First thing that crosses my mind is that people have a different idea of forgiveness than I do .
So a person says they forgave someone completely then quit their job took the kids out of school and moved interstate so they never had to have anything to do with them again . Hmmm . Most I ever do to avoid people I don't forgive is cross the street . Once I was thinking of joining a canoe club then decided I didn't like the people so I didn't go ahead does that count ?
Often I get you have to forgive people so you don't upset yourself . The stress you put on yourself yada yada .
Well here is an idea don't stress about it and don't forgive them and don't move interstate . Hey live your best life that is the best revenge . You have to be at home with the idea that people can hurt you and get away with it . That is the way the universe works . On the other hand I like to think at least some of them became better people later hard as it is for me to believe . It is possible that at least some of them were not inately bad to the core .
On the other hand some of them I just believe were and are evil . That being the case and since I try to avoid hypocrisy I often do not forgive people . I just try and be mellow about how I react to it , thus I do not move interstate .
On the other hand if karma dictates that they die in pain I am not unhappy about it .
Anyway I have some differences with well known author Mark Manson on this .
So a person says they forgave someone completely then quit their job took the kids out of school and moved interstate so they never had to have anything to do with them again . Hmmm . Most I ever do to avoid people I don't forgive is cross the street . Once I was thinking of joining a canoe club then decided I didn't like the people so I didn't go ahead does that count ?
Often I get you have to forgive people so you don't upset yourself . The stress you put on yourself yada yada .
Well here is an idea don't stress about it and don't forgive them and don't move interstate . Hey live your best life that is the best revenge . You have to be at home with the idea that people can hurt you and get away with it . That is the way the universe works . On the other hand I like to think at least some of them became better people later hard as it is for me to believe . It is possible that at least some of them were not inately bad to the core .
On the other hand some of them I just believe were and are evil . That being the case and since I try to avoid hypocrisy I often do not forgive people . I just try and be mellow about how I react to it , thus I do not move interstate .
On the other hand if karma dictates that they die in pain I am not unhappy about it .
Anyway I have some differences with well known author Mark Manson on this .
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