I 've been with my girlfriend for over a year and seven months. For almost a year sex has been not that frequent. We are 20 years old and we have intercourse once a week (at best) and some fooling around maybe once more. The thing is we have had our issues that we try to resolve but it really bothers me that she wants so little sex. So I have masturbated my way through the relationship which is sad.
I 've read an article that couples who have sex once a week are the happiest. So I was like okay that's nice, I am on a good track but yesterday I spoke with my best friend about condoms and I said I order them online because its cheaper. And then we talked about how long it takes for us to empty a dozen-pack of condoms. For me it was +/- 3 months for him a little bit under 2 weeks. Then I realized what the f*ck I am doing with my life. I want to experiment in sex have fun, we really do have a great time f*cking and I always make her cum really hard. But it is really rare so I feel like I can not train myself to be a better lover and try new things.
She also realizes that I don't get enough sex and when she is sad she say "If you were with another girl you would get loads of sex" but I tell her it's alright? How do you think I should approach the matter in order to increase the frequency?
I 've read an article that couples who have sex once a week are the happiest. So I was like okay that's nice, I am on a good track but yesterday I spoke with my best friend about condoms and I said I order them online because its cheaper. And then we talked about how long it takes for us to empty a dozen-pack of condoms. For me it was +/- 3 months for him a little bit under 2 weeks. Then I realized what the f*ck I am doing with my life. I want to experiment in sex have fun, we really do have a great time f*cking and I always make her cum really hard. But it is really rare so I feel like I can not train myself to be a better lover and try new things.
She also realizes that I don't get enough sex and when she is sad she say "If you were with another girl you would get loads of sex" but I tell her it's alright? How do you think I should approach the matter in order to increase the frequency?
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