Hey guys,
Me and my ex gf broke up in October, we were kissing, hugging during the breakup, so the breakup went during good terms. I told her that I need time to recover and to clear my mind, she said fine and text her when I'm ready to talk to her. I texted her in November, we started talking everyday. We talked like before we broke up, without saying things like "love you" etc. I didn't really know what to do or what I want from her, I just went with the flow.
During November she said she misses me and I told her to stop and don't make this harder than it already is. I asked her about what is our relationship after the breakup if we talk everyday. She said she doesn't know, she knows that we can't be friends or can't be friends for long but at the moment she feels like we are friends. I told her we can't be friends for too long because it won't work, she answered that she directly highlighted the "at the moment".
In the last week of November she asked if I want to see her dog and maybe go take a walk with her and her dog and talk. I didn't know what to answer, I said okay, why not. I went to her place, we obviously didn't go to take a walk with her dog. We watched Netflix in her room instead during the whole day in her bed. She cooked for me and it was nice, the whole day.
I thought we won't see each other again but I was wrong. In December she asked again, if I want, I can go to her and watch movies again in her bed. I went again, she allowed me to touch her legs and her face but nothing else happened. This happened again for like 5-6 times and I go to her place this Friday and I don't know what to do.
She is very weird while I'm with her in the bed, if I start texting on my phone she begins to stare my phone and asks about my friends, girls. She is more jealous than when we were together. Always asking about others, girls, asking about what I'm doing, what I'm going to do and with whom. If I don't touch her during watching the movies she starts to poke me, so it seems like it bothers her if I don't care about her.
She still knows the code for my phone and when I was out in the kitchen she went through my phone and my Messenger. Asked about girls and etc. If I come up with some dumb shit like I go to a date with someone from Tinder she gets very annoyed.
So yeah, what do you guys think about this whole "thing"? Should I just ignore her in her bed or try something else? (I still have feelings for her, or I'm just attracted to her idk)
Me and my ex gf broke up in October, we were kissing, hugging during the breakup, so the breakup went during good terms. I told her that I need time to recover and to clear my mind, she said fine and text her when I'm ready to talk to her. I texted her in November, we started talking everyday. We talked like before we broke up, without saying things like "love you" etc. I didn't really know what to do or what I want from her, I just went with the flow.
During November she said she misses me and I told her to stop and don't make this harder than it already is. I asked her about what is our relationship after the breakup if we talk everyday. She said she doesn't know, she knows that we can't be friends or can't be friends for long but at the moment she feels like we are friends. I told her we can't be friends for too long because it won't work, she answered that she directly highlighted the "at the moment".
In the last week of November she asked if I want to see her dog and maybe go take a walk with her and her dog and talk. I didn't know what to answer, I said okay, why not. I went to her place, we obviously didn't go to take a walk with her dog. We watched Netflix in her room instead during the whole day in her bed. She cooked for me and it was nice, the whole day.
I thought we won't see each other again but I was wrong. In December she asked again, if I want, I can go to her and watch movies again in her bed. I went again, she allowed me to touch her legs and her face but nothing else happened. This happened again for like 5-6 times and I go to her place this Friday and I don't know what to do.
She is very weird while I'm with her in the bed, if I start texting on my phone she begins to stare my phone and asks about my friends, girls. She is more jealous than when we were together. Always asking about others, girls, asking about what I'm doing, what I'm going to do and with whom. If I don't touch her during watching the movies she starts to poke me, so it seems like it bothers her if I don't care about her.
She still knows the code for my phone and when I was out in the kitchen she went through my phone and my Messenger. Asked about girls and etc. If I come up with some dumb shit like I go to a date with someone from Tinder she gets very annoyed.
So yeah, what do you guys think about this whole "thing"? Should I just ignore her in her bed or try something else? (I still have feelings for her, or I'm just attracted to her idk)
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