Firstly, I was with this girl a couple of years ago and I'll be the first to hold my hands up to the fact I was unfaithful, a major regret in my life. She's a few years younger than me (I'm 27 she's 21). We actually broke up due to me wanting to move abroad at the time, which I no longer want to do
We stayed very good friends throughout it. And got very close in recent months, we got back together in April.
I'm quite an independent person and was happy alone, but she brought me back around.
Now around 7 months ago, 3 months before getting back with her, I started having sexual difficulties (mild ED, PE, HF) and she couldn't be any more supportive. She even went as far as saying she'd stay with me even if we never had sex again. It's not that bad though, despite some failures we've had some good sex (and no pde5 drugs used, she won't let me).
However what is getting to me is the possessiveness and lack of trust. She hates any female friend I have. Hell, she even gets funny when I chill with my guy friends. She looks through my Facebook likes and grills me on literally every girl she sees who she doesn't know. And I mean really grills me. I recently had to cut off a female friend due to my GF being paranoid about her. When I call her out on this behaviour she just says "that's the way I am, I won't change". She also gets funny when I smoke cannabis as if it's cocaine or something.
I know the lack of trust is because of what me (and other guys) did to her, by should I feel bad for feeling suffocated? Will the trust ever come back? My friends say to leave her but I care way too much.
What do you all think?
We stayed very good friends throughout it. And got very close in recent months, we got back together in April.
I'm quite an independent person and was happy alone, but she brought me back around.
Now around 7 months ago, 3 months before getting back with her, I started having sexual difficulties (mild ED, PE, HF) and she couldn't be any more supportive. She even went as far as saying she'd stay with me even if we never had sex again. It's not that bad though, despite some failures we've had some good sex (and no pde5 drugs used, she won't let me).
However what is getting to me is the possessiveness and lack of trust. She hates any female friend I have. Hell, she even gets funny when I chill with my guy friends. She looks through my Facebook likes and grills me on literally every girl she sees who she doesn't know. And I mean really grills me. I recently had to cut off a female friend due to my GF being paranoid about her. When I call her out on this behaviour she just says "that's the way I am, I won't change". She also gets funny when I smoke cannabis as if it's cocaine or something.
I know the lack of trust is because of what me (and other guys) did to her, by should I feel bad for feeling suffocated? Will the trust ever come back? My friends say to leave her but I care way too much.
What do you all think?
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