I have been dealing with so much in regards to relationship issues. Being seriously damaged by my ex really left me unable to feel anything for anyone.
I recently met this wonderful girl, we spent the last two days together, laughing kissing cuddling. No sexual stuff other then touch pretty much entirely over clothes. (Which I prefer, as I tend to go soft during sexual situations if I'm not comfortable with the person).
However, we were talking and she said to me she had to be honest about something..
She tells me she has genital herpes... (was given to her by a partner who knew he had it but didn't tell her).
I'm so fucking bummed right now. I get 0% sensation from sex with a condom, literally like having sex with the air.
She takes a medication to suppress it, but that doesn't make it 100% not spreadable.
I don't want to risk it. I'm so sad because this girl is exactly my type, both mentally & physically.
Just wondering if anyone has any advice, or if they know of anything that can further reduce chance of contraction of the virus.
It's stuff like this that just shows me how much of a joke my life. It's always SOMETHING.
I recently met this wonderful girl, we spent the last two days together, laughing kissing cuddling. No sexual stuff other then touch pretty much entirely over clothes. (Which I prefer, as I tend to go soft during sexual situations if I'm not comfortable with the person).
However, we were talking and she said to me she had to be honest about something..
She tells me she has genital herpes... (was given to her by a partner who knew he had it but didn't tell her).
I'm so fucking bummed right now. I get 0% sensation from sex with a condom, literally like having sex with the air.
She takes a medication to suppress it, but that doesn't make it 100% not spreadable.
I don't want to risk it. I'm so sad because this girl is exactly my type, both mentally & physically.
Just wondering if anyone has any advice, or if they know of anything that can further reduce chance of contraction of the virus.
It's stuff like this that just shows me how much of a joke my life. It's always SOMETHING.
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