Guys, big and small - I am relating this to relationships. The infamous question, "Does penis size matter" - YES, and here is why. (Don't worry this is positive)
First, an obvious one before we get into the main body - you and your spouse need to sit down and discuss all of your desires and wishes for the other to achieve. You should always be pushing each other. Good example, to work out and be fit - that's not a bad thing - I shouldn't be having to say this.
Can love look past things like, small breasts/butt, small penis, small muscles etc. Yes - Yes, you can look past that with love of course.
"It's about how you connect with the person", sure. However this is a separate issue. I think it's a strawman argument to say "a big penis is not what women only care about, or that it's how you use it".
Well no duh that's not what all women care about and of course you have to be a good lover - you can't just stick it in and think that's good enough. (That is an argument commonly brought up)
Fact is, people have preferences and preferences cluster between the sexes. Many women find being tall to be attractive. Many men find well developed breast and buttocks to be attractive. Does that mean that's all women care about or men care about? Obviously not. So it's a non-sequitur to suggest things like, "it's communication that's important, you have fingers and a tongue etc"
People say they have to learn to love themselves, for example - short men. (I'm average at 5'8 - 5'9 here so i'm not tall myself). IF a short man could press a button and instantly become tall, he likely would at least contemplate it knowing how females value that trait. That isn't a bad thing... It's also not bad to be short, but it's also not bad to want certain traits - even if they are unattainable to you.
A woman saying a "big dick" doesn't matter, is like a man saying big tits and a big ass "doesn't matter". Sure, in the grand scheme of things it's not going to save you if you are being shitty in a relationship, however; a woman having a thick (not chubby or fat), but thick body is feminine and attractive.
A man with a big penis, is attractive - it's masculine. Women yield, men assert.. There is more to it but I don't want to kill anyone with a book.
TL;DR : Preferences are separate from love, I argue that yes size of the penis does matter. Saying "you have fingers, tongue etc. It's okay to be small or average" is a complete distraction from the original point, no shit it's okay to be average or small that's not the main idea. I would be willing to bet that on average a woman definitely likes and wants a bigger penis, JUST like I would be willing to bet that on average men prefer women with a big butt and breast. We are talking about factors of attraction and preferences here, NOT what keeps people in love.
You and your SO should always talk about what you expect from each other (it's very exciting and fun), I highly suggest not closeting this. Hold each other accountable to communication but be real with your desires.
First, an obvious one before we get into the main body - you and your spouse need to sit down and discuss all of your desires and wishes for the other to achieve. You should always be pushing each other. Good example, to work out and be fit - that's not a bad thing - I shouldn't be having to say this.
Can love look past things like, small breasts/butt, small penis, small muscles etc. Yes - Yes, you can look past that with love of course.
"It's about how you connect with the person", sure. However this is a separate issue. I think it's a strawman argument to say "a big penis is not what women only care about, or that it's how you use it".
Well no duh that's not what all women care about and of course you have to be a good lover - you can't just stick it in and think that's good enough. (That is an argument commonly brought up)
Fact is, people have preferences and preferences cluster between the sexes. Many women find being tall to be attractive. Many men find well developed breast and buttocks to be attractive. Does that mean that's all women care about or men care about? Obviously not. So it's a non-sequitur to suggest things like, "it's communication that's important, you have fingers and a tongue etc"
People say they have to learn to love themselves, for example - short men. (I'm average at 5'8 - 5'9 here so i'm not tall myself). IF a short man could press a button and instantly become tall, he likely would at least contemplate it knowing how females value that trait. That isn't a bad thing... It's also not bad to be short, but it's also not bad to want certain traits - even if they are unattainable to you.
A woman saying a "big dick" doesn't matter, is like a man saying big tits and a big ass "doesn't matter". Sure, in the grand scheme of things it's not going to save you if you are being shitty in a relationship, however; a woman having a thick (not chubby or fat), but thick body is feminine and attractive.
A man with a big penis, is attractive - it's masculine. Women yield, men assert.. There is more to it but I don't want to kill anyone with a book.
TL;DR : Preferences are separate from love, I argue that yes size of the penis does matter. Saying "you have fingers, tongue etc. It's okay to be small or average" is a complete distraction from the original point, no shit it's okay to be average or small that's not the main idea. I would be willing to bet that on average a woman definitely likes and wants a bigger penis, JUST like I would be willing to bet that on average men prefer women with a big butt and breast. We are talking about factors of attraction and preferences here, NOT what keeps people in love.
You and your SO should always talk about what you expect from each other (it's very exciting and fun), I highly suggest not closeting this. Hold each other accountable to communication but be real with your desires.
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