creation instead of a relief for it.

                          My my heart tells me, if you love her? Let her go. She’s only 55 and in her prime, no reason for her to suffer with guilt.
                          Frustration will sabotage your ability to orgasm. Get rid of the guilt and blame. It's nobody's fault. Two people have sex to connect with each other and feel good, and you don't have to orgasm to enjoy the experience. This situation sounds like you are both bringing insecurities and negative emotions into sex, so you'll have to deal with those feelings together and create new positives. And then orgasm.

                          Also, do you masturbate?
                          EL: 5 3/4", EG: 4 7/8" | 2020

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                          • #14
                            Yes, once in along while, usually after a frustrating day in the sack in the morning. But I can’t even get myself off these days. Oh well.
                            A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
                              And stop with the self pity... only thing to look forward to, what rubbish. You have each day with your son and daughter and wife.

                              You have your own life and of course my crack with the other pegym members!
                              LOL. You forget what brought you to this neck of the woods in the beginning. Opinions about a nonexistent sex life with your hubby. XOXO
                              A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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