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I just broke up with my girlfriend
And damn it feels good.
We were together for 9 months and happy for 8 of those. We met in college last Fall in Drama and shared a lot of the same friends. The only problem we had was with her not putting in the time to pass her classes this semester. I had to do her work for one class just so she wouldn't end up on probation. She got an A instead of 3 F's last semester. I was pissed at her for wasting all that time.
She dumped me for less than a day in May because I was such an asshole about her not doing her work. I turned it around on her, then we got back together and everything was good. That was until she started hanging out with her female co-workers. She went out on a girl's night out and started blowing me off. Now, I don't know about you gentlemen but that's one of my pet peeves in a relationship. I don't allow people to use me and then ignore me repeatedly.
This wasn't just for a few weeks, she blew me off on her birthday to hang out with her new gal pals, stopped responding to my texts and stopped calling me back. But then she still wanted to take me to a movie, hang out for half a day, and come over to get some dick and play video games.
So I sent her a text yesterday that said "I am not getting what I need out of this relationship... You're about to lose me if things don't change." To which she replied, "Well then I guess I am gonna have to lose you." I called her up right after and told her that it didn't have to be this way. I got some bull about her not wanting to be tied down. So I shouted "THEN LEAVE!" And told her to come over tomorrow for her stuff.
Didn't hear from her all day until my doorbell rang around 9:30pm. She got a ride from her new bestie (the worst girl of the group). I was about to take the trash out, I had my keys and the trash in my hands, so I had to put everything down and answer the door. I already had all her stuff in a box. When I turned around she had already grabbed it and asked if that was everything. I told her to hold on, grabbed the bottle of cranberry juiced I bought for her for her period and put it in a plastic bag.
We smoked a little weed in a vaporizer, she made a reference about something I sent her in a tweet she's ignored for days, I made a joke about it and she laughed. She asked me about getting my stuff back. I told her I don't want it, that she can throw it away. I gave her a hug at the door, kissed her forehead, said "Goodbye honey", and told her to enjoy her life (got a "You too!"), and went to take the trash out. I barely got a glimpse but her driver was that bitch that convinced her to break up with me before.
Now, I know this is the internet and messages don't come across but throughout the entire interaction with her I was indifferent to her. I got the tip from Patrice O'Neal [vid below]. I got over the breakup yesterday after a few minutes. Then I realized how easy it will be for me to get another girlfriend if I wanted. She on the other hand is going to be missing out because I was way too good to her, which was part of the problem... She had some insecurities and general depression, but I stuck through that until she drove me away. Well, I kinda let her abuse my love so I left.
I was her first love and treated her very special. We never fought, the sex was incredible every time, and I did every little thing I could to make her happy... Including buying her chocolate and cranberry juice for her period (which started today). I guess you could say I spoiled her. Towards the end she didn't have to carry her weight with the relationship because I was taking care of everything. The only thing I asked for was for her to not prioritize me last.
The beauty of all of this is that I'm experienced enough to know how this plays out. I've through a divorce and lot of breakups and was on a forum for divorce for a few years. These things tend to follow a pattern and I know what's next. She's not going to know what's she's lost until it's too late and she's given the freedom that she thought she wanted for a few weeks. She'll see what I've know for years... Women who work together cannot be friends, especially if they are all single and competing with each other for attention. And I know how to breakup like a champ.
I probably shouldn't have broken up with her the night before she goes to a party but I don't care. She can bang everyone there, I'm never going to sleep with her again. Though I doubt would happen this soon.... Meanwhile, I'm gonna hang out and work on homework here, workout, and get ready for school next month where I will find someone else. By the time she's realized what she's lost I will be making another geeky girl giggle.
I'm rambling here, I know. But the greatest lesson I learned from life was how replaceable women are. If your wife or girlfriend doesn't want you... Relax, there's plenty more who do. And if you're a good guy and don't beat you wife/girlfriend, don't have a drinking problem, don't cheat, and don't creep women out women will find you when you least expect it. They're like moths attracted to a bug zapper. You just have to be happy and care free at the time.
https://youtu.be/m1Pl6iqgFVw
We were together for 9 months and happy for 8 of those. We met in college last Fall in Drama and shared a lot of the same friends. The only problem we had was with her not putting in the time to pass her classes this semester. I had to do her work for one class just so she wouldn't end up on probation. She got an A instead of 3 F's last semester. I was pissed at her for wasting all that time.
She dumped me for less than a day in May because I was such an asshole about her not doing her work. I turned it around on her, then we got back together and everything was good. That was until she started hanging out with her female co-workers. She went out on a girl's night out and started blowing me off. Now, I don't know about you gentlemen but that's one of my pet peeves in a relationship. I don't allow people to use me and then ignore me repeatedly.
This wasn't just for a few weeks, she blew me off on her birthday to hang out with her new gal pals, stopped responding to my texts and stopped calling me back. But then she still wanted to take me to a movie, hang out for half a day, and come over to get some dick and play video games.
So I sent her a text yesterday that said "I am not getting what I need out of this relationship... You're about to lose me if things don't change." To which she replied, "Well then I guess I am gonna have to lose you." I called her up right after and told her that it didn't have to be this way. I got some bull about her not wanting to be tied down. So I shouted "THEN LEAVE!" And told her to come over tomorrow for her stuff.
Didn't hear from her all day until my doorbell rang around 9:30pm. She got a ride from her new bestie (the worst girl of the group). I was about to take the trash out, I had my keys and the trash in my hands, so I had to put everything down and answer the door. I already had all her stuff in a box. When I turned around she had already grabbed it and asked if that was everything. I told her to hold on, grabbed the bottle of cranberry juiced I bought for her for her period and put it in a plastic bag.
We smoked a little weed in a vaporizer, she made a reference about something I sent her in a tweet she's ignored for days, I made a joke about it and she laughed. She asked me about getting my stuff back. I told her I don't want it, that she can throw it away. I gave her a hug at the door, kissed her forehead, said "Goodbye honey", and told her to enjoy her life (got a "You too!"), and went to take the trash out. I barely got a glimpse but her driver was that bitch that convinced her to break up with me before.
Now, I know this is the internet and messages don't come across but throughout the entire interaction with her I was indifferent to her. I got the tip from Patrice O'Neal [vid below]. I got over the breakup yesterday after a few minutes. Then I realized how easy it will be for me to get another girlfriend if I wanted. She on the other hand is going to be missing out because I was way too good to her, which was part of the problem... She had some insecurities and general depression, but I stuck through that until she drove me away. Well, I kinda let her abuse my love so I left.
I was her first love and treated her very special. We never fought, the sex was incredible every time, and I did every little thing I could to make her happy... Including buying her chocolate and cranberry juice for her period (which started today). I guess you could say I spoiled her. Towards the end she didn't have to carry her weight with the relationship because I was taking care of everything. The only thing I asked for was for her to not prioritize me last.
The beauty of all of this is that I'm experienced enough to know how this plays out. I've through a divorce and lot of breakups and was on a forum for divorce for a few years. These things tend to follow a pattern and I know what's next. She's not going to know what's she's lost until it's too late and she's given the freedom that she thought she wanted for a few weeks. She'll see what I've know for years... Women who work together cannot be friends, especially if they are all single and competing with each other for attention. And I know how to breakup like a champ.
I probably shouldn't have broken up with her the night before she goes to a party but I don't care. She can bang everyone there, I'm never going to sleep with her again. Though I doubt would happen this soon.... Meanwhile, I'm gonna hang out and work on homework here, workout, and get ready for school next month where I will find someone else. By the time she's realized what she's lost I will be making another geeky girl giggle.
I'm rambling here, I know. But the greatest lesson I learned from life was how replaceable women are. If your wife or girlfriend doesn't want you... Relax, there's plenty more who do. And if you're a good guy and don't beat you wife/girlfriend, don't have a drinking problem, don't cheat, and don't creep women out women will find you when you least expect it. They're like moths attracted to a bug zapper. You just have to be happy and care free at the time.
https://youtu.be/m1Pl6iqgFVw
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