Okay I am becoming more and more confused as to what women want, how I am supposed to be. Now I was raised well I feel with good morals, I treat people with respect and I rarely talk or gossip behind other people's back. I guess people consider me a "Nice Guy" yet I don't kiss up to others or women or brag actually others tell me I am "quietly confident", humble I suppose. I mean I believe In being a good, nice person yet having his own life outside women (which I am still working on) and being more bold in my sexuality. I hear this a lot too today (no joke) that "bad boys are in right now". Like it's "cool" or something as if it's a trend. Wer'e constantly told that "Nice guys don't get laid" and that being an "asshole" or treating women like crap is the really the only way to get a woman's interest. Maybe it's just me but I can't do the whole "asshole" thing it's just not in my nature. I believe in being a good person without being a doormat and at a woman's every beck and call. I mean look back at the old movies in the 1930's/1940's men were nice, polite and good men yet they didn't let women walk all over them and they were in charge of the relationship and made the desisions. They took the lead. I hear this a lot too "he's too nice" and "Nice guys are boring" maybe I am wrong here but I am thinking maybe it could that "Nice Guys" aren't turning women on because they're not sexual or coming across as sexual to women, hence why being too nice and friendly results guys being put in the "friendzone". I truly don't believe a man should need to be "bad" or treat women with direspect to attract them. That doesn't make sense to me. The way I see it is women fall for the "Bad Boys" because they're open with their sexuality and have a lot of confidence. Come on no sane woman in her right mind wants a guy to beat her or be abusive.
What do you guys think? I kind of think the whole "Nice guys finish last" statement is bullshit because you don't have to be mean or "bad" to get women.
What do you guys think? I kind of think the whole "Nice guys finish last" statement is bullshit because you don't have to be mean or "bad" to get women.
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