Hi. I'm struggling to make the right decision. Any viewpoint will be appreciated. Thanks.
My girlfriend kissed another guy at a party while I was away for 2 months. He kissed her first then she followed him and kissed him a second time. Hearing this was enough for me to split with her while I was away. We have been dating for 3 years btw.
She ended up getting with this guy and went many places with him while I lost my mind in another country.
I am a very sensual person and we used to have sex every day. That soon died out and I couldn't get much affection even if I would be the best guy in the world. Eventually I would have to ask for sex once a week. Every time it would feel like she was doing it out of obligation and this made me not want it anymore.
We really love each other like soul mates and so we got back together when I got back to my country. She was still seeing this other guy and then told me she would chose me because she still loves me and didn't have that connection with him.
Over a chat once she said she only enjoyed sex the first few times as it was rough. This led me to asking detailed questions (a really bad idea-i don't reccomend it). They did everything she asked him to get tested cause she wanted him without a condom. She said he would choke her a bit, slap her bum, anal, pull her hair and pick her up while putting her in the position he wanted while talking dirty and being in charge. He is quite a bit better looking and is a personal trainer so I'm not much competition.
This is screwing with my head. How a guy could do that to a girl I cherish so much. And the fact that I was never afforded the opportunity to be open with my own sexual desire for her and try those things. Seeing that I was always the one with the high sex drive I can't believe how she would have sex and I wouldn't.
I don't know if I can get over this. I am weak and took her back. I mean I broke up with her for kissing him twice. I don't know why I'm still here after hearing that she slept with him a whole bunch of times and had better sex. My motivation is dead and I doubt id be able to have normal sex with her when this picture is in my mind all the time.
I know it's a weak move but it's the only one my emotions have at the moment. Any outside information? Someone been through something similar?
My girlfriend kissed another guy at a party while I was away for 2 months. He kissed her first then she followed him and kissed him a second time. Hearing this was enough for me to split with her while I was away. We have been dating for 3 years btw.
She ended up getting with this guy and went many places with him while I lost my mind in another country.
I am a very sensual person and we used to have sex every day. That soon died out and I couldn't get much affection even if I would be the best guy in the world. Eventually I would have to ask for sex once a week. Every time it would feel like she was doing it out of obligation and this made me not want it anymore.
We really love each other like soul mates and so we got back together when I got back to my country. She was still seeing this other guy and then told me she would chose me because she still loves me and didn't have that connection with him.
Over a chat once she said she only enjoyed sex the first few times as it was rough. This led me to asking detailed questions (a really bad idea-i don't reccomend it). They did everything she asked him to get tested cause she wanted him without a condom. She said he would choke her a bit, slap her bum, anal, pull her hair and pick her up while putting her in the position he wanted while talking dirty and being in charge. He is quite a bit better looking and is a personal trainer so I'm not much competition.
This is screwing with my head. How a guy could do that to a girl I cherish so much. And the fact that I was never afforded the opportunity to be open with my own sexual desire for her and try those things. Seeing that I was always the one with the high sex drive I can't believe how she would have sex and I wouldn't.
I don't know if I can get over this. I am weak and took her back. I mean I broke up with her for kissing him twice. I don't know why I'm still here after hearing that she slept with him a whole bunch of times and had better sex. My motivation is dead and I doubt id be able to have normal sex with her when this picture is in my mind all the time.
I know it's a weak move but it's the only one my emotions have at the moment. Any outside information? Someone been through something similar?
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