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    Guys, big and small - I am relating this to relationships. The infamous question, "Does penis size matter" - YES, and here is why. (Don't worry this is positive)

    First, an obvious one before we get into the main body - you and your spouse need to sit down and discuss all of your desires and wishes for the other to achieve. You should always be pushing each other. Good example, to work out and be fit - that's not a bad thing - I shouldn't be having to say this.

    Can love look past things like, small breasts/butt, small penis, small muscles etc. Yes - Yes, you can look past that with love of course.

    "It's about how you connect with the person", sure. However this is a separate issue. I think it's a strawman argument to say "a big penis is not what women only care about, or that it's how you use it".

    Well no duh that's not what all women care about and of course you have to be a good lover - you can't just stick it in and think that's good enough. (That is an argument commonly brought up)

    Fact is, people have preferences and preferences cluster between the sexes. Many women find being tall to be attractive. Many men find well developed breast and buttocks to be attractive. Does that mean that's all women care about or men care about? Obviously not. So it's a non-sequitur to suggest things like, "it's communication that's important, you have fingers and a tongue etc"

    People say they have to learn to love themselves, for example - short men. (I'm average at 5'8 - 5'9 here so i'm not tall myself). IF a short man could press a button and instantly become tall, he likely would at least contemplate it knowing how females value that trait. That isn't a bad thing... It's also not bad to be short, but it's also not bad to want certain traits - even if they are unattainable to you.

    A woman saying a "big dick" doesn't matter, is like a man saying big tits and a big ass "doesn't matter". Sure, in the grand scheme of things it's not going to save you if you are being shitty in a relationship, however; a woman having a thick (not chubby or fat), but thick body is feminine and attractive.

    A man with a big penis, is attractive - it's masculine. Women yield, men assert.. There is more to it but I don't want to kill anyone with a book.

    TL;DR : Preferences are separate from love, I argue that yes size of the penis does matter. Saying "you have fingers, tongue etc. It's okay to be small or average" is a complete distraction from the original point, no shit it's okay to be average or small that's not the main idea. I would be willing to bet that on average a woman definitely likes and wants a bigger penis, JUST like I would be willing to bet that on average men prefer women with a big butt and breast. We are talking about factors of attraction and preferences here, NOT what keeps people in love.

    You and your SO should always talk about what you expect from each other (it's very exciting and fun), I highly suggest not closeting this. Hold each other accountable to communication but be real with your desires.

  • #2
    If size mattered God or Nature, which ever you prefer, would have put our dicks on our forehead for all to see. Nice story; I don't buy it.
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      What exactly do you not buy?

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      • #4
        Everything past the first sentence.But that first sentence was really good.
        The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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        • #5
          Want to elaborate? I feel this is good discussion for everyone on here.

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          • #6
            Okay; so what attracts you to a woman?
            The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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            • #7
              Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
              Okay; so what attracts you to a woman?
              For me personally her smile when she sees me.
              A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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              • #8
                A question isn't answered with a question. Good attempt to avoid though

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by muffinbutton View Post
                  A question isn't answered with a question. Good attempt to avoid though
                  So if you answer my question just maybe you'll learn something. If you just want to verbally joust well I don't have time for that.
                  The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                    So if you answer my question just maybe you'll learn something.
                    Look in the mirror for this one bud. The moment you think you know something you close the door to new information.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by muffinbutton View Post
                      Guys, big and small - I am relating this to relationships. The infamous question, "Does penis size matter" - YES, and here is why. (Don't worry this is positive)

                      ... I argue that yes size of the penis does matter. Saying "you have fingers, tongue etc. It's okay to be small or average" is a complete distraction from the original point, no shit it's okay to be average or small that's not the main idea. I would be willing to bet that on average a woman definitely likes and wants a bigger penis, JUST like I would be willing to bet that on average men prefer women with a big butt and breast. We are talking about factors of attraction and preferences here, NOT what keeps people in love.
                      This little chestnut comes up every few weeks here on the 'Gym, and we go back and forth about it. In the end a few men say it does, and a few say it doesn't.

                      Here are some quotes from women in answer to a similar question (you may notice that some say size matters, other say it doesn't):

                      Why do they say size doesn’t matter but then get curious about guys who are well endowed?
                      Why not just be honest about it and say it does matter? are they afraid they'd ostracize a majority of their realistic options since most guys are average?

                      “To some it does, to some it doesn't. Doesn't matter to me”

                      “Penis size is uninteresting to me.”

                      “There's a lot of things that go into good sex. Size is just one small part.”

                      “Most women would rather have a 4 incher who knows what they're doing really good, than an 8 incher who just lays there.”

                      “I guess because they're unusual. Doesn't mean they're any better than average. In fact, in my experience, average is way better.”

                      “Because ultimately it doesn't. We are all body bags of meat anyway, we will get old and saggy, brittle and broken.
                      For some people size doesn't matter. It's the person. Not only that, but it's not something you could change if it was an issue so why say that? It just hurts feelings.
                      You could say breast size doesn't matter, then why get curious about well endowed women?”

                      “All I know is, there is such a thing as too big.”

                      “I don't actually care about dick size”

                      “My level of attractionis primarily based on interpersonal chemistry, looks - including size - aresecondary for me.”

                      “Not me. As long as you use it... And me, right, I'm happy.
                      Now I DO like a guy that cums a lot, and then fills me up.Love a good creampie. But it's not a deal breaker as long as I'm getting afilling.”

                      “It seems to be a matter of preference, but the majority of my friends seem to be "not really"”
                      “I have met a few. I think some other women prefer bigger ones from an aesthetic point of view. When it comes to actually having sex, there aren't that many size queens.”

                      “Sometimes you just have to try it to say that you have. It doesn't mean the experience is going to be as satisfying. Some friends relish the challenge, it’s like taking on a large penis is like climbing Mount Everest for them - it's a great achievement.”

                      “I wouldn't date someonewho just had a big dick, but knowing they had it would make them extraattractive. I think it's just another way I can be sexually compatible withsomeone”

                      “I wouldn't say I'm a size Queen, but knowing it's big can bea mental turn on. And yeah, thick > long”

                      “Same reason you don't prefer bigger pickles but you're curious when apparently there's a bigger than you've seen pickle to go watch.”

                      “It's like the challenge of eating the world's hottest curry! It might be full of flavour and the meat might be juicy but pain is no doubt involved.
                      Sure, you can handle it and it's nice every once in a while, but nothing quite compares to a well-cooked Massaman or Kashmiri without all the searing pain. You can take your time and really enjoy all that those dishes have to offer and savour every bite.
                      And that's why I don't prefer massive cock...”

                      “Just like big breasts, they don’t matter too much during sex, unless you know what you’re doing with them. But they’re really nice to look at”

                      “To brag to friends”

                      “They don't have to worry about feeling loose. Girls often get self-conscious about their vaginas being too loose, and you can imagine how these fears would get even worse when they're with guys who aren't well endowed. But a guy who has a large penis is never going to feel the looseness of their vaginas”

                      “Visual Excitement: bigger looks better: It is exciting visually… just like men love the look of big breasts. Admit it, big firm breasts look delicious. That's the way women feel when looking at a big firm penis. It is a natural thing. Big is impressive.”

                      “I've just always liked a challenge.”
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                      • #12
                        i am with Cusp the OP wants to Joust and has no new info .

                        That said there are some women who are into it and some who are not same as breasts . I would have to say more men are into breasts than women into big dicks but meh I don't feel like jousting either .

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                        • #13
                          The myopic porn induced vision of the young. Bottom line; if you're not a woman you have no idea of what they prefer. What they say and how they feel are different things.
                          The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                          • #14
                            If size didn't matter would this forum be here. Would products be sold? It matters to some degree in life.
                            I want to be as big as possible. I'm greedy.
                            I want more curves too. I guess I'm really greedy.

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                            • #15
                              We're here for what we think they think. Well actually I'm only here for the cookies.
                              The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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