Why/how size doesn't matter questions???

[DayoldMeat]

1: Does a large size that "fills" you up greater stronger sensations than someone more average? (if so how to get around it) - I can only speak for myself but feeling wise is mainly at the entrance and cervix. I dont like my cervix hit/knocked/banged. Some women do, others don't.

2: If it hurts in some positions will that persons anatomy learn to "take it" or rather learn to adjust to it so there's no more pain? - I can't go on top. I have tried with all four partners. I haven't been learned to take it. Each time i tried, it hurt the exact same. Didnt matter if we had already had sex, how turned on I was, how slowly or even how drunk I was.

3: Is it true that the vagina remembers the size and shape of a partner if they have been sleeping together for a while? - I dont think the vagina stays a certain shape for long periods of time without something in it. As person you get into a rountine with sex, turned on by cues as you know where they lead to. You get more relaxed with a man the more sex you have with him.

4: How can one feel just as good if that partner has been with a larger guy recently and has been penetrated deeper? Honestly because of connection, or lust, or love, or technique. Not many women get off thru penetration alone, and if they do, alot of people say its the man's groin rubbing/hitting clit that actually triggers the orgasm.

5: How can such a difference in size not matter?? (excluding the factors stated above) unless you are very under average or very over average... size doesnt matter so much to the woman. More to the man's mind, confidence, sexual being.

You seriously just fixed me for the most part these questions have been eating me alive not knowing. I guess the good news is she keeps calling to get back to "get together" so ...Thank you so much for the detailed answer this is how I think for some weird reason...over analysing

[Pegasus]

Basically after the first time they hooked up I freaked and asked way too many questions. =( dumb on my part cause now I am suffering

This is a standard female ploy to break your confidence we get it a lot onsite .

[DayoldMeat]

This is a standard female ploy to break your confidence we get it a lot onsite .

Pegasus...that ploy has worked for the past 90 days since this all went down lol. I've ended up losing 15lbs from not eating as much loss of sleep etc etc. Doing better this past week back to the gym and school and PE but man its really hard to let go of knowing that and the images that pop up in your head. One day at a time

[CrouchetyOldMan]

Bigger than what? when you started or where you are now?
If he's not working on it - even if he's 'sightly' bigger now .. whose the one improving?
If he was "all that" she wouldn't be returning..
(Literally everything she has done affirms you) - except for the insecurity parts that you somehow inserted.

[NOWHARD]

Hi There are a lot of guys on here all aiming for the 8X6, but if you have read through the women's perspective your read most women have had there best sex with smaller guys, even Dr Betty Dodson says the same thing, she says its all to do with the motion of the ocean and not the size of his dick that counts.

So good foreplay works all the time, if you think about you can get a women to orgasm with just a finger.

NOWHARD

[DayoldMeat]

Bigger than what? when you started or where you are now?
If he's not working on it - even if he's 'sightly' bigger now .. whose the one improving?
If he was "all that" she wouldn't be returning..
(Literally everything she has done affirms you) - except for the insecurity parts that you somehow inserted.

Yea true what bothered me is she said significantly bigger.. boy that level of anger I felt that day lmao I think once I reach my PE goal of 7+ I will forget about this and it will no longer matter. Sadly this blow to my confidence has really shaken me to my core to where Im actually nervous to find another partner to be with or even sleep with her again. The thought of her having something that big in her is a turn off for me and fucks with my head.

[Ethanjed23]

Tbh with you it really doesn't matter as long as you dont have like a micro dick

[Ehhhm]

Well, to turn the tables, i have lived most of my grown-up life knowing that i was in the smaller end of the spectrum (thinking there was nothing to change that), and every girl i was with probably had several lovers with bigger d*cks than me. Statistics say that at least 4 out of 5 would be bigger.

I have never gotten bad reviews (besides a couple of my significants have said something like "well, you are not big").
So to me, having only girls who have had a lot of bigger guys, it is a fact of life. Never stopped me, and not something i have worried about, when i got them in the sack. Only worries have been my own - like some positions have been harder to reach when you are short, and not letting potentials see my flaccid before the deed (my flaccid being exceptionally retracted always).

So, deal with it - chances are, there will always be at least one in a grown-up woman's history, that was bigger than you. If you get laid, and she seems happy, call it a victory.

[Zyxciz]

Ehhhm, how's your flaccid now after having done PE? Is it bigger and less retracted?

[Ehhhm]

Ehhhm, how's your flaccid now after having done PE? Is it bigger and less retracted?

It's almost never retracted, and hanging full and beautiful.
From a retracted about 3 inch bone-pressed to most days hanging 5.5 bone-pressed. And it seems fuller and moves more freely around. I am really happy with the result (still want more, but so far )

If i wasn't in a relationship, i would not worry any more about potentials seeing my flaccid before