Originally Posted by
darren333
Thanks for the replies,
The only thing I'd say here is when we got back together, we agreed the past is the past and it wouldn't be mentioned yet she still does sometimes. The last time she did I shut her down because it's clearly not helping things now.
I wasn't expecting it to be as simple as that, but she even admitted she hasn't got over it. I'm just concerned she never will.
As for my sexual difficulties, she knows I have severe performance anxiety. We probably have sex once or twice a week but that's because of logistics as well as she still lives at home with a dad that doesn't like me, so it always has to be at mine.
I know she wants more sex, and despite me having trouble before we got back together (which she knew about), if I don't sort myself out, I know she'll think I'm not attracted or even worse, getting it elsewhere...