Hi all
So I had a semi long relationship with a woman who has a genital herpers. For those who don't know about this STD it usually transmits when its active, but can also (but rarely) transmit when its not active and during our time she never had it active. Her type of herpes was HSV-1 which usually causes oral herpes (so kinda the better one). Also it transmits worse from women to men than men to woman. We always wore a condom, but I would be lying if I said that our private parts never touched during the foreplay. It has been over a year since our first time and about 2 months since the last time and I have never had any of the symptoms. So basically if I have it I don't get any of the symptoms therefore its passive. And those who don't know this STD can be either passive or active and also there is no way to test it unless its active and you get blisters.
My question basically is am I obligated to tell all my future partners (casual and serious) that I have had a partner who had this STD? Even if we plan to use a condom anyways. Or can I just say that "I'm clean, but I could have something that doesn't show up in the tests"?
Opinions?
So I had a semi long relationship with a woman who has a genital herpers. For those who don't know about this STD it usually transmits when its active, but can also (but rarely) transmit when its not active and during our time she never had it active. Her type of herpes was HSV-1 which usually causes oral herpes (so kinda the better one). Also it transmits worse from women to men than men to woman. We always wore a condom, but I would be lying if I said that our private parts never touched during the foreplay. It has been over a year since our first time and about 2 months since the last time and I have never had any of the symptoms. So basically if I have it I don't get any of the symptoms therefore its passive. And those who don't know this STD can be either passive or active and also there is no way to test it unless its active and you get blisters.
My question basically is am I obligated to tell all my future partners (casual and serious) that I have had a partner who had this STD? Even if we plan to use a condom anyways. Or can I just say that "I'm clean, but I could have something that doesn't show up in the tests"?
Opinions?
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